From this centrality flow all the essential characteristics of religious life: prayer, the liturgy and particularly the Eucharist, community life, mission to the world, total consecration and radical
gift of self in perseverance.
The Gift of Self in Marriageis a broadly sound book, but not without some weaknesses.
Priestly celibacy, then, is
the gift of self in and with Christ to his Church and expresses the priest's service to the Church in and with the Lord.»
Mgr Burke offers a profound meditation upon the role of the feminine and of
gift of self in reaching human fulfilment.
The conjugal act, profoundly unitive, isa procreative kind of act, and the gift of the child is to be profoundly linked to the spouses» incarnate
gift of self in that conjugal, not merely copulatory, act.
Not exact matches
Ask for help,
in part because you realize the person who provides you with that help will automatically feel greater
self - respect,
self - esteem, and
self - worth, because they've received one
of the greatest
gifts of all: knowing they made a difference
in another person's life.
It is certainly possible that the unethical favours at the expense
of of a third party might just be construed as the cost
of gifts in the eyes
of the giver and the receiver and hence become indistinguishable from other forms
of self - interest.»
Best known is his depiction
of the sinner as incurvatus
in se, «curved
in on
self»: Our nature, by the corruption
of the first sin, is so deeply curved
in on itself that it not only bends the best
gifts of God towards itself and enjoys them (as is plain
in the works - righteous and hypocrites), or rather even uses God himself
in order to attain these
gifts, but it also fails to realize that it so wickedly, curvedly, and viciously seeks all things, even God, for its own sake.
Again, from Scruton: «[A] vow is a
self - dedication, a
gift of oneself» — open - ended
in its commitment to a shared destiny between parties.
If she (and you and I for that matter) understood the love within the Most Holy Trinity and how that love is life - giving, one can begin to understand what love is, the
gift of self involved, I do not believe she could remain
in her present position.
In Ephesians the bible says,» by grace you have been saved, through faith, and this not
of your
self, it is a
gift from God, not by works so no one will boast.»
If one is a Catholic Christian
in particular, one can look at Christ's body on the cross to know the kind
of self -
gift you and I are called to.
The shift
in our understanding
of sex from a sacramental and life - changing encounter to the thing you do with your friends when you're bored has made all
of our relationships shallower and made each
of us less capable
of the profound
gift of self on which marriage is founded.
To Jefferson, the
self - evident truth
of equality was an unearned
gift of the Creator to the nation's citizens that must be respected but that need not apply to slaves
in bondage or to native savages.
In speaking
of the process
of constant
self - creation,
of our continuing need to «reconceive ourselves» — a
gift of the Bard to humans — he is echoing phrases that sprout from the lips
of those who insist on a «multiplicity
of subjective positions,» «potential identities,» and the like.
From these diverse stories
of «thinking Christians» a common theme emerges: the search for truth demands (to paraphrase contributor Kathryn Wiegand) a willingness to die to
self» even to the hopes bequeathed by one's most cherished intellectual
gifts»
in order to be reborn
in Christ.
Nowhere is this more evident than
in the punishment meted out after the Fall, that place where the nakedness which once bespoke trust and mutual
self -
gift now becomes an object
of shame and concealment.
Sarah Bessey makes me want to get to know Jesus all over again, but this time specifically through my womanly flesh, embodied as Christ
self was embodied, engaging God with the glorious
gift of BEING a woman rather than
in spite
of it.
What is the role
of self - examination and
of affirmation from others
in discovering spiritual
gifts?
Further, they should be able to understand the loving and unique significance
of conjugal intercourse, which lies not mainly
in the pleasure it may give the spouses, but
in the unparalleled way by which it expresses the total and exclusive
self -
gift they made to one another
in marrying.
Christians believe that
in Jesus who is called the Christ God's
gift of self to the universe is bestowed definitively and irreversibly.
But the cosmos
in its finitude is unable to receive the boundlessness
of God's
self gift in one instant.
The significant aspect is the personal dimension: God
in self - giving,
in self - relating to the world, placed himself
in a state
of gift.
