Also for various reasons, I had to
give up breastfeeding at 3 weeks, even though I was 100 % committed to it at the beginning, so she's been on formula exclusively since.
We have suffered at the other end of the judgement spectrum of me having
given up breastfeeding at 5 months due to an (then) undiagnosed tongue - tie.
Not exact matches
They had her hooked
up to all sorts of stuff (she was stuck in the box, they didn't want her skin to skin with me, wouldn't let me
breastfeed her the first day, and kept her in the nursery, we visited every two hours), had her on an IV and then
gave her formula without my permission, because she had jaundice and low blood sugar
at birth.
I didn't even know why I felt so bad about considering
giving up, because everyone, even medical experts, was telling me my baby would be fine if I didn't
breastfeed, and I personally had nothing against formula
at all (again, I fully expected to wean to it eventually, probably around the six month mark).
I told her about another friend who
gave up breastfeeding her 1st child
at 3 weeks, due to bad medical advice, about an abcess.
If everyone
gave up at 2 weeks, like the guest poster on your site suggested, then
breastfeeding rates would plummet.
For many, the base assumption is that any mom would want to
breastfeed, but everything surrounding
breastfeeding in our society is so screwed
up that it is reasonable to assume that a mama who can't (or thinks she can't)
breastfeed has,
at the very least, been
given bad info somewhere along the line.
Education during pregnancy rarely has anything serious to do with
breastfeeding, and since
breastfeeding is perceived by most pre-parenthood women to be a natural, instinctive thing instead of a learned behavior (on both mom & baby's part) if it doesn't go absolutely perfectly from the first moments they may feel something is wrong with THEM and clam
up about it while quietly
giving the baby the hospital - offered bottle along with the bag of formula samples they
give out «just in case» even if you explicitly tell them you're
breastfeeding (which was my experience with my firstborn in 2004 and one of the many highly informed reasons I chose to birth my next two
at home).
Three weeks ago I was still part BF them, they kept having short meals (
up to 14 each a day) when
at the breast so I
gave up breastfeeding and switched to exclusive bottle feeding with formula.
Also - and I'm not proud of this - I had a theory that many
breastfeeding «problems» were a result of women waiting too long to have kids; that we were a selfish generation and that my peers would just
give up too easily,
at the first sign of trouble; that we couldn't be bothered in the first place.
I am
breastfeeding, but she is weaning herself.She drinks water from a cup
at every meal and often asks for it!I've tried
giving her cut
up apple for snacks, but she plays with it!
by: Anonymous My one month old son is
breastfed & formula fed but he is always groaning as if he is in pain, he has» nt pass stool for a day so i
gave him gripe water & it is still happening i then
gave him laxitive drops he passes a little stool but he is still crying
at times & muscle - ing
up as if he is straining to do something & thats makes me very uncomfortable, what should i do?
If your baby is willing to
give up breastfeeding sessions but isn't interested in drinking from a bottle or cup, put some of your breastmilk on the spout or bottle nipple to
give your baby a taste of what he or she is used to
at the beginning of each feed.
Waiting
at least four weeks
gives you time to build
up a healthy breast milk supply and ensure that your baby is
breastfeeding well.
Without the assistance of the
breastfeeding counsellors
at the Princess Royal maternity hospital in Glasgow, who sat with me through the tears and the pain, I may have
given up myself.
Unfortunately, this happens all to often: statistics show that nearly half of all new moms who start
breastfeeding at birth
give up within the first 6 weeks.
I just hoped to recover soon and start
breastfeeding again.But he has got used to bottle & is not ready to feed from the breast.Finally I
gave up n thought of atleast
giving him expressed breast milk thru an electronic pump.But my milk supply has become very low since
breastfeeding wasnt continuous since birth.I have also got my periods
at 1 and half mmonths.Already on lactare capsules but no use.Heard of many side effects of domperidone & metoclopramide.Pls help.Im so worried.im pumping every 3 hrs & the output is roughly 15 ml including both breasts each time.Is is possible to increase breastmilk production from 2 months time after birth?
Twins are
at a higher risk for premature birth and other complications, but you don't have to
give up on your dream of
breastfeeding your twins if they need special medical care.
The study by Durham University found that mothers who shared their bed with their babies for
at least an hour a week were more likely to continue
breastfeeding past six months but mothers who go to their baby's cot to
breastfeed are more likely to
give up before six months.
If they are so supportive of bfing then why send 2 separate packages of formula to a mom
at the exact time that most moms in this part of Canada (the Maritime provinces)
give up on
breastfeeding — 3 months.
I did that even though I know that many
breastfeeding mothers also
give pacifiers, and even though DS ended
up having lots of bottles (mostly of breastmilk) after I went back to work
at 6 weeks.
Repeat them every day as she is fighting for
breastfeeding your child and can
give up at any time.
So, for moms who find that their baby is really very frustrated and not happy with the breast, I definitely would say, «You
give it a good old try and really try and get your baby to
breastfeed unless you kind of figure it out for you know usually
up to 15 minutes but
at that point, I wouldn't push it longer than that.»
My mother, my own mother who
breastfed me for I think four months was like every time I wipe it out and when they come over and I just need to breast feed my babies, she looks
at me and
gives me that look and she is like, okay, they can ask for it so maybe it is time to wrap things
up.
My
breastfeeding journey has not been a good one I am currently exclusively pumping, I hate reading the articles that say just pump until it gets better I've been pumping that's how I got it, I feel like I just want to
give up even though everyone says you should
breastfeed your baby for
at least one year.
