If you were trying to make a strong impression on an expectant mother, is your inability to
have a biological child really one of the first things you want her to know about you?
Not exact matches
It is
really troubling to me that, despite the number of new orphans the earthquake produced, Haiti is still clinging to it's archaic rules about couples needing to be married for 10 years, and to
have no
biological children, and be over 30 years old, in order to adopt.»
Do you
really think that, after years of raising and loving a
child who you didn't give birth to, they
would walk away, just because they met their
biological mom?
, although by that time I
'd mostly stopped telling people she was still «doing that» — except for my sister, whose two
biological children both nursed past their fourth birthdays:D One of the things I'm happiest about is that she nursed long enough to
really remember the experience — when she's old enough to nurse her own babies, I hope she'll still remember, and be encouraged to let them wean on their own terms.
Those situations could be limited to couples who both
have a serious genetic disease and for whom embryo editing is «
really the last reasonable option» if they want to
have a healthy
biological child, says committee co-chair Alta Charo, a bioethicist at the University of Wisconsin in Madison.
He
has everything - a good job, a house, a van for the family -, however there's a small problem: he is not the
biological father of his wife's two kids and, though he tries
really hard, the
children don't
really care for him (there's a reason why he appears death or injured in every drawing the daughter makes).
Of course, the father in that situation may wish to confirm that he
really is the
biological father first because if it turns out that he is not the
biological father but
has been acting as a parental figure for some time anyway, then he may remain obligated to pay
child support for some time even if he chooses to stop acting as a parent to the
child.
But I think your point about grieving the loss of a
biological connection, pregnancy, breastfeeding, etc is a good one, and here I think it's also done to encourage people to
really think about the backgrounds of the
children up for adoption and to learn more about attachment issues and
child trauma... Fertility treatment and adoption are
really not interchangeable and I think it's good to
have a break from one before embarking on the other.
I'll be 37 in April, and like you, haven't tried or
really wanted to try for
biological children, but adoption is something my husband and I are both interested in.