The special logic
of this theory, after all, is that the Christian philosopher — having surmounted the «aesthetic,» «ethical,» and even
in a sense «religious» stages
of human existence — is uniquely able to enact a return, back to the things
of earth, back to finitude, back to the aesthetic; having found the highest rationality
of being
in God's kenosis — His
self - outpouring —
in the Incarnation, the Christian philosopher is reconciled to the particularity
of flesh and form, recognizes all
of creation as a purely gratuitous
gift of a God
of infinite love, and is able to rejoice
in the levity
of a world created and redeemed purely out
of God's «pleasure.»
In this way, God through his own act
of self - giving constitutes man whose genuine free response completes God's
gift.
For man as spirit - ordered - to - time, time becomes a necessity for placing
self in a state
of gift in return
of God's love.
It's such a universal and familiar reaction it's hard not to see ourselves
in it, particularly those
of us who operate within a culture that idolizes success and
self - sufficiency, where even
gifts are expected to be deserved.
«Christian freedom is not, as St Paul says, a
gift to be used as «an opportunity for
self - indulgence» (Galatians 5:13) but the freedom to give ourselves
in loving service... it has absolutely nothing to do with a truncated notion
of a happiness that is defined — at least
in America —
in terms
of consumer choice.»
But once (within marriage) generosity has been fulfilled
in a particular couple (which only they can determine
in conscience), need «each and every act
of sexual intercourse» be open to the
gift of children without destroying the symbolism
of the conjugal act as complete
self -
gift to each other?
The unmerited
gift of the grace
of God
in spite
of our rotten
selves just seems too good to be true.
We shall propose that when our consciousness is shaped by faith
in the divine promise, as well as by a trust
in the
gift of God's
self - limiting love, we will be able to see
in the cosmos a depth and breadth otherwise obscured.
Christians, however, may understand the decisiveness
of Christ as the moment
in evolution when God's promise and
self -
gift, which have been continually and creatively present to the cosmos from its birth, are embraced by a human being without reservation.
An understanding
of revelation as the
gift of an ever - more - inclusive future rooted
in the kenotic love
of God can help transform the Church's
self - understanding
in a way that would make it more closely related to the needs
of our contemporary world.
The cosmos
in its finitude is unable to receive the boundlessness
of God's
self -
gift in any single instant.
In his evolutionary Christology, Karl Rahner writes that Jesus Christ is God's
gift of self to the universe, bestowed definitively and irreversibly.
The authoritative word given by the Holy Spirit to the Church at the defining and pivotal moment
of Vatican II nearly fifty years ago was especially «made incarnate»
in Britain
in September, 2010, during Benedict's apostolic visit: to seek unity with our separated brethren
in the other Christian confessions, to affirm all that is good and true
in secular culture without
in any way watering down our witness to the truth
of the fullness
of the Christian faith, to declare without apology that the Catholic patrimony
of faith and reason working
in harmony remains a
gift that the twenty - first century desperately needs if it is to avoid
self - destruction, and which it neglects or dismisses at its own peril.
I am convinced that these principles, faithfully maintained, above all when dealing with human life, from conception to natural death, with marriage - rooted
in the exclusive and indissoluble
gift of self between one man and one woman - and freedom
of religion and education, are necessary conditions if we are to respond adequately to the decisive and urgent challenges that history presents to each one
of you,»
Worship, as a characteristic action
of man the religious animal, consists
in the offering
of self to God and the returning
gift of enhanced life,
in communion with God, for man.
However,
in the first case
of the unreturned
gift, one could say that there always remains a hope for a reciprocal gesture, as there is
in an eschatological reserve: there will always be
self - sacrificing
in this life, but
in hope
of the eternal banquet.
Hence the theme
of revelation as God's
self -
gift with universal intent will be a constant one
in each
of this book's chapters.
Unless a
gift is
in this fashion sacrificial — the giving up
of something — it is argued, a
gift reduces to a hidden contractual agreement, governed by a principle
of self - interest; and actions out
of self - interest, as Kant pointed out, are not pure
gifts.
