I tell ya... sincere, Godly sorrow for
the hurt feelings of others is a powerful healing balm.
It is all too easy to lash out and
hurt the feelings of other users by being rude or terse.
It is all too easy to lash out and
hurt the feelings of other users by being rude or curt.
It's a bit like giving someone a brilliant, bright red Ferrari and then telling them that they can only drive it when it's foggy, so as not to
hurt the feelings of other drivers.
Not exact matches
Wallowing in talk
of other people's misdeeds or misfortunes may end up
hurting their
feelings if the gossip ever finds its way to them, but gossiping is guaranteed to make you look negative and spiteful every time.
It risks confrontation, resentment,
hurt feelings, and so on, so in a lot
of interactions when someone is wrong the
other person just politely nods his head in agreement and then proceeds to ignore everything the person said.
Get lost in people's eyes today and in swaths
of sun on any afternoon, and lose track
of time and get lost in a good book, and smile abundantly, till your cheek
hurts, because you are alive after all, and you have time to
feel wind on your face and you have time to reach out to one person and remember how we all belong to each
other and each
of us gets a place to belong and the abundance
of your life is not measured in the ways you gained — but in what you gave away.
If the pastor has a keen awareness
of what we have come to regard as the interpersonal
hurt of his patient; knows the desperate and yet fatal need
of the patient to evade further pain, no matter by what means, and often by striking out and
hurting loved ones;
feels something
of the almost overwhelming and intolerable anxiety the patient experiences; is not too shaken by the terror evoked through what Kierkegaard expressed as «shut - up - ness unfreely revealed»; and can accept the consequent intense
feelings of guilt and shame which isolate the patient from himself, from
others and from God, then his ministry has within it the necessary element for a supportive and creative experience for the patient.
Sometimes,
of course, the
other person will cut you off or
hurt you - maybe not intentionally, but as a result
of feeling they aren't being faithful unless they punish you in some way for being wrong.
The growth counselor's function is to help such persons as they work through their resistance to bury a dead relationship; uncouple without infighting so as to avoid further
hurt to each
other and to their children; agree on a plan for the children that will be best for the children's mental health; work through the ambivalent
feelings that usually accompany divorce — guilt, rage, release, resentment, failure, joy, loss — so that each person's infected grief wound can heal; discover what each contributed to the disintegration
of their relationship; learn the relationship - building and love - nurturing skills which each will need either to enjoy creative singlehood or to establish a better marriage.
you, on the
other hand, seem to want to shut down religious discussion because you are afraid
of people getting their
feelings hurt.
I forgive you though lol — I think what you're saying is the equivalent
of «hate
hurts the hater»: the negative
feelings we have towards
others make us
feel, well, negative.
It means being sensitive to the needs,
hurts, and
feelings of others and caring enough to speak the loving word and do the loving deed.
Spend some time together each day seeking to get reconnected through communicating, caring, affirming each
other, and dealing with small
hurts and frictions that otherwise may build into a cold wall that blocks the flow
of loving, sensual
feelings.
Wounded people
hurt others and out
of their
hurt, they judge and label
other; which I believe gives them a
feeling of control.
Actually, np, I'm
feeling very strongly about this because
of my personal experience
of trying to manage
hurt: I think you are disrespecting yourself by requiring nothing
of others.
We should all do ourselves a favor and help one anther stop listening to
others tell us to fight wars and kill kiil kill that is not living life humans are easily brain washed and talked into things that end up
hurting them I have seen this happen all the time he
hurt our own loved ones sometimes because someone told us its what we have to do that is not living life do nt let someone tell you that you mean nothing because you mean a whole lot to someone but mostly you should mean a whole lot to yourself most
of all that is the only way that you can take how you
feel about yourself and pass that amazing
feeling onto
others and that is really all you need to know about life its there to enjoy treat yourself and
others well live life live it well
If you are
feeling lost, disillusioned or
hurt as a result
of a shift in your faith or by a negative church (or
other faith community) experience, Walking Wounded just might be the class for you.
If you are
feeling lost, disillusioned or
hurt as a result
of a shift in your faith or by a negative church (or
other faith community) experience, this just might be the class for you.
In all honesty, the «religious people» that don't legislate against things based solely on their religious convictions and thereby
hurt the rights
of individuals, and who don't condemn science and medicine and societal progression and
other religions and
other denominations and people who are not religious, and who don't claim to know that something is true beyond all
other truths, are probably a very slim minority, and I'd have to argue that they aren't really religious, they are just doing whatever makes them
feel good, which could be accomplished through secular means as well.
It does this by creating a climate
of acceptance —
of feelings and impulses (around which irrational guilt often forms)-- and by confronting the young person with the need to change irresponsible, self -
other hurting behavior (the source
of appropriate guilt).
You may not
feel any
of this applies to you but there are many people who know guilt and who are very aware
of their sinfulness; having
hurt others, having used violence, having broken families through drug abuse, sexual abuseâ $ ¦ I could go on, not just big sins but lots
of destructive small sins as well.
Scobie has always
felt such pity and responsibility for
others that he can not bring himself to
hurt people, and to avoid inflicting
hurt he commits all kinds
of sins.
