One request for fathers — please, don't ask her to
give up breastfeeding because of earlier sex life!
I felt like a failure, like I was the only woman who had ever had to
give up breastfeeding because her body was not cooperating.
Don't
give up breastfeeding because you have mastitis.
I am a second time mom and with my first baby
I gave up breastfeeding because of the pain.
Somebody help as I am close to
giving up breastfeeding because sometimes it can take an hour to feed her 10 minutes worth because she just sits there.
Perceived milk insufficiency was significantly more frequent among the mothers of the control group (38 [27 %] of 140 vs 12 [8.6 %] of 140), as well as
giving up breastfeeding because of problems with lactation (25 [18 %] of 140 vs 6 [4 %] of 140).
Not exact matches
They had her hooked
up to all sorts of stuff (she was stuck in the box, they didn't want her skin to skin with me, wouldn't let me
breastfeed her the first day, and kept her in the nursery, we visited every two hours), had her on an IV and then
gave her formula without my permission,
because she had jaundice and low blood sugar at birth.
I didn't even know why I felt so bad about considering
giving up,
because everyone, even medical experts, was telling me my baby would be fine if I didn't
breastfeed, and I personally had nothing against formula at all (again, I fully expected to wean to it eventually, probably around the six month mark).
She asked for my help and I flew from CA fo FL to be there for her and her decision to
breastfeed but even with my help she
gave up because her other kids had done fine on formula.
I make it a point to talk about why I
gave up on
breastfeeding so early -
because I know (now) that I was wrong about a lot of things - and I hope that it will somehow help other moms (and myself next time around).
But... but... but... I don't want other women to
give up on
breastfeeding because they believe something to be true that really isn't true and I don't want you to be robbed of the opportunity to nurse your future children (if you want to)
because you believe something that really isn't true.
And
because many women have never seen another woman
breastfeeding before they attempt to
breastfeed their child, according to Suzie, there's no wonder that women have unrealistic expectations, become overwhelmed, and simply
give up breastfeeding altogether.
This is a common reason why women
give up on
breastfeeding and do not seek help
because they think it is normal.
Is it better for a mother to put her pump parts in the fridge between uses, or to wash her pump parts every time as described — and then
give up and stop
breastfeeding altogether
because she can't stand over a sink and spend 15 minutes washing pump parts in the middle of the night when she is exhausted and has already been
up for an hour pumping and feeding the baby?
I agree that you should leave the issue of
breastfeeding out of the pediatricians office most of the time (mine suggested I
give up altogether
because it was too hard on me.)
But don't
give up trying
because before you know it, your baby will have established a
breastfeeding routine you are both comfortable with!
They ONLY REASON I didn't
give up on
breastfeeding was
because I had formula.
Many mothers
give up breastfeeding their babies
because of back pain or neck strain.
Sure it was a roller - coaster ride of
ups and downs, of crying, of sore nipples, and thinking of
giving up as I did not know what I was doing wrong, of pressure from family and friends who were not sure I could produce enough milk, of sleepless nights, and extensive pain
because of my cesarean wounds, of managing my time to work, and
breastfeeding before leaving for work, during my noon breaks, and after the working day was over.
You don't have to
give up the
breastfeeding relationship with your child just
because you are unable to produce enough breast milk to
breastfeed exclusively.
Sometimes women
give up because people like you pretend that
breastfeeding is so natural and easy and magical.
I believe that a lot of women who truly want to
breastfeed give up or stop
because they just didn't have the support they needed.
When you
give up breastfeeding, it should be becuase you want to or becuase your child has stopped, and not
because someone else feels you shouldn't.
This made me almost
give up on
breastfeeding because the pain on my breasts was too much.
The lactation consultant (IBCLC) insisted she not keep any formula around
because, as soon as you start feeding the baby formula, you will
give up on
breastfeeding and never forgive yourself!
Sa
breastfeeding, it comes off differently
because there's this feeling na if you did nt
breastfeed you did nt
give the best and thus guilt and so many other emotions get in too so some people gets riled
up easily too.
Women refuse to
breastfeed because they are scared the child won't latch on to lazy to even
give it a try or too fearful to wonder if there body will keep
up with the milk formula IS what it is formula and to all the fortunate
breastfeed babies they are off to a wonderful great start in life
This is
because to a baby;
breastfeeding is more than just food hence she is unlikely to
give it
up anytime soon.