If I selfishly love my frozen yogurt, microbreweries, and Pinterest, or dislike tattoos, noise, slow decision - making, or fill
in the blank, more than my brothers and sisters who are different; if I prefer this church, or neighborhood because
of the schools, the safety or because the worship resonates with me; if I am committed to my ways
of doing life; if I let me
self - comfort,
self - enjoyment,
self - security, or
self - convenience guide my decision making; I will never experience the
gifts that accompany thriving relationships with people who are different from me.
Tim i found it liberating to just do what the Lord wants you to do i work within his boundarys and yes i attend church and enjoy it.I love the people and i love hearing the word and worshipping the Lord even if others are still bound up with traditions thats not my walk thats theres.My focus is to do what the Lord wants me to do.There have been times i have said no to the pastor he does nt understand why i choose not to lead the worship.i query him as well regarding the idea that its not just performing a function because there is a need our hearts have to be
in the right place so that the Lord can use us but he did nt understand where i was coming from and thats okay because
of that i just said no until my heart is right i am better not being involved
in leading.But i am happy to be an encouragement to others
in the worship team i havent wanted to be the leader i have done that
in the past.So my focus has been just the singing and being part
of different worship teams i think the Lord has other plans as the groups i am
in seem to be changing at the same time i am aware that i do nt to worry about change as the Lord knows whats best.I used to be quite comfortable leading the music but that was before when i was operating
in my own
self confidence and pride.The Lord did such a huge change
in my life that i lost my
self confidence and that is not a bad thing at all as my spiritual growth has been incredible.The big change was my identity moved from me and what i could do to knowing who i was
in Christ and that he is my strength and confidence.Now i know that without him i can do nothing
in fact i am dependent on his empowerment through his holy spirit all the time
in everything.
In the weekend i was asked to lead the music at another church i attend multiple churchs although i attend two regularly one has services
in the morning and one has services
in the evening so the two do nt really clash.
In the weekend i was asked to lead the music its been two years since i did that and i was worried on how i would go.All i can say is that it went really well and because i stepped out
in Faith the Lord really blessed the morning to the congregation.The difference is knowing that i serve the Lord with the
gifts he has given me but my heart has to be right and when i do it
in his way it builds up the body and it brings glory to him.May the Lord continue to show you what he wants you to do even though others may not understand your reasons i just want you to know that you do nt have to pull away completely just work within the boundarys that the Lord gives you and do nt feel pressured by others expectations to do anything that feel uncomfortable.Be involved just as you feel lead by the holy spirit even if it is
in a very minor way take small steps.regards brentnz
This motif casts
in a new light the precious
gift of self that we bestow on the other when we utter those words «I do» at the altar.
Indeed the purpose
of all this is that Man may be fulfilled by the
Self -
Gift of God Himself,
in the Incarnation.
The exclusive fidelity
of marriage, at its deepest, is an image
of Christ's total
self -
gift in love.
Similarly, the future I speak
of is my own particular future
in which true
self - hood is received as a
gift.
Love is gratitude: it is thankfulness for the existence
of the beloved; it is the happy acceptance
of everything that he gives without the jealous feeling that the
self ought to be able to do as much; it is a gratitude that does not seek equality; it is wonder over the other's
gift of himself
in companionship.
If you as believers and non believers think that what I call for is wrong or not a right
of prevlage to think
of or try to establish thinking
in between then I must have been
in the wrong place all this time and efforts... Religion is not Completion but rather Correction...!?! It is only then with such knowledge
of foundations can mankind use the senses they been
gifted to tell which is which for them
selves rather than following blindly what ever they been told and not allowed to discuss or look further...!?!
In the language of Christianity love of God and neighbor is both «law» and «gospel»; it is both the requirement laid on man by the Determiner of all things and the gift given, albeit in incompleteness, by the self - giving of the Belove
In the language
of Christianity love
of God and neighbor is both «law» and «gospel»; it is both the requirement laid on man by the Determiner
of all things and the
gift given, albeit
in incompleteness, by the self - giving of the Belove
in incompleteness, by the
self - giving
of the Beloved.