If let players bully u then so will the ref u have to start small with kicking off and lashing out get a few reds then they know not to mess then u name and shame refs in the media and put pressure on them etc soon enough u have the respect u deserve but if u don't even appeal
for ur own
penalty shouts and never complain or lash out now and then we'll the refs in England will think u don't care and won't give u nothing just like stoke game even zidane who was the
best player head butted some one
for not respecting him u earn respect