A mother who
gives up on
breastfeeding because she allowed herself to be talked into something that was less than perfect for her baby, is likely to find that her self image as a competent mother is compromised.
I have seen babies who are upset every time they go near a breast
because they have been handled roughly by hospital staff (mothers» breasts have been grabbed and their baby's head shoved onto a breast); I have seen women who have been told they don't have enough milk or «your milk isn't strong enough» (this is never true and usually comes from an older relative who may have been told this a generation ago); women who have been advised to
give their babies a top -
up bottle only to have the baby find the fast milk flow easier than working at the breast so consequently, weaning begins before
breastfeeding even becomes established.
I
gave up breastfeeding after only a few weeks
because of sore nipples, and I was worried about the medication I was taking getting through my milk to my baby.
He wasn't a great nurser either so wasn't like, you know, we'd gotten off to this fabulous start but it was just, I think this second one learns how to kind of go with the flow a little bit more
because it was not all about that child and for me, I didn't necessarily set
up a routine but what I did do is, actually a little bit opposite of yours, mine was, I had to satisfy the toddler first,
because I figured that, the infant kind of walk around, kind of keep him pacified a little bit, but my toddler was like me, me, me, me, me, like I need this now, so we had a box of toys, that he could play with, like they were only set
up for when I were nursing, so they were like his special toys, a special snacks that I knew that would be safe and I wouldn't be
giving the Heimlich Maneuver you know, while I was trying to
breastfeed.
Well, looking at the 10 steps I failed at: — # 6 nothing other than breast milk (
gave hungry baby formula b / c I was too tired and drugged
up to nurse more than 5 minutes)-- # 7 rooming in (being tired and drugged
up I actually wanted to sleep)-- # 9 no pacifiers (I would rather baby have the SIDS prevention and soothing that comes from sucking)-- # 4 initiate
breastfeeding within 30 minutes of birth (that C - section thing where they sliced my guts open interfered with that timing)-- # 10 I was referred to the support group but sure as hell didn't go (
because I deemed healing at home from my surgery more important than being browbeaten about how I was feeding my baby).
You're tired and frustrated
because taking care of me just seems too hard, but please mommy, before you
give up this yummy
breastfeeding thing, let me explain some of my behavior to you.
I ended
up supplementing with formula partially
because of doctors who were too alarmist about his weight, but also
because of really intense, borderline mean, and not helpful lactation consultants at my (very
breastfeeding - friendly) hospital... but most importantly,
because he was showing signs of dehydration, and I swear to god any mom would immediately
give some form of alternate feeding in that situation.
I was so down that my milk dried
up and it's all
because I wasn't
given enough information about
BREASTFEEDING.
Babies who take formula have 6 to 8 wet diapers a day, but may have
up to 10 wet diapers
because bottle feeding
gives them more fluids than
breastfed babies.
A study found that the number one reason moms
gave up breastfeeding was
because they lacked the support they needed after delivery.
I have had to deal with women thinking I
gave up trying to
breastfeed just
because they see my daughter drinking from a bottle.
RACHEL JACKSON: Ok, my name is Rachel Jackson I am the mother of two boys ages three and five years old I've been practicing law for about 16 years and was often travelling for work and struggling with
breastfeeding and pumping and trying to find a sanitary place to pump and I ended
up having so many bouts of mastitis and plugged ducts
because of it, that I ended
up, I started
giving up a lot of work
because it was just too hard to pump.
If you're
breastfeeding, you may feel like
giving up when your baby hits a growth spurt — not
because you're tired, but
because you're worried he isn't getting enough milk.
Supplementing wiht formula should be a LAST resort
because it tends to lead to less milk in the breasts and more bottles of formula fed to the baby until you just
give up on
breastfeeding altogether.
In my experience, the biggest cause of
giving up breastfeeding is
giving up hope
because of inaccurate information.
He was transferred to a bigger hospital that had NICU and had a feeding tube then they started teaching him how to eat with a special bottle called the haberman feeder
because I couldn't
breastfeed I pumped for him but unfortunately I dried
up too soon cuz I didn't keep
up with it I was suffering from headaches from the spinal injection they
gave me I delivered via repeat c - section.