Not exact matches
The same way no one should
feel guilty
about, say, wanting to
hurt others, stealing money, or raping women.
Thinking that you are always right and everyone else is wrong will indeed
hurt your ability to interact with and love on your neighbors — but don't blame a wrong spirit on theology; there is precious little possibility that you could think and
feel like that
about yourself when it comes to theology and NOT think and
feel like that in pretty much all situations with
other folks.
Actually, np, I'm
feeling very strongly
about this because of my personal experience of trying to manage
hurt: I think you are disrespecting yourself by requiring nothing of
others.
We should all do ourselves a favor and help one anther stop listening to
others tell us to fight wars and kill kiil kill that is not living life humans are easily brain washed and talked into things that end up
hurting them I have seen this happen all the time he
hurt our own loved ones sometimes because someone told us its what we have to do that is not living life do nt let someone tell you that you mean nothing because you mean a whole lot to someone but mostly you should mean a whole lot to yourself most of all that is the only way that you can take how you
feel about yourself and pass that amazing
feeling onto
others and that is really all you need to know
about life its there to enjoy treat yourself and
others well live life live it well
I agree with
about half of everything said
about him (give or take) As for the
other half, I
feel that it's people exaggerating or going over the top because they are
hurt from loss or what not.
Seriously, what is it
about feeding that makes so many of us turn into judgmental, thoughtless people who think it's ok to make
others feel rubbish through the unnecessary
hurt they hurl from their laptop keyboards?
And this whole «don't talk
about it because you might
hurt other people's
feelings» is exactly the problem, Lynnette.
«Even though we learn to blame
others for our unhappiness and misery in relationships, we also know at some unspoken level how our masculinity has limited and injured us as we touch the
hurt and pain of realizing how little we seem to
feel about anything.»
Its all
about not
hurting the
other midwives
feelings, and you aren't allowed to discuss any illegal actions or misconduct.
If you listen to how
hurt a sibling is then they may
feel that you care
about them and that you do not side with one over the
other.
Even though children are clearly
hurt and affected by their parent's infidelity, your narrative can be very confusing to a child, who may then be confused
about their
other parent's
feelings towards them.
They don't want to contradict or argue with that parent but it
hurts them to hear bad things
about someone they love and they may
feel guilty if they don't defend the
other one.
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Feeling Hurt?
We can help by talking to our toddlers
about kindness, showing sympathy and care when teddies «get
hurt», playing role - play doctor / nurse games and talking to them
about other people's
feelings if they've
hurt or upset another child.
I love the way we and our son's birth parents can agree to disagree
about things without worrying
about hurting each
other's
feelings or keeping our opinions to ourselves, just like any
other family.
I remember having a disagreement
about what hunger
felt like — I asserted my stomach actually
hurt when I was hungry but was told, no, hunger «pangs» didn't mean pain, and that
other people didn't
feel pain when hungry.
I am very sensitive and caring
about others and I strive to never offend or
hurt anyone
feelings.
I am a very humble and caring person, i am always very careful of the way i treat people and how
others feel about the things i do that might
hurt them.
I think she
felt that whatever she tried to do wasn't good enough, and why couldn't Lady Bird just appreciate what she had — that comment that Danny [Lucas Hedges» character] made
about the
other side of the tracks definitely
hurt her.
Acknowledge when children
feel angry or left out, talk with them
about their emotions without being dismissive, and explore how they might cope with those
feelings in ways that make them
feel better without
hurting others.
Looks like the comments in this article are nothing more then xbox fanboys hugging each
other and talking
about how the Sony fanboys
hurt their
feelings.
Paola Antonelli Talks
About Why MoMA Bought Pong — The MoMA curator says she «never
felt hurt at all by the criticism» in an interview following the MoMA's acquisition of Pong and five
other video games.
On the
other hand, concerns
about the Internet
hurting writing
feel overblown.
Don't act out your
hurt and anger on your children, or talk
about your negative
feelings toward the
other parent around your children.
It goes against the popularly held belief that people who are «in love» don't
hurt each
other's
feelings and can know what the
other person desires without ever talking
about it.
The partners were asked if things like any of the following happens to them: my partner has gone «behind my back» and shared private information
about me with
other people; when my partner has been angry or jealous of me, he / she has tried to damage my reputation by gossiping
about me; my partner gives me the silent treatment when I
hurt his / her
feelings; my partner withholds affection or sex from me when he / she is angry with me.
I can top all of you being in a wait and see relationship for 24 years, good times, great sex but no respect; it has taken me this long to realize that love doesn't
hurt; love cares what the
other person's needs are and tries to fulfill them; the plain truth is that this guy is a user out of our good nature; the worse of the worse because they know the
feelings and
hurt in someone and they continue to take, string along to fulfill their own needs; it isn't
about how much we love them; it is
about how little that they love us; no one lets a person that they truly love be in pain, year after year; it is a defect in their make up and a defect in ours to stay and settle for less than we deserve; there is love after this and we have to learn to love ourself enough to stop this pain on our own behalf; mine has thrown me out like an old shoe over and over and I forgive him, not now; I forgive myself for wasting time and need to move on to find someone who isn't selfish and using; I can't change him, I can only change me and that I am going to do; there is a saying that if you aren't over him you are under him, exactly l see you and best of luck to my poor replacement.
For
other couples, conversations
about sex are filled with anxiety, shame, embarrassment, and fear of
hurting your partner, so it's hard to find resolution or
feel more connected.
By encouraging open and honest communication, I help them talk through their
hurt and tell each
other how they
feel about the fight.
Help for sexual addiction, much like
other addictions, comes from learning
about the roots of the problem, addressing your
feelings and behaviors honestly, and embarking on a recovery process to stop the behaviors and patterns which
hurt yourself and / or
others.
Conflict is difficult because it typically leaves both parties
feeling emotionally flooded,
hurt, and hesitant
about future connections with the
other person.
They either won't be interested or will
feel hurt and embarrassed that they are being talked
about and judged by
other people.
Do your best to keep your anger,
hurt and
other feelings about the separation away from your child, as you don't want them to worry.
Hanging in there because you
feel too badly
about hurting the
other person, or because you think that they can't handle it or can't bounce back from divorce is your issue, not their's.
A counselor or therapist may be able to help you to address your
feelings about your ex, and help you to focus on your ex as your children's
other parent, as opposed to someone who
hurt you, or whom you dislike.
Often we listen to our assumptions, expectations, and
hurt feelings more than keeping ourselves open to learning
about each
other.
The
other parent no matter how they
feel about each
other unless it is proven that they are
hurt by the
other parent not just because they can't get along.
And when confronting your spouse
about hurt feelings or
other negative actions, it may be necessary to offer honest and difficult feedback
about your spouse's behavior.