«It's a tragic irony,» says Andrew Radford, United Kingdom Coordinator of Baby Milk Action (BMA), «that mothers who
give up breastfeeding in reaction to scares about dioxin in the breastmilk are actually contributing to the amount of dioxin in the environment as a whole.»
It is very positive that we are promoting and encouraging breastfeeding, but there is a fine line; some women feel that they can not
give up breastfeeding in the very early days without experiencing a huge amount of negativity.
Not exact matches
To the best of our ability, their father and I raised our children to see both parents working
in the home and without as normal, and when they grew
up, our daughters, our only children, had no second thoughts about
giving time to their careers, nor to the advantages of
breastfeeding and the importance of providing healthy, whole foods to their families.
Had I not already
breastfed two children to 2y2m and 2y7m (without any formula whatsoever - my personal goal), I would have probably
given up in despair.
They had her hooked
up to all sorts of stuff (she was stuck
in the box, they didn't want her skin to skin with me, wouldn't let me
breastfeed her the first day, and kept her
in the nursery, we visited every two hours), had her on an IV and then
gave her formula without my permission, because she had jaundice and low blood sugar at birth.
I still love
breastfeeding her, & she doesn't want to
give up milk, but I just don't know if I'm capable of
breastfeeding through another pregnancy, & I don't think I have it
in me to tandem feed again.
Like
in when to
give up on
breastfeeding or what
gives you the right?
For many, the base assumption is that any mom would want to
breastfeed, but everything surrounding
breastfeeding in our society is so screwed
up that it is reasonable to assume that a mama who can't (or thinks she can't)
breastfeed has, at the very least, been
given bad info somewhere along the line.
Then she posted the results and her interpretation of her findings
in When to
give up on
breastfeeding.
Education during pregnancy rarely has anything serious to do with
breastfeeding, and since
breastfeeding is perceived by most pre-parenthood women to be a natural, instinctive thing instead of a learned behavior (on both mom & baby's part) if it doesn't go absolutely perfectly from the first moments they may feel something is wrong with THEM and clam
up about it while quietly
giving the baby the hospital - offered bottle along with the bag of formula samples they
give out «just
in case» even if you explicitly tell them you're
breastfeeding (which was my experience with my firstborn
in 2004 and one of the many highly informed reasons I chose to birth my next two at home).
Reality might not be as pretty, but with it's truthfulness — and the confidence that truth might instill
in a
breastfeeding mother who might otherwise
give up — it is definitely more powerful.
You don't have to
give up breastfeeding altogether if you don't want to, and you can be confident
in your choice to supplement as well as the process.
But
in my last 3 weeks I really don't want to
give up our
breastfeeding moments.
Also - and I'm not proud of this - I had a theory that many
breastfeeding «problems» were a result of women waiting too long to have kids; that we were a selfish generation and that my peers would just
give up too easily, at the first sign of trouble; that we couldn't be bothered
in the first place.
Is it better for a mother to put her pump parts
in the fridge between uses, or to wash her pump parts every time as described — and then
give up and stop
breastfeeding altogether because she can't stand over a sink and spend 15 minutes washing pump parts
in the middle of the night when she is exhausted and has already been
up for an hour pumping and feeding the baby?
I would like to encourage others who want to
breastfeed in this situation not to
give up and hope that you get the support that I did.
Perrine and her colleagues, who published their results
in the journal Pediatrics on Monday, found that certain women were more likely to
give up on their
breastfeeding goals than others.
by: Anonymous My one month old son is
breastfed & formula fed but he is always groaning as if he is
in pain, he has» nt pass stool for a day so i
gave him gripe water & it is still happening i then
gave him laxitive drops he passes a little stool but he is still crying at times & muscle - ing
up as if he is straining to do something & thats makes me very uncomfortable, what should i do?
If your baby is willing to
give up breastfeeding sessions but isn't interested
in drinking from a bottle or cup, put some of your breastmilk on the spout or bottle nipple to
give your baby a taste of what he or she is used to at the beginning of each feed.
Name: Crystal Lives
in: Jersey City, New Jersey
Breastfeeding experience: Stressful, disappointing, and upsetting Main challenges: Lactation failure; took time to diagnose the problem; felt shamed by lactation consultants
Breastfed for: Tried for 5 weeks before finally
giving up
Many
breastfeeding issues can quickly turn painful, lead to a low breast milk supply, cause a slow weight gain
in your baby, and even have you thinking about
giving up on
breastfeeding.
They prep you for an environment that is going to do everything
in it's power to «force» you to
give up breastfeeding, and seemed laughably caricatured when we saw the reality.
With my oldest daughter I just wore my bra that hadn't fit since I was 4 months pregnant with breast pads a
breastfeeding friend
gave me and I was dried
up in about 3 - 5 days.
The increase
in breastfeeding isn't an anomaly, but a return to the norm, according to International Board - Certified Lactation Consultant Katherine Wilson - Thompson, although, she noted, too many mothers are still
giving up too quickly... (Read More)
In the UK, «weaning» means «adding complementary foods», whereas in the States it means «giving up breastfeeding»
In the UK, «weaning» means «adding complementary foods», whereas
in the States it means «giving up breastfeeding»
in the States it means «
giving up breastfeeding».
