Not exact matches
The special
attachment that characterizes the
parent - child bond serves, at its
best, as a kind of guarantee of love — almost an analogue to divine grace.
A break in one connection, such as
attachment to a stable community, puts pressure on other connections: marriage, the relationship between
parents and children, religious affiliation, a feeling of connection with the past, even citizenship, that sense of membership in a large community which grows
best when it is grounded in membership in a small one.
«API is pleased to give a voice to our breastfeeding struggles, those related to society's acceptance as
well as those shared by mother and baby,» said Samantha Gray, Executive Director of
Attachment Parenting International.
Based on the book Attached at the Heart, the Attached at the Heart
Parenting Educator (AHPE) program is grounded in
attachment theory, informed by cutting edge research, and designed as a prevention model to help
parents better understand and apply the Eight Principles of
Parenting for a child's optimal physical and emotional development.
Martha and Dr. Bill are
best known for their Sears
Parenting Library published by Little, Brown and Company: The Healthy Pregnancy Book, The Birth Book, The Baby Book, The
Attachment Parenting Book, The Discipline Book, The Breastfeeding Book, The Fussy Baby Book, The Family Nutrition Book, The Premature Baby Book, The Baby Sleep Book, The A.D.D. Book, and The Healthiest Kid In The Neighborhood.
We've been needing her financial expertise, as
well as her many years of experience with
attachment parenting.
Minimizing the number of hours in non-parental care as much as possible provides the
best opportunity for a child to build secure
attachments with
parents
After all,
attachment parenting was a style that worked
well for us and I certainly didn't feel that it subjugated me as a woman, since we went down that path together as equal
parents.
I do a lot of
attachment parenting with my 20 month old twins sons, still breastfeeding, co sleeping and I am doing my
best to be more environmentally friendly.
So does this mean that if we want to promote secure
attachment between stressed - out
parents and stressed - out infants, the
best approach is essentially informational: teaching
parents the techniques and behaviors that are most likely to lead to a secure
attachment?
And, indeed, the most effective
attachment - focused home - visiting interventions offer
parents not just
parenting tips but psychological and emotional support: The home visitors, through empathy and encouragement, literally make them feel
better about their relationship with their infant and more secure in their identity as
parents.
I know she would want nothing
better for her birthday than to help
parents be supported in their
attachment with their children.
During my natural birth classes they were pretty much
attachment parenting advocates (within limits) but they showed balance by saying that sometimes after you have done everything to calm and comfort a crying baby to no avail, if it you gets to the point where you are frustrated to the point of snapping and possibly harming the child, it is
better to put him or her down step back and possibly call for help (grandparents, trusted friends) if available.
I can't tell you how
well this fits into our
attachment parenting lifestyle!
Suzanne at The Joyful Chaos who co-sleeps, but also says she's «not actually an advocate for co-sleeping,» drives the point home that you have to do what works
best for your family in her post The Cosleeping Edition of my
Attachment Parenting Freako - ness and sometimes that may very
well differ from child to child.
Attachment Parenting offers many opportunities to put the family first and create healthy respectful relationships not just between
parent and child, but between spouses as
well.
If you strive to have the kind of connection between you and your child that brings out the
best in both of you, and work to understand your child's needs and to help her feel her
best, you are an
attachment parent.
Although mutual
attachment and bonding between
parents and children occur in infancy and their early childhood, a close relationship with them should be maintained during their further development as
well.
API encourages couples to research their
parenting choices together, and learn about child development and
attachment, as
well as attend support group meetings together.
Participating in this study may benefit you by allowing you to share your story and help medical and education professionals understand and work
better with
parents who are a part of
attachment parenting culture.
This study is being conducted by Gregory C. Robinson, PhD, Assistant Professor of the Audiology and Speech Pathology Department at the University of Arkansas - Little Rock in order to
better understand the culture of
attachment parenting.
And it's pretty hard not to form a strong connection and get to know your child really
well when you do breastfeed, spend lots of time with them, wear or carry them everywhere you go, are available to them all night, use positive discipline and practice the other principles of
attachment parenting.
The truth is that no book or
parenting method can predict what will be
best for you and your child, and you shouldn't feel guilty if your expectations aren't met when trying any part of
attachment parenting (or
parenting in general, or life in general).
With the help of a kind group of fellow
attachment parenting moms, I finally realized that I was doing both my son and myself more harm than
good by
parenting out of fear.