Actually, the concept
of American exceptionalism can be found in those that simply allow
others to think and behave as they
feel as long as it isn't
hurting anyone and that allows people to flourish in all areas
of their lives.
People kill for the sake
of killing in this world, people chop down trees just for the pleasure
of watching them fall, they kill little animals, there are people out there who live to wreak havoc on
others, even in the most insignificant wayâ $» whether itâ $ ™ s making someone
feel bad or attacking someone where it
hurts the most.
We've been in such a deep freeze in Chicago, like lots
of other places, that I
felt grateful to be able to go outside without my face
hurting after a few minutes in the elements.
Problem is that they're gonna
feel it too, it's alright for them to tell
others what to do and why they should be pissed, but god forbid they should
hurt themselves in the process
of trying to
hurt Arsenal.
Instead, we win a game that
hurts our lottery odds and really has no apparent benefit
other than the nice
feeling that we let Vince play 24 minutes in his final game, maybe
of his career.
I always
felt if I worked my rear end off, even if I weren't shooting well, some
other part
of my game would
hurt you.
(like you tell us every day the reason we lost at Swansea was solely down to the fact it was PISSING DOWN WITH RAIN) Jon is passionate beyond reason with his anger frustration and hatred
of Wenger.You can almost
feel it in his posts every day.Jon and many
others write
of how this is
hurting us and will continue to until Wenger is gone.So I will now come back to the reason I have sent this reply.
I agree with about half
of everything said about him (give or take) As for the
other half, I
feel that it's people exaggerating or going over the top because they are
hurt from loss or what not.
I had a hard time articulating why it
hurts my
feelings to see
other women say we who were offended by Motrin's ad are just a bunch
of whiners who should be focusing on more important issues.
The
feeling of an unfulfilled desires really
hurt, when you know that
other people get it all the time.
I don't want to
hurt any
of their
feelings but on the
other hand, it's my child and my life and I don't see why their opinion matters.
Seriously, what is it about feeding that makes so many
of us turn into judgmental, thoughtless people who think it's ok to make
others feel rubbish through the unnecessary
hurt they hurl from their laptop keyboards?
«Even though we learn to blame
others for our unhappiness and misery in relationships, we also know at some unspoken level how our masculinity has limited and injured us as we touch the
hurt and pain
of realizing how little we seem to
feel about anything.»
They might worry that one parent may
feel especially sad or
hurt because
of being yelled at by the
other parent.
Some expecting moms
feel strongly that not
hurting too much is their first priority, while for
others it is way more important to not use anything that may interfere with the labor process or the well - being
of the baby.
Establish team rules for how to treat each
other: Although this might seem unnecessary, many coaches
of girls» teams report that by laying out the ground rules for how to treat one another they avoid a lot
of hurt feelings later on.
At
other times they may be experiencing
hurt feelings or stress that get in the way
of feeling our warm presence and attention.
Making your child
feel ashamed for eating certain foods over
others, sneaking food or not eating a certain food will not only
hurt his self - esteem, but it will also create negative associations with food and perhaps encourage long - term picky eating, binge eating or
other forms
of disordered eating.
The security
of knowing that someone is watching out for him is what allows a child to explore, to risk bumps, disappointment and
hurt feelings, and to come out the
other side.
Most
of us find it very difficult to say «no» to
other people out
of a sense
of responsibility, even when we can easily do so without
hurting others»
feelings.
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Feeling Hurt?
On the
other hand, if your tot does exhibit all
of the
other signs, or even if you just
feel like something is «off,» it can never
hurt to bring it up with your pediatrician.
Cuomo also suggested that New York Democrats may have
felt that they didn't need to turn out at the polls for the top
of the ticket,
hurting other candidates.
One
of the most profound gifts I once received from a wise friend in a moment
of emotional turmoil was having her thank me for sharing my
hurt — because in doing so I was making it possible for
others to
feel their own pain and let it go!
Sometimes we just need a way to say no that doesn't
hurt the
other person's
feelings - since a lot
of the time we say yes because we're afraid
of how someone else will
feel if we say no.
so instead
of drugs or drinking i returned to the weights and juice i guess thats a drug lol in this last 2 yrs I've tried everything, to train like i was at the intensity at 28 uh not happening, Im at the point now where i got to be happy with me at 195 0r 200 cuz if i get any stronger I'm gonna get more achy and
hurt, so my long ass point here is regardless
of this routine that was posted the high reps will keep you lifting longer, as your pump issue i find natural or not its the time between sets that dictates the pump, Corey you and many
other naturals have done it all and still don't look huge its genes id still be 170 or less i bet if it wasn't for juice but let me say i wish i didn't do it seriously i had a crappy sexdrive till androgel came out and now I'm only on 300 test a week, I'm done with deca and eq I've been reading or maybe looking for negative stuff and I've found it, Another thing is with this routine to go to failure and getting to heavy weights on so many sets i think will take a cns toll i
feel like crap for the last 4 days i overdid it.
Because the pieces
of the body are all connected, you'll often see benefits in
other areas that
feel stiff or
hurt.