By then I had learned an immense amount of information about breastfeeding, and found myself on
the giving end of breastfeeding support.
Not exact matches
Some experts might say that it's a mistake to
give a bottle so early in life, or that
giving her formula would have spelled the
end of our
breastfeeding relationship, but it was right for us.
I did that even though I know that many
breastfeeding mothers also
give pacifiers, and even though DS
ended up having lots
of bottles (mostly
of breastmilk) after I went back to work at 6 weeks.
If somebody makes it for an entire year
of breastfeeding, we have a small little party that
ends with me
giving a t - shirt to the baby.
We have suffered at the other
end of the judgement spectrum
of me having
given up
breastfeeding at 5 months due to an (then) undiagnosed tongue - tie.
Fewer than 18 %
of mothers who initiate
breastfeeding are
giving their babies any breast milk at all at the
end of the minimal year recommended by the American Academy
of Pediatrics.
I
gave up on
breastfeeding my daughter who is now almost two... and
ended up formula feeding her after two weeks
of struggling, engorgement, and mastitis.
I was sad that these changes saw my supply drop slightly, and I feared this signalled the
end of our
breastfeeding, though the increased freedom it afforded me
gave me more time to enjoy with Nell.
People felt they were alone on each
end of the spectrum and the other thing that was really striking was the impact, not just on
breastfeeding,
of on a woman's perception
of her body, but the impact
of giving birth.
We went to the
breastfeeding clinic at Children's, I tried to take all the advice everyone wanted to
give me, but alas by the
end of her 2nd month I
gave up trying to feed her at the breast.
I mostly worried with the first as she completely refused to
breastfeed from day one and screamed for the first 4 months
of her life for hours on
end (so she was bottle fed: / Did
give her cups
of breastmilk when I had my second)..
I
ended up supplementing with formula partially because
of doctors who were too alarmist about his weight, but also because
of really intense, borderline mean, and not helpful lactation consultants at my (very
breastfeeding - friendly) hospital... but most importantly, because he was showing signs
of dehydration, and I swear to god any mom would immediately
give some form
of alternate feeding in that situation.
RACHEL JACKSON: Ok, my name is Rachel Jackson I am the mother
of two boys ages three and five years old I've been practicing law for about 16 years and was often travelling for work and struggling with
breastfeeding and pumping and trying to find a sanitary place to pump and I
ended up having so many bouts
of mastitis and plugged ducts because
of it, that I
ended up, I started
giving up a lot
of work because it was just too hard to pump.
One
of the nurses suggested we
give her a «top - up» formula feed after the
breastfeeding just to ensure she gets what she needs — this worked for us for a little while but in the
end we started using formula full - time, I must admit I was somewhat disappointed but i know i did what i could and my daughter is thriving even though she isn't
breastfed.