How very very sad to read that you trusted the information you were
given and it was wrong AND BULLYING, to deny babies the opportunity to feed on formula is an absolute disgrace, My daughter had a nightmare time with her first born, trying to
breastfeed, eventually
in the middle of the night, when we were sure he was starving, we made a bottle
up and fed him, he was so very grateful,
What they wanted was somebody to show them what to do and to help them, and not having that help is costing the Government and the devolved Administrations through the outcomes for those babies, as they are more likely to cost the NHS more
in later life; through the outcomes for the mothers; and through the outcomes for some mothers who really struggle with having to
give up breastfeeding, and end
up in the mental health system as a result.
It doesn't mean «
giving up breastfeeding or bottle feeding», which is how those of us
in the U.S. would use the term.
In the early weeks I felt I had to convince people I actually had a medical issue with
breastfeeding, and I wasn't just «
giving up».
UNILEVER, the company behind brands such as Walls ice cream, Knorr and Dove, has
given commitments to the Scaling
Up Nutrition (SUN) initiative on
breastfeeding that are being seen
in a different light following an advertising campaign supporting those who object to
breastfeeding in public
in the UK.
However, I was always intending to combination feed then
give up breastfeeding and switch to formula after a few months as I wanted some freedom.It was my choice to
breastfeed, to
give up having drinks, to do the night feeds, to get my breasts out
in public and everything else you mention above (I didn't watch what I ate, if I listened to the HV about
giving up dairy and greens and everything else, then I would have felt like crap) I made that decision and by the sounds of it so did you.
Without the assistance of the
breastfeeding counsellors at the Princess Royal maternity hospital
in Glasgow, who sat with me through the tears and the pain, I may have
given up myself.
Most women trying to
breastfeed for the first time feel isolated
in their efforts and are unaware of the fact that many other mothers are experiencing the same struggles as them, and I greatly believe this is the first reason why most new mothers prematurely
give up on the idea of
breastfeeding.
If you see another mother
breastfeeding her child
in public, especially if it's her toddler,
give her a smile and a big thumbs
up.
College spokeswoman Rosemary Jenkins says men's negative attitudes play a significant role
in the growing number of women who
give up breastfeeding after six weeks.
If
breastfeeding babies are perceived to not be
breastfeeding well, to be jaundiced or to have low blood sugars then routine practice
in many Irish maternity units is to suggest that the mother
give artificial milk to «top
up» the baby's breast - feeds.
In fact it's often cited as the reason mothers
give up breastfeeding.
I'll admit that I finder it harder to understand how women who aren't even working
give up on
breastfeeding so easily, or refuse to allow their children to sleep
in the family bed.
So don't
give up on
breastfeeding, it is the best gift you can
give your baby
in their first year.
It may not be that much but compared to 3 ccs
in the beginning, I'm glad I forged on instead of
giving up breastfeeding completely.
could see why someone might
give up due to such pain so just wanted to share
in hopes it helps some of you to succeed with
breastfeeding
Do not stress you will know when your milk comes
in you will feel it just don't
give up on
breastfeeding.
PArticularly the mom who
gave birth naturally,
breastfed while she was being sewn
up, and made dinner four hours later all without an epideral somehow put her
in a class all her own and the rest of us should «try harder».
If they are so supportive of bfing then why send 2 separate packages of formula to a mom at the exact time that most moms
in this part of Canada (the Maritime provinces)
give up on
breastfeeding — 3 months.
The best part... he sticks
up for me when other, less educated
in breastfeeding people
in the office start
giving me a hard time (not that there are many of them).
She
gave up breastfeeding sometime
in her 17th month, but I do not have a memory of the «last» time nor did I want to dwell on it.
For the rest of that first week, I'd practice
breastfeeding her when we would wake
up and go to bed, but
in between, I
gave her formula
in a bottle.
Worried that I would
give up with
breastfeeding, the LC convinced me to rent a breast pump to take home, pump my colostrum, and feed with bottles until my milk came
in.
The Julie Crawford Award for
Breastfeeding Support is an award
given by the Baby Feeding Law Group (BFLG), a coalition of leading health professional and lay organisations, set
up in 1997, to monitor and campaign to bring UK and EU legislation
in line with World Health Assembly Resolutions.
In memory of Julie, an award was set up by the Baby Feeding Law Group to be given to Health Visitors and Health Visitor Teams who showed the qualities Julie called for in that they have made a significant contribution to the protection of breastfeeding and who facilitate universal access to support that is independent of commercial influenc
In memory of Julie, an award was set
up by the Baby Feeding Law Group to be
given to Health Visitors and Health Visitor Teams who showed the qualities Julie called for
in that they have made a significant contribution to the protection of breastfeeding and who facilitate universal access to support that is independent of commercial influenc
in that they have made a significant contribution to the protection of
breastfeeding and who facilitate universal access to support that is independent of commercial influence.