Sentences with phrase «how hurtful behavior»

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My hope is that Driscoll's resignation can activate a much - needed conversation about how Christians should respond when a pastor's public behavior proves hurtful to those he is supposed to be leading.

To help your child realise how hurtful aggressive behavior can be for both sides, the aggressor and the victim, and how that type of behavior hitting, kicking, biting or bulling can make the other child feel.

Teaching Laurel empathy has always been very important to us, not only to help curb age appropriate but hurtful behaviors such as biting and hitting, but also simply to help her learn how to be a good friend and family member.

I think they at least need to be told somehow how rude / crude / inappropriate, insensitive, hurtful, childish, immature, laughable... whatever... their behavior is and then never communicate with them again!!

The dysfunctional nature of how urban schools teach students to relate to authority begins in kindergarten and continues through the primary grades.With young children, authoritarian, directive teaching that relies on simplistic external rewards still works to control students.But as children mature and grow in size they become more aware that the school's coercive measures are not really hurtful (as compared to what they deal with outside of school) and the directive, behavior modification methods practiced in primary grades lose their power to control.Indeed, school authority becomes counterproductive.From upper elementary grades upward students know very well that it is beyond the power of school authorities to inflict any real hurt.External controls do not teach students to want to learn; they teach the reverse.The net effect of this situation is that urban schools teach poverty students that relating to authority is a kind of game.And the deepest, most pervasive learnings that result from this game are that school authority is toothless and out of touch with their lives.What school authority represents to urban youth is «what they think they need to do to keep their school running.»

Yet, a nod and a statement of acknowledgment and appreciation will be infinitely more effective in getting the behavior and care one craves than a reminder of how hurtful or disappointment that person is.

If we begin to contemplate that hurtful behaviors experienced from our loved ones who matter most, may in fact come from a deeply wired longing for connection to us — rather than a deficit, or an intentional decision to give us pain — how would that change those relationships?