Not exact matches
If your husband has
already moved out, won't
go to counseling, won't work on rebuilding your
marriage, and won't give you another chance, there is not a lot you can do.
My question for you is: why is your wife
going to marriage counseling if she has
already decided she doesn't want
to be married, or in a relationship?
But I'll be honest with you: if your husband has
already decided
to divorce, even if he agrees
to go to marriage counseling, it's not likely
to help anything.
Many of the spouses who
went to counseling at the request of their spouse felt very strongly that the decision
to end the
marriage had
already been made.
If you are
going into
marriage counseling with your mind
already made up about getting a divorce, you probably aren't
going to come out of your therapy sessions feeling successful.
However, if, as you say, you have
already decided
to divorce your husband, please do not
go to marriage counseling just
to be «nice»
to him!
I would suggest that you
go to marriage counseling, but it sounds like you've tried that
already.
When people think of couples
going to counseling sessions together, often what first comes
to mind is
counseling to help couples who are
already having issues or difficulties in their relationships, not couples just contemplating
marriage.