One of the
best resources for how to
parent for a secure
attachment in the first few years of life is the new book Raising A Secure Child by Kent Hoffman, Glen Cooper, and Bert Powell, all therapists who have worked with many different kinds of families for decades.
In the meantime, the word «
attachment» has been co-opted by a
well - meaning pediatrician and his wife, William and Martha Sears, along with some of their children and an entire
parenting movement.
She also has a great understanding of women who planned to birth at home and were transferred to the hospital, as
well as
attachment parenting issues.
Q: Do you see these books as representing a backlash against your theory of «
attachment parenting,» which says bonding early — by holding the baby or wearing him in a sling, breast - feeding, bed - sharing and responding quickly to crying — leads to a
better long - term relationship?
It can provide them relief from physical discomfort, as
well as, provide them with time to feel a secure
attachment to their
parents.
What about
parents who might not have gotten a
good start in life and want to change their
attachment style?
I'd like to gently point out that this post seems to validate what I have found out in my experience, that Babywise is
good for scheduling suggestions, troubleshooting feeding, and evaluating
attachment parenting, but Baby Whisperer & HSH are much
better for sleep training than Babywise.
Dagmar Bleasdale is the blogger behind the popular blog Dagmar's Home where she shares entries about
attachment parenting, co-sleeping, frugal and green living, and raising a healthy, creative,
well - adjusted, barely bilingual child without an Xbox.
So where does this leave me; as a self - described «follow the lead of my baby»
parent...
well, I followed his lead and questioned my
parenting asking, «am I still an
attachment parent?»
There's absolutely no reason to risk your child's safety and
well - being in the name of co sleeping, so it's always a
good idea to understand what the basic
attachment parenting principles are when it comes to proper sleep safety.
I'm so torn because I am a firm believer in
attachment parenting but I truly believe I may be hindering a
better night sleep for my son (and myself).
When you're trying to decide whether or not to incorporate co sleeping into your
attachment parenting setup, it's a
good idea to have a solid understanding of the benefits you can expect from this practice.
Critics of
attachment parenting say it takes motherhood to the extreme and is not
good for the child.
The
best way to make any decisions when it comes to raising your child is to be fully educated about the subject, and learning about co sleeping and
attachment parenting is a great place to get started.
This includes proximity closeness as
well as physical touch, and therefore babywearing is another popular activity among those who practice
attachment parenting.
We'll give you a brief rundown of what
attachment parenting really means as
well as explain to you several different elements of co sleeping as it relates to
attachment parenting.
There are a lot of reasons why
attachment parenting and co sleeping work so
well together, and it's a
good idea to familiarize yourself with these reasons to help get a
better understanding of the whole process.
He makes friends easily, and has what I think is the right amount of independence from his
parents, as
well as the right degree of
attachment.
This approach to
parenting has been shown to lead to the
best outcomes in kids, including
better emotional health, social skills, more resiliency, and more secure
attachments with their
parents.
October is
Attachment Parenting Month, and I think it's a
good time to write about how it works for us, and how it is helping us get through the major transition we are going through right now with me starting a new job and Sadie starting at daycare.
Choosing to stay with Cole through his nighttime needs DOES make you the
best kind of
Attachment Parent... the kind who uses love to guide them!
As a culture, we seem to operate under the misguided notion that
attachment - style
parenting is one in which
parents — and particularly mothers — sacrifice their lives entirely for the
good of their children, and compete over who can breastfeed the longest and make the most nutritious baby food.
The
Attachment Parenting approach can be regarded as parenting guided by nature's lead — being attuned to our own feelings and instincts as well as our child's needs, such as following our natural instincts to breastfeed, respond to a crying baby and provide ample physical contact to a developing hu
Parenting approach can be regarded as
parenting guided by nature's lead — being attuned to our own feelings and instincts as well as our child's needs, such as following our natural instincts to breastfeed, respond to a crying baby and provide ample physical contact to a developing hu
parenting guided by nature's lead — being attuned to our own feelings and instincts as
well as our child's needs, such as following our natural instincts to breastfeed, respond to a crying baby and provide ample physical contact to a developing human baby.
I was living the principles of
Attachment Parenting, as
well as babywearing, breastfeeding and cosleeping, before I knew the term
Attachment Parenting existed.
Reading is a shared interest among many
Attachment Parenting (AP) families as we all like to be
well - informed when making decisions that affect our
parent - child relationships.
Advocates of natural childbirth, lactivism and
attachment parenting insist that they are «
better for the baby.»