Refreshing again to see that I am not alone in bitterness from being
hurt by the church.
Our service is an outreach to the community, for people who have been
hurt by church in the past, non believers, people who are feel they are outcasts, etc.We run with no budget, all the offering goes to a need in the community, tonight its going to a senior that lost everything in a house fire.
I myself was
hurt by the church and stopped attending for 5 years.
I have also been
hurt by the church in the past and it scarred me for a number of years but in due time God's grace is what got me through, not my own doing.
If I walk into a church service pretty much anywhere in America and ask people to raise their hand if they have been
hurt by a church (specifically the leadership of a church), nearly everyone will raise their hand.
Some say that when they read my blog they think, «Now there's somebody who's been really
hurt by the church!»
By being prayed up, we tend to be more spiritually prepared when we come across people who have been
hurt by the church.
Yes, if someone has been hurt by someone in the church, to them it's the same as being
hurt by THE church.
Sam (and I promise I'm not being judgmental), I sense that you've been
hurt by the church.
A word to the wise: When someone tells you they've been
hurt by the Church, the proper response is «I'm so sorry; tell me what happened,» not «suck it up, kid.»
Some had been
hurt by churches and were just wanting to meet in our home when we arrived.
Reminded of a pastor that advertised on craigslist something like...» If you have been
hurt by the church I would like to talk with you».
Yes, we were
hurt by a church, or church member.
I can't tell you how many of my experiences of people who have been
hurt by churches and turned off by churches can trace their experiences in one way or another back to issues regarding money.
Have you been
hurt by the church.
However most who cry, «I was
hurt by the church / pastor» are [in my experience] wimps who have not got their way or have had their feelings hurt.
Way to many folks who have genuinely been
hurt by the church / preacher do not have a spirit of forgiveness.
However, unlike many people who left religion, Legend wasn't
hurt by the Church — he still talks of it fondly — he simply stopped believing like he once did.
So forgive me for my earlier comment about «religion», it was not intended to be insensitive to anyone who has been
hurt by church experiences, but to express balance which I feel often is lacking in society.
Kathy Escobar and Phyllis Mathis are starting a four - week online course for those who have been
hurt by the church.
This is a subject dear to my heart... I minister to those who have been
hurt by churches.
Iâ $ ™ ve been
hurt by the church in my own life.
From Elly: How have you been helped or
hurt by your church (or churches)?
The Gospel for
those hurt by the church.
Have you been
hurt by the church but are longing for some kind of community?
Not exact matches
@Steve: Have you talked to your pastor yet to confess your sin of constantly flaunting your blessedly perfect
church in front of groups of people — mostly strangers to you — who've been
hurt by their experiences in deceitful, toxic, dysfunctional, and / or spiritually - abusive
churches?
You just get to see the broken people who were
hurt by the very
churches who were supposed to help heal them.
So, with this incredible promise of healing why are our
churches still so outnumbered
by those who are
hurting and defeated compared to those who are experiencing hope and some measure of health?
He believed his chances for faith had been
hurt by his father, the early loss of his mother, the air of unbelief in the
Church of his youth, even the «terrible» liturgy and the modernized music (pitfalls he counted «inherent in Protestantism»).
Reuters: Vatican says trust in
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The abuse perpetrated
by priests is atrocious and
hurts Catholics (meaning THE PEOPLE who make up the
Church) deeply but that does not given anyone the right to paint every priest the same color!
The abuse perpetrated
by priests is atrocious and
hurts Catholics (meaning THE PEOPLE who make up the
Church) deeply but that does not given anyone the right to paint every priest the with the same brush of pedophile!
But now I say unto you, report those who disagree with you to the
church or denominational authorities, label them heretics or say that they raise «red flags» and let everyone know not to listen to them, criticize their positions without ever going to them personally to find out what they actually believe and are teaching, align them with other «heretics» without ever researching their books, writings, and messages, and above all, side with your friends against them even if you personally have never been
hurt or offended
by them.
A few years back i was being led
by god to help some homeless people.I'll tell you about the first homeless lady.my girls and i were driving
by a liquor store and i seen a girl a lady sitting next to her cart.god showed me through his eyes the
hurt she was living with.he spoke to my heart and said, don't pass her up.i turned around whent back and asked her if she was hungry.she was in shock and said yes.god told me to tell her that she is loved.she started crying and had me call her family so she can go home.anyways after that i joind a
church and told them and asked to start a homeless ministry.i was told yes and all of a sudden i started getting pushed aside and they took over the homeless ministry.i feel lost and
hurt.now i feel like god is telling me to leave the
church.i quit going out with the group because of what happened.i don't know what to do.now i feel lost.
Our
church is not perfect
by a long shot, but we are striving to provide a
church home for the
hurting and the searching.
I think that it is refreshing to those who love Jesus but have been so
hurt by the «
church» and business as usual.
the children
hurt by these men and the many others not reported don't deserve to suffer with these injustices because the
church doesn't want to face the fact that there is a problem.
Looking over past comments for this blog, my overall impression was that there was a lot of pain represented there; a lot of people who have been
hurt deeply
by the instituional
church.
Thanks for articulating what aches and mourns in many other hearts — of those deeply in love with Jesus — but often deeply
hurt or frustrated
by the
church, religion, spirit of empire etc..
Leaving those who have really been
hurt by an individual
church or leader [s] to decide and speak for themselves regarding the positive help NP does or doesn't offer would be good too.
As the actual
Church in fact does not fulfill it, does not advocate concrete social demands energetically enough, does not dissociate itself radically or quickly enough from dying social forms, does not stigmatize nuclear warfare profoundly enough (all this according to the opinion of these Christians, which objectively is
by no means necessarily false), they experience one disappointment after another in regard to the
Church, protest against it,
hurt and irritated, and turn into lay defeatists.
I was
hurt so many times
by the
church.
I've been
hurt so very badly
by various members of my
church.
Most the members (and I say this as a compliment because I am one to) have been rejected and
hurt by more conservative
churches.
I can not describe the depths of despair I endured watching my family so
hurt by those who declared love for us.8 years on and the pain still lives on and my faith is non existent!The
church has grown and the pastor travels all over the world preaching and being feted
by everyone.He is now high up in the G12 organisation doing very well thank you!!
I've been
hurt by supposed brothers in Christ, I've seen TV preachers act cocky, and ridiculous, I've seen people chase tithes and money, I've seen people in big
churches (faithful tithers) go without help while in need, I've seen people chase their own kingdom and building programs.
We get
hurt sometimes for sure (and I'll add my name to the list of people who've been maimed
by organized
church).
Some who come to the pastor belong to the
Church, either nominally or actively; some once belonged and have left; some have been
hurt by their experience in the
Church; and some are seeking for the first time to become members of the Body of Christ.
«I prefer a
church which is bruised,
hurting and dirty because it has been out on the streets, rather than a
church which is unhealthy from being confined and from clinging to its own security... More than
by fear of going astray, my hope is that we will be moved
by the fear of remaining shut up within structures which give us a false sense of security, within rules which make us harsh judges, within habits which make us feel safe, while at our door people are starving and Jesus does not tire of saying to us: «Give them something to eat.»»
-- the spinelessness: when it's revealed that someone is being
hurt by someone else in the congregation, why don't
church leaders do anything to stop it?