The couple are often not even aware that
hurt feelings of rejection underlie their conflicts.
Not exact matches
God accepts whatever we bring to the God / person relationship — our physical and spiritual condition, personality, connection to reality, our participation in relationships, talents, inabilities, cognition, knowledge, ignorance, life journey, spiritual journey, walk about, wandering, seeking, questioning, questing, acceptance
of God,
rejection of God — and our emotional and mental status: hate / love, anger / peace, sadness / happiness,
hurt / health,
feeling lost and abandoned /
feeling found and included, agitation / serenity, apathy / passion, confusion / clarity, fractures / wholeness — all
of this, all
of whoever we are and have ever been and every action committed or ever contemplated and every thought we ever explored or entertained or that flitted through our mind — all
of this, we bring to the God / person relationship and God accepts the totality
of who we are and every component that comprises who we are — as a gift.
Heartsease (pansy) is great for
feelings of rejection,
hurt and loneliness.
Physical pain and intense
feelings of social
rejection hurt in the same way.
He interpreted this as a sign
of rejection, which produced a
feeling in him
of hurt.
Provide a method for helping the high desire spouse share
feelings of hurt and
rejection while guiding the low - desire spouse to empathically listen to the deeper needs
of their partner
Unrealistic expectations result in
feelings of disappointment, followed by resentment, even anger,
hurt and
rejection.
Defend the practice
of allowing the
hurt partner to express anger, insecurity, resentment, fear and
feelings of rejection, rather than down - regulating their expression
of emotion.
Defend the practice
of allowing the
hurt partner to express anger, insecurity, resentment, fear and
feelings of rejection, rather down - regulating their expression
of emotion.
Dr. Sadie Leder - Elder - Science
of Relationships articles Website / CV Dr. Leder - Elder's research focuses on how people balance their desires for closeness and protection against
rejection, specifically during partner selection, goal negotiation within established romantic relationships, and the experience
of romantic love,
hurt feelings, and relationship rekindling.
All this leaves one partner in the curious position
of having to deal with all the anger,
hurt and
rejection associated with an affair, while the other simply shrugs those
feeling off and doesn't get what the big deal is.
It's easy to get angry at your partner but under the anger lurks
feelings of hurt, sadness,
rejection, fear, loneliness, betrayal, shame and
rejection to name a few.
A fantasy bond allows us to
feel secure and connected to someone else, while numbing us against some
of the more painful emotions that love stirs up, such as existential anxieties, fears
of loss, memories
of hurt, longing, or
rejection.
Inside, this person is often full
of fear,
hurt,
rejection and loneliness,
feeling angry at the unfairness
of how they are treated.
How can a person be vulnerable emotionally and physically if s / he
feels fearful
of rejection and
hurt?