However, I will also share my resource list with you so that you can contact a some of my favorite local doulas (ranging from Delray Beach and Boca Raton doulas to Fort Lauderdale and Miami doulas) so that they can help you prepare and go over various labor pain coping strategies, especially if you are planning an unmedicated birth (or even leading up to
getting an epidural during labor) it is good to learn about your options now so that you can be prepared, know what to expect and know what you want.
New moms - to - be often have a difficult time deciding between a natural childbirth and
getting an epidural during labor.
Over 3/4 of all women report
getting an epidural during labor, and like I said, I can understand why!
Not exact matches
Although I did not have an
epidural with either my daughter's hospital birth or my son's home birth, there was a point
during my induced labor with my daughter that an option like this would have appealed to me (had I not had complications including low platelets that prevented me from
getting an
epidural anyway).
With my first, I had problems
during labor (don't
get me started) that resulted in an
epidural (I wasn't progressing and couldn't relax enough to let my body do its job; the
epidural worked, I was pushing within 15 minutes of receiving it).
Luckily, I had learned a very painful lesson
during the delivery of my first son — I didn't waste any time on
getting my
epidural this time.
Somewhere along the way, I went from the idea of
getting an
epidural and having a classic hospital birth when I imagined having a baby, to becoming a total hippie who never dreamed of using pain meds
during labor, knew I would have a doula and by the second time around, would be having my baby at home.
Epidurals cut off the hormonal communication between mother and baby
during labor and the baby
gets in trouble.
I had already gone through 25 hours of labour before finally
getting an
epidural, but the pain
during each feed was excruciating and only ended when he stopped feeding.
On the other hand, if you want the option of
getting an
epidural, or you're very anxious about something going wrong
during labor and delivery and don't want to chance having to transfer to a hospital, you'll want to be in a hospital from the
get - go.
I will admit now that there was a moment
during my labour that I thought «Ok, I understand why people
get epidurals, but I want to do this on my own» — and I did.