Abusers want power and control in the relationship and strive to maintain that imbalance, even if it means continuing unhealthy and
hurtful behavior patterns.
Not exact matches
Our work together encourages open and honest relating • increases listening without judgement and speaking without anger • decreases fighting, bickering and cold shoulders • enhances intimacy, sexuality and satisfaction • dissolves
hurtful and dysfunctional
patterns of
behavior.
But other subconscious
patterns can damage our relationships by driving
behaviors that are unintentionally
hurtful to others.
Recognizing and identifying
hurtful behaviors is also useful so the spouses can put these
behaviors in the past by changing
patterns going forward and making different choices that will support a relationship respectful of each other's needs.
External Boundaries — protect us from
hurtful behaviors and
pattern from continuing in your relationships.