The sculpture has been read as a wry dig at the machismo of de Kooning and his fellow Abstract Expressionists; a step away from «living an aggressively
heterosexual life and getting drunk both in and out of the Cedar Street Tavern», as art historian Fred Orton has written.
How do the fundamental principles of Christian theology illuminate the question or complex of homosexual /
heterosexual life styles?
Now, as even this brief and arbitrary list of questions should indicate, any illumination of the peculiar temptations of a homosexual life style may also serve to illuminate the peculiar temptations of
a heterosexual life style and the commonality of temptation for both.
Any argument for heterosexuality as a preferred sexual choice does not rest on how this or
that heterosexual life works out.
That is the price one pays for
heterosexual life choice.
I suspect that there are deep values that can emerge in certain homosexual lives which are unique to that life and which can not be replicated in content or depth in
heterosexual life.
Not exact matches
It only makes it all the more urgent for young people to be told the truth that sexual promiscuity, whether homosexual or
heterosexual, may endanger their
lives, that condoms are by no means a foolproof way to avoid that risk, and that chastity is the best defense.
On the one hand, Virtually Normal presents a very sanitized picture of male homosexual
life; there are no details of the gay subculture to repel
heterosexual readers and make them less amenable to Sullivan's political proposals.
Because homosexuals «have no choice but to be homosexual,» he declares, «they are not choosing that option over
heterosexual marriage; and so they are not sending any social signals that
heterosexual family
life should be denigrated.»
Sure, you can be a
heterosexual and a bigot, or a
heterosexual and a
life and joy giving fellow.
Of course it is the case that there are many priests, whose orientation is homosexual rather than
heterosexual, who
live chaste and holy
lives.
Those of us who are privileged (e.g, are white, male, middle - class or higher, educated, able - bodied,
heterosexual, and / or physically attractive, etc.) benefit from
living in a society that accommodates rather than alienates us.
When I see a
heterosexual couple together just being a couple, my mind does not wander to their sex
life.
Furthermore there is no rational argument for equating homosexual union, which is anatomically and physiologically dysfunctional and unproductive of new
life, with
heterosexual union.
In view of this, we should observe that it is «unnatural,» para physin, for a person today with a lesbian or gay sexual orientation to attempt
living a
heterosexual lifestyle.
(Not many people I know who are
heterosexuals make their sexuality and sex
life the main topic of discussion, though I have encountered ones who do.)
Do that homosexual or
heterosexual and you will find your desires aligning more with His desires day by day and you eventually will not even miss those sins you so loved before Christ came into your
life.
In the future, fewer people will marry, more people who marry will divorce, more people who many will do so later in
life, more people will cohabit, fewer people will have children, more people who have children will do so outside of marriage and more people will want to form informal unions of various kinds and experiment with reproductive technologies outside of either marriage or
heterosexual unions.
If we add to this the sexual activity of young men of the same age, of gay men and lesbian women at a later stage of
life, and that of unmarried and divorced
heterosexual couples, it becomes clear that the sexual practice of people in our society is quite different from that held to be normative by the traditional teaching of the churches.
Homosexual relations represented a stage in some young men's
lives, after which they would settle down to
heterosexual marriage.
The problem with bisexuality in my
life (and I can speak only for myself) is that it has been grounded too much in my utopic fantasy of the way things «ought» to be and too little in the more modest recognition of myself as a participant in this society at this time in this world, in which I have both a concrete desire for personal intimacy with someone else and a responsibility to participate in, even witness to, the destruction of unjust social structures — specifically, the
heterosexual box.
And I am a lesbian — a woman who has come out of the
heterosexual box and into another box, which, as boxes go, is far superior for my
life as a responsible person, a Christian woman, in this world at this time.
By insisting that Christian homosexuals either become
heterosexual or
live celibate forever
Any sexual
life —
heterosexual, homosexual, bisexual — is OK.
Then again, perhaps I am too harsh on the UMC... I assume if the man was a
heterosexual and wished to marry a woman, that the church would have made the same requirement — after all, they would
live in «adultery by remarriage» according to Jesus [Luke 16:17 - 18].
But it is an equal poverty of spirit to remove oneself from the Church community because it calls one to abandon, for example, a
life of serial
heterosexual adultery through divorce and remarriage, and then to claim that one is excluded — and that happens too.
The church would have said, «You can marry in another state, and
live together, AND so long as you have no sexual consummation in your
heterosexual marriage, then we will allow the man to lead the worship songs.»
Just as universities do not require women to share rooms and showers with men in college dormitories,
heterosexual personnel should not be forced to interact with homosexuals without recourse to other
living arrangements available to most civilians.
I was assured that God would give me strength to lead a righteous
life, and had one interesting experience in which (to my surprise) I found myself thinking
heterosexual thoughts.
In fact, Farrow's list of fundamental truths points eloquently to the basic ontological foundations for human reproduction and the ethical education of children in society, and from these he reasonably draws a normative social claim:
Heterosexual marriage open to the transmission of
life is the morally normative context of human sexuality.
Heterosexuals would claim that it is unfair to differentiate between being a
heterosexual and
living like one.
For my friends and acquaintances that are GLBT, the ability to have a legal standing on par with
heterosexual couples carries weight in every area of their
lives.
I don't believe that God creates us in such a way that one group (
heterosexuals)
living out a
life of committed, covenanted love is participating in sanctification while another group (homosexuals)
living out the exact same kind of love is condemned to damnation.
They are not
heterosexual — for many this is a plain and simple fact of
life.
While there are some people now
living in
heterosexual marriages who once perceived themselves to be gay, there are millions of gay and lesbian persons who have accepted their sexual orientation as a gift from God and
live productive and deeply spiritual
lives.
Moreover, absent a miracle, each of us owes our
living existence to exactly one man and one woman — no more, no less, no other — and, thus, to one act of
heterosexual union.
First, it fails to mention that the Church «refuses to consider the person as a «
heterosexual» or a «homosexual» and insists that every person has a fundamental identity: the creature of God and, by grace, his child and heir to eternal
life» (Congregation for the Doctrine of the Faith, On the Pastoral Care of Homosexual Persons, para. 16, 1986).
I used the example of a (
heterosexual) couple
living together but not (legally) married because it was an example that you raised, fishon, and because it is less controversial that the gay issue we normally discuss.
This negative assertion therefore stands against all attempts to argue for the autonomous or intrinsic legitimacy of any «
life style» and against those who condemn homosexuality from the standpoint of an assumed righteousness of
heterosexual marital fidelity or those who, condemning the obvious hypocrisies and oppressions ingredient to the institution of marriage, claim the autonomous validity of a homosexual
life style.
For example, a person who is masculine biologically and «gendered» as a woman could have
heterosexual desires and thus
live with another man.
«The only kind of friendship the state has a proper interest in recognising and regulating is
heterosexual marriage, because that's what leads to children - new citizens - and gives them the best start in
life.»
This is equally true for
heterosexual couples, many of whom choose to
live together without marrying.
Because they were denied access to legal marriage for so long, many LGBQ people married for the first time at older ages than
heterosexual couples, often after
living together for many years, making their cohabiting and married relationships pretty similar.
A small amount, about 10 percent, however, see
living together as an alternative to marriage, and a recent study by sociologist Alison Hatch, «Saying I Don't to Matrimony: An Investigation of
Heterosexual Couples Who Resist Marriage,» is a revealing look at why couples prefer cohabitation over marriage.
Andrew Cuomo, himself,
lives in an openly
heterosexual sexual relationship with his paramour, Sandra Lee, in the presence of his daughters apparently not caring what effect that
living arrangement also has on his minor daughters.
A 2012 study by Tony Antoniou, a pharmacist and research scholar in the Department of Family Medicine at St. Michael's found that many
heterosexual men feel existing HIV - related programs and services don't meet their needs and are geared primarily or exclusively toward gay men and
heterosexual women who are
living with the virus.
The study also examined whether the quality and / or quantity of close friendships are more strongly linked to overall
life satisfaction for GLB groups than for
heterosexuals.
Young gay men, however, had more female friends than young
heterosexual men in terms of the number of female friends they can talk about their sex
life with and who they can count on to celebrate their birthday with.
Anti-HIV medications suppress the viral load of people
living with HIV and provide durable protection against
heterosexual transmission according to the groundbreaking study led by Myron Cohen, MD..
I'm a white, able - bodied,
heterosexual, educated, employed, English - speaking, fully - cognitive, physically and emotionally healthy Canadian of child - bearing age
living in a safe neighborhood.