According to Gardner, alienated parents are not
guilty of the heinous behaviors that they are accused
of which justifies a child's total
alienation from them.
Its really hard to discuss this anywhere without hearing «Oh your just trying to turn him against his mother» I know that happens alot and i know men and women are both
guilty of it but in fact i had never heard
of the term «parental
alienation syndrome» until a couple days ago, i was actually starting to think based on everyones reaction when i brought up my feelings that it was all in my head and even my son told me i was dillusional right before he stopped talking to me and cut all contact.His mother moved him away to another state when he was 4 basically without more than a few days noticed after i had relocated closer to him to spend more time together, there was no history
of abuse and i was paying support so that was a red flag anyway but hes 29 now and i feel like ive pretty much lost him forever.im in another location i moved to be able to see him more after my parents died in 2008 (about a month apart) but that has turned into a disaster since he no longer wants contact.He has a half brother here by myself and my present wife but my youngest son is mentally disabled and unable to take care
of himself, myself and my 2 sons are all that is left
of my family i have no other relatives anymore and i feel horrible for anyone else who has to go through this.
Unfortunately, angry, disgruntled women who are in fact
guilty of severe parental
alienation have found a sympathetic ear in the domestic violence community.