Last time Councilmember Laurie Cumbo made the news, she was defending
the hurt feelings of people of who beat up strangers on the street, on the grounds that they suffer justified «resentment» against «Jewish landlords.»
Explain that when she says something mean about the food or makes a rude face, it can
hurt the feelings of the person who did the cooking.
Not exact matches
So is there any way out
of this conundrum, a technique that allows for
people's self - protective impulses but still helps them wholeheartedly admit errors and soothe
hurt feelings?
You can't please everybody, but if you're so afraid
of offending
people or
hurting their
feelings that you apologize for every decision you make or opinion you have, you end up looking weak — and that doesn't do you or your business any good.
Undergoing a moment
of awkwardness to clear things up is much better than
people holding on to
hurt feelings and letting them stew.
That probably has been Trump's experience in life: the intense desire
of people to be with The Winner, or a billionaire, makes folks suppress their
hurt feelings.
Wallowing in talk
of other
people's misdeeds or misfortunes may end up
hurting their
feelings if the gossip ever finds its way to them, but gossiping is guaranteed to make you look negative and spiteful every time.
It's wrong for the public restaurant installation to assert its religious belief particularly much favorable toward Chriatian faith diners; the mood should be like acceptace
of all racial, religious backgrounds, and particularly for gay
people not to
feel discriminated and
hurt!
But when 1.6 Billion human beings say don't
hurt our
feelings by drawing cartoons (good or bad)
of a
person who is closer to our hearts than our own families and children, all the tolerance goes down the you know what.
«If, against my intention, I've
hurt the Jewish
people's
feelings and those
of the victims
of child abuse, I'm truly sorry and ask forgiveness,» the Rev. Raniero Cantalamessa said in an interview published in the Italian newspaper Corriere della Sera.
It risks confrontation, resentment,
hurt feelings, and so on, so in a lot
of interactions when someone is wrong the other
person just politely nods his head in agreement and then proceeds to ignore everything the
person said.
Get lost in
people's eyes today and in swaths
of sun on any afternoon, and lose track
of time and get lost in a good book, and smile abundantly, till your cheek
hurts, because you are alive after all, and you have time to
feel wind on your face and you have time to reach out to one
person and remember how we all belong to each other and each
of us gets a place to belong and the abundance
of your life is not measured in the ways you gained — but in what you gave away.
Jura Nanuk, founder & President
of Central - European Religious Freedom Inst.itute, wrote the minister an open letter in which she stated: «Did it ever occur to you that instead
of pretending to be a victim due to your
hurt feelings you might show some compassion for
people who were taken to the brink
of extinction by your ancestors?
I just
felt the need to point out that any «organization»
of people, whether it's a family or a Boy Scout troop or a chess club — or a church — sets up a situation where
people can be
hurt, and it nearly always involves sin.
«The reality is that more and more we're seeing young
people carry knives out
of fear, out
of peer pressure and I guess as a response to the fact that they see in their communities
people being
hurt and
feeling unsafe,» she says.
Persons who have been
hurt in close childhood relationships often
feel a painful inner conflict simultaneously pulling them toward intimacy, to get their basic needs met, and away from intimacy, because
of the fear
of repeating old
hurts.
Sometimes,
of course, the other
person will cut you off or
hurt you - maybe not intentionally, but as a result
of feeling they aren't being faithful unless they punish you in some way for being wrong.
If his acceptance
of feeling is mistaken by counselees for acceptance
of their
person -
hurting behavior, they will be confused and letdown by him.
There are some
of us out here who
feel the Father's heart
hurting for what
people do to you, whether you are a believer or not.
The growth counselor's function is to help such
persons as they work through their resistance to bury a dead relationship; uncouple without infighting so as to avoid further
hurt to each other and to their children; agree on a plan for the children that will be best for the children's mental health; work through the ambivalent
feelings that usually accompany divorce — guilt, rage, release, resentment, failure, joy, loss — so that each
person's infected grief wound can heal; discover what each contributed to the disintegration
of their relationship; learn the relationship - building and love - nurturing skills which each will need either to enjoy creative singlehood or to establish a better marriage.
you, on the other hand, seem to want to shut down religious discussion because you are afraid
of people getting their
feelings hurt.
ok... I think there was 1 question in there that was a Biblical reference... so why should evangelicals score 100 %??? I
feel sorry for all the venemous
people that are so full
of hate... try to grow up a little and open your mind and let God in so He can heal all
of those
hurts so you can let go
of the hate and poison in your hearts!!
(CNN)- China spoke out strongly Sunday against a meeting between U.S. President Barack Obama and the Dalai Lama, saying it «
hurt the
feelings of the Chinese
people and harmed Sino-U.S. relations.»
«I prefer a church which is bruised,
hurting and dirty because it has been out on the streets, rather than a church which is unhealthy from being confined and from clinging to its own security... More than by fear
of going astray, my hope is that we will be moved by the fear
of remaining shut up within structures which give us a false sense
of security, within rules which make us harsh judges, within habits which make us
feel safe, while at our door
people are starving and Jesus does not tire
of saying to us: «Give them something to eat.»»
Being upset by the presence
of people different from you to the point
of feeling like you have to
hurt them isn't a virtue.
God accepts whatever we bring to the God /
person relationship — our physical and spiritual condition, personality, connection to reality, our participation in relationships, talents, inabilities, cognition, knowledge, ignorance, life journey, spiritual journey, walk about, wandering, seeking, questioning, questing, acceptance
of God, rejection
of God — and our emotional and mental status: hate / love, anger / peace, sadness / happiness,
hurt / health,
feeling lost and abandoned /
feeling found and included, agitation / serenity, apathy / passion, confusion / clarity, fractures / wholeness — all
of this, all
of whoever we are and have ever been and every action committed or ever contemplated and every thought we ever explored or entertained or that flitted through our mind — all
of this, we bring to the God /
person relationship and God accepts the totality
of who we are and every component that comprises who we are — as a gift.