I almost
gave up breastfeeding on my 3rd week of being
at home.
Pressure point of
breastfeeding: I feel that the first few days of
breastfeeding is the most crucial part, once they start
giving up or doubting all the problem start entering so I am always telling people to text, email or message me
at the moment they feel they need help.
In Russia, around 80 - 90 % of women start to
breastfeed at the maternity clinic, but many
give up quite soon, according to Elena Baibarina, Director of the Child and Maternal Health Department
at the Russian Ministry of Health.
I have seen babies who are upset every time they go near a breast because they have been handled roughly by hospital staff (mothers» breasts have been grabbed and their baby's head shoved onto a breast); I have seen women who have been told they don't have enough milk or «your milk isn't strong enough» (this is never true and usually comes from an older relative who may have been told this a generation ago); women who have been advised to
give their babies a top -
up bottle only to have the baby find the fast milk flow easier than working
at the breast so consequently, weaning begins before
breastfeeding even becomes established.
New mothers often feel like failures
at breastfeeding and
give up shortly after starting.
The book
gave what seemed to be sound
breastfeeding advice, noting that it is a system of supply and demand, and that feeding
at regular intervals keeps your milk supply
up, so I figured that I just couldn't
breastfeed.
I am
at my wits end with being in so much pain and am trying everything I can to not
give up on
breastfeeding
There are different options you can try to make this easier and / or encourage them to
breastfeed less or night wean: get a bigger bed (we upgraded to a king size), put a couple of mattresses together and make one BIG bed on the floor, tell them «no boobie until the sun comes
up», or have your partner see if they can put them to bed
at night to
give you a bit of a break
at bed time.
We went to the
breastfeeding clinic
at Children's, I tried to take all the advice everyone wanted to
give me, but alas by the end of her 2nd month I
gave up trying to feed her
at the breast.
Well, looking
at the 10 steps I failed
at: — # 6 nothing other than breast milk (
gave hungry baby formula b / c I was too tired and drugged
up to nurse more than 5 minutes)-- # 7 rooming in (being tired and drugged
up I actually wanted to sleep)-- # 9 no pacifiers (I would rather baby have the SIDS prevention and soothing that comes from sucking)-- # 4 initiate
breastfeeding within 30 minutes of birth (that C - section thing where they sliced my guts open interfered with that timing)-- # 10 I was referred to the support group but sure as hell didn't go (because I deemed healing
at home from my surgery more important than being browbeaten about how I was feeding my baby).
So, in the middle of the night they
gave him the colostrum and when I woke
up in the morning I
breastfed for the first time so, he was you know, I went in there
at 7 am after shift change and then he was less than 12 hours old when I
breastfed him.
i did have some crazy woman show
up at my door one day from a
breastfeeding advocay group telling me i was a failure and i
gave up too soon and my child should be removed from my care!!!! people have NO idea what hell i went thru for 8 weeks.
Starting solids
at any age doesn't mean that you
give up on
breastfeeding; it just adds variety.
He chose to
give up private practice to work for
breastfeeding policy, has been able to bring «
breastfeeding» issues to forefront of discussions both
at national level and international level.
I ended
up supplementing with formula partially because of doctors who were too alarmist about his weight, but also because of really intense, borderline mean, and not helpful lactation consultants
at my (very
breastfeeding - friendly) hospital... but most importantly, because he was showing signs of dehydration, and I swear to god any mom would immediately
give some form of alternate feeding in that situation.
I made
up my mind that for three days Peter would not be
given the bottle and that if
at each feeding session he didn't
breastfeed within a couple of hours, I would
give him expressed milk via a cup or spoon.
This commercial, in all it's camped
up attempts
at humor,
gives onlookers «permission» to say to a
breastfeeding mom «why can't you just go pump so someone else can feed the baby» or «you should bring a bottle of pumped milk so you don't have to
breastfeed in public.»
I talked it through with a
breastfeeding counselor
at the hospital and we decided that the best thing for everyone would be to
give up breastfeeding to ensure my baby recovered from the infection and started to put on weight.
At the time I had no idea it was possible to restart
breastfeeding once you had
given up.
It's served
up with an (un) healthy side of parental stupidity, sexism (towards men - too stupid to deal with bottles), and really, really bad
breastfeeding practices (
giving even a bottle of expressed breastmilk
at night could lesson a mom's night milk making, crucial to supply!)
But on that third and final day
at the hospital, feeling quite exhausted and dejected as I syringed yet another feed into Peter, I felt like
giving up on
breastfeeding.
Ruth excels
at sleep relief,
giving specific recommendations for safe sleep habits for you and your baby, how to
breastfeed through the night and how to set
up a comfortable environment for encouraging your baby to sleep for longer stretches
at a time.
Trudy: I always said I would
breastfeed for 12 weeks and that would be it, but
up until the last few days I really didn't want to formula feed, I couldn't stand him near me when we started to formula feed
at first, I thought I was totally failing him by
giving him a bottle.
Pain is the main reason cited by many formula feeders as to why they
gave up on
breastfeeding (if they attempted
at all).
This information would have helped me tremendously had it been available when my firstborn worked so hard to learn to
breastfeed from my one - flat and one - inverted nipples, then demonstrated absolute frustration when I stuck every long - nippled bottle teat in her face starting
at 6 weeks and finally
giving up at 4 months.