Pam Leo, author of Connection Parenting: Parenting Through Connection Instead of Coercion, Through Love Instead of Fear, talks about
how hurtful kids are «hurt - filled.»
She expressed
how hurtful it felt for her, and admitted the resentment she had been building towards him for not acknowledging her.
Then you know
how hurtful this obliviousness can feel — and how damaging it can be to a relationship.
Yet, a nod and a statement of acknowledgment and appreciation will be infinitely more effective in getting the behavior and care one craves than a reminder of
how hurtful or disappointment that person is.
Courts should not be putting terms on the shelf out of our reach, no matter
how hurtful they might be.
«Amanda, don't you understand
how hurtful you're being?
I am really sorry to hear about your visit with your grandmother — it was heartbreaking to even read about, so I can not imagine
how hurtful it must have truly been for you.
I don't post much on personal social media but from my years of blogging, I am very aware of just
how hurtful and hateful people can be on the internet (and how amazing most people are!).
The show focuses on exactly
how hurtful this can be.
Do you know
how hurtful it is when politicians double down?
Give examples of
how hurtful each type of bullying can be
To help your child realise
how hurtful aggressive behavior can be for both sides, the aggressor and the victim, and how that type of behavior hitting, kicking, biting or bulling can make the other child feel.
So I think that parents have to assume that kids are going to tell them lies, because they're immature and they don't understand
how hurtful these things are.
Imagine
how hurtful that would be, as an adult?
Kids often don't understand
how hurtful lies can be.
James: It's traumatizing when something hurtful happens to you, and you can't control it, you can't stop it, you can't predict
how hurtful it's going to be, and you can't predict when or whether... Read more»
After that I still tried for close to another year to work on my marriage and communicate
how hurtful his actions were.
You being someone who agrees with him, obviously have no conception at all of
how hurtful this sort of twaddle is to people who truly want our club to progess.
Even after I invited several black and gay Christians to the blog to explain just
how hurtful the «I Stand With Phil» movement was to them, many evangelical readers brushed it off as no big deal.
Being in a family system where depression and suicide are present, Walsh has no idea
how hurtful and just plain dumb his words are.
Have you any idea
how hurtful and UNLOVING that is for people that it affects?
I have only fairly recently come to see the error of that belief, and
how hurtful and unchristian it is to treat LGBT people as second class.
No matter what you say or do, no matter what you think, no matter
how hurtful your words or thoughts, I will love you forever.
(Imagine
how hurtful and frustrating such statements must be to Jewish Americans, many of whom had relatives who were actually killed in an actual genocide... a situation unspeakably more serious than a political difference!)
Also, I am a bit protective of this couple not wanting to open them up to
how hurtful well - meaning Christians can be.
But please understand
how hurtful your comments can be when you condemn someone over something that they can not change.
Not exact matches
Ogunyemi, a Nigerian woman born in London and raised in Atlanta, has penned a thoughtful piece explaining
how personally
hurtful white - centered beauty has been to her, and why the snippets of the ad that had been circulated were misinterpreted.
I think with comments like that, you're the one with whom anything goes... just say whatever you want, no matter
how untruthful or
hurtful.
Had I been more aware of
how people of color view the world, had I spent just a little more time listening well and considering context, I would have known better and avoided a
hurtful error.
The reply was of
how I was being «ungrateful», and making her «feel like a piece of gum on the bottom of her shoe» and lots of other,
hurtful things.
I'm guessing, as Willow implies, that you are subconsciously rebelling against an image of a threatening, fearsome, judgmental, vindictive and
hurtful god, a false god; because you know somewhere deep inside that God is nothing but Love, and that you were created and born from that Love; no matter
how painful the personal world may have been, may still be, into which you were born.
Brigitte, funny
how you can say whatever
hurtful words you want to people, but they are «low blows» when said to you.
You wrote about all the mean Christians you know, and
how we have done and said so many hateful and
hurtful things in history, and even in our own day.
My hope is that Driscoll's resignation can activate a much - needed conversation about
how Christians should respond when a pastor's public behavior proves
hurtful to those he is supposed to be leading.
We learned to never tell them the
hurtful things we hear, because we see
how much they hurt.
What sort of assumptions,
hurtful language, and
hurtful actions do you encounter most often and
how have you learned to respond to them well?
WOW im just trying to figure out
how so called religious people even gets the athority over peoples, lives period exspecially when its between them and their GOD, it seems to me that false followers of christ dominate the religious spectrom in this country and are quick to judge before ever setting foot in anothers hardship or goodness forbid have any empathy for another human being that may be different... no instead just sling around sarcastic
hurtful remarks and call it being clever or even worse Jesus like.
How you react to others can make you
hurtful or helpful.
Over the years many people have staggered into my office to pour out a story that includes the words: «I don't understand
how people can be like this,
how they can be so mean and devious and
hurtful!»
To prepare the class with a preview of
how the overall experience might be
hurtful for some members would seem to be the kind of thing a sensitive teacher would do.
I can not possibly convey
how much damage Christians have done to our own cause by approaching the gay community in
hurtful ways.
Besides, it's odd to suddenly care about hurt feelings when I'm pretty sure telling half of FBS they don't have a shot at the national title no matter
how well they play is more
hurtful to those feelings than winning 59 - 0 instead of 49 - 0.
How is her experience
hurtful to you?
Do you not see
how that could feel
hurtful?
We discuss limit setting, brain development and
how to navigate our kids emotional outbursts in a way that is helpful and not
hurtful.
Oh yes, and did you know we are also being
hurtful and uneducated and then we must read all of the research that they have found, to show
how what we are saying is wrong.
Have a talk with your preschooler about
how teasing can be
hurtful.
For example, learn
how to avoid
hurtful nicknames when choosing your child's name.
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