Wounded
people hurt others and out
of their
hurt, they judge and label other; which I believe gives them a
feeling of control.
Taking time to reflect on our
feeling and the root issues makes us aware
of what we are really upset about, rather than projecting
hurt onto an unrelated situation or
person.
but i will not sit here and say anything bad because god said treat everyone like i want to be treated so go head and make fun
of me that is fine
people toile me i would finish school and i did and
people told me that i would get marry and i did
people told me i would have kids and i did so i think u are just like everyone else that told me i would do anything so i hope u understand u have
hurt my
feeling but i will let it go because god said to forgive everyone just like my mom gave me i forgive her to so i hope u ae happy
Yeah, when
people made fun
of HappyMeal it
hurt my
feelings and made me cry myself to sleep.
Those who are left
feel a little confused,
hurt or angry by this leaving but continue on determined to be inclusive
of newcomers and «not like those
people who can't get on board with change» (i.e., the ones who left).
Did you become an Atheist to bully
people and
hurt their
feelings or was that just one
of the fringe benefits?
Then I started to realize that the Church itself was creating a lot
of hurt and angry
people who
felt marginalized and doing all it could to save face.
But the more answers
people need, the more elaborate stories they make up locking us forever after into an outdates network
of outdated answers that once made somebody «
feel good» but now hold us back and
hurt millions.
In all honesty, the «religious
people» that don't legislate against things based solely on their religious convictions and thereby
hurt the rights
of individuals, and who don't condemn science and medicine and societal progression and other religions and other denominations and
people who are not religious, and who don't claim to know that something is true beyond all other truths, are probably a very slim minority, and I'd have to argue that they aren't really religious, they are just doing whatever makes them
feel good, which could be accomplished through secular means as well.
It does this by creating a climate
of acceptance —
of feelings and impulses (around which irrational guilt often forms)-- and by confronting the young
person with the need to change irresponsible, self - other
hurting behavior (the source
of appropriate guilt).
You may not
feel any
of this applies to you but there are many
people who know guilt and who are very aware
of their sinfulness; having
hurt others, having used violence, having broken families through drug abuse, sexual abuseâ $ ¦ I could go on, not just big sins but lots
of destructive small sins as well.
Scobie has always
felt such pity and responsibility for others that he can not bring himself to
hurt people, and to avoid inflicting
hurt he commits all kinds
of sins.
Actually, the concept
of American exceptionalism can be found in those that simply allow others to think and behave as they
feel as long as it isn't
hurting anyone and that allows
people to flourish in all areas
of their lives.
It was not just that he
felt it all to be unseemly or even scandalous in the way that Erasmus and so many
people of all classes did; he certainly
felt that, but he was more deeply scandalised and
hurt in his own inner being; his own nature was in some sort under attack.
It is crucial that
people come to
feel guilt about significant things — that is, those misuses
of one's freedom that
hurt persons.
People kill for the sake of killing in this world, people chop down trees just for the pleasure of watching them fall, they kill little animals, there are people out there who live to wreak havoc on others, even in the most insignificant wayâ $» whether itâ $ ™ s making someone feel bad or attacking someone where it hurts the
People kill for the sake
of killing in this world,
people chop down trees just for the pleasure of watching them fall, they kill little animals, there are people out there who live to wreak havoc on others, even in the most insignificant wayâ $» whether itâ $ ™ s making someone feel bad or attacking someone where it hurts the
people chop down trees just for the pleasure
of watching them fall, they kill little animals, there are
people out there who live to wreak havoc on others, even in the most insignificant wayâ $» whether itâ $ ™ s making someone feel bad or attacking someone where it hurts the
people out there who live to wreak havoc on others, even in the most insignificant wayâ $» whether itâ $ ™ s making someone
feel bad or attacking someone where it
hurts the most.
, but by the end most
people feel amazing, healthy, and full
of energy (as I said before, even if you have no food sensitivities, a month
of nothing but clean eating never
hurt anyone).
I agree with about half
of everything said about him (give or take) As for the other half, I
feel that it's
people exaggerating or going over the top because they are
hurt from loss or what not.
Sure,
people pay attention peripherally during slams — a majority
of the casual set could probably tell you that Roger Federer is struggling, that Rafael Nadal is back, that Serena Williams is still looking good, that Sloane Stephens is rising quickly, that Maria Sharapova is
hurt, and that a couple
of women they'd never heard
of were in the Wimbledon final — but only when the U.S. Open begins does this sport
feel completely natural and at home in the states.
The
feeling of an unfulfilled desires really
hurt, when you know that other
people get it all the time.
I didn't let
people know the true depth
of the
hurt I was
feeling after my first miscarriage.
Seriously, what is it about feeding that makes so many
of us turn into judgmental, thoughtless
people who think it's ok to make others
feel rubbish through the unnecessary
hurt they hurl from their laptop keyboards?
Don't stop being a lactavist because you are afraid
of hurting people's
feelings or being called, «judgmental».
Instead, when you have some quiet downtime, read picture books together about
feelings; look at photos
of people and talk about the
feelings you see on their faces; brainstorm together about what to do when you're
hurt that someone doesn't want to play with you, when you're angry that a friend grabbed your toy, when you're scared in bed after lights out.