In the early days we tried it, because that's what you're supposed to do and you we didn't want to
hurt each others feelings.
I am considered to be honest, forthright, Tell it like it is without
hurting others feelings, playful at times and too serious sometimes.
Not exact matches
I've decided to pursue
other opportunities is better, but may still result in uncomfortable questions and
hurt feelings.
Wallowing in talk of
other people's misdeeds or misfortunes may end up
hurting their
feelings if the gossip ever finds its way to them, but gossiping is guaranteed to make you look negative and spiteful every time.
Unfortunately, organizations can put too little emphasis on any individual's abilities or accomplishments for fear
others will
feel hurt or left out.
Feeling passed over by God, we can easily slip into deep
hurt, fueled by confusion and a belief that
others were called out while we were ignored.
We truly need not
feel threatened by what
other's believe, unless they intend harm by actions based on those beliefs — but their beliefs are only that, beliefs and can not
hurt us.
As a Christian, I find that I make the same mistakes atheists make; I resent people typecasting me just as
others do, I get my
feelings hurt when people bash me for no reason, I get angry when I see selfish, mean people attacking
others needlessly, and I hate war, death, and cruelty where ever it is found.
Why
hurt each
other's
feelings?
The same way no one should
feel guilty about, say, wanting to
hurt others, stealing money, or raping women.
Our instincts are such that we
feel bad when
other people are
hurt and we try not to cause that to happen.
It risks confrontation, resentment,
hurt feelings, and so on, so in a lot of interactions when someone is wrong the
other person just politely nods his head in agreement and then proceeds to ignore everything the person said.
Get lost in people's eyes today and in swaths of sun on any afternoon, and lose track of time and get lost in a good book, and smile abundantly, till your cheek
hurts, because you are alive after all, and you have time to
feel wind on your face and you have time to reach out to one person and remember how we all belong to each
other and each of us gets a place to belong and the abundance of your life is not measured in the ways you gained — but in what you gave away.
Instead, his ignoring what I and
others are saying is honestly making me
feel more marginalized and more
hurt.
If the pastor has a keen awareness of what we have come to regard as the interpersonal
hurt of his patient; knows the desperate and yet fatal need of the patient to evade further pain, no matter by what means, and often by striking out and
hurting loved ones;
feels something of the almost overwhelming and intolerable anxiety the patient experiences; is not too shaken by the terror evoked through what Kierkegaard expressed as «shut - up - ness unfreely revealed»; and can accept the consequent intense
feelings of guilt and shame which isolate the patient from himself, from
others and from God, then his ministry has within it the necessary element for a supportive and creative experience for the patient.
Sometimes, of course, the
other person will cut you off or
hurt you - maybe not intentionally, but as a result of
feeling they aren't being faithful unless they punish you in some way for being wrong.
Thinking that you are always right and everyone else is wrong will indeed
hurt your ability to interact with and love on your neighbors — but don't blame a wrong spirit on theology; there is precious little possibility that you could think and
feel like that about yourself when it comes to theology and NOT think and
feel like that in pretty much all situations with
other folks.
Unfortunately, many
feel that this gives them permission to
hurt others as long as it receives a good result.
It's very easy for those who have not been
hurt by this man, his ministry, and his teaching to sit on the sidelines and tell me and
others how to
feel.
Sharing a love for God may allow you and your significant
other to deal with such
hurt feelings differently than if he or she were a non-believer.
Has a Christian or
other religious person done something to
hurt you that you
feel requires you to lash out?
The growth counselor's function is to help such persons as they work through their resistance to bury a dead relationship; uncouple without infighting so as to avoid further
hurt to each
other and to their children; agree on a plan for the children that will be best for the children's mental health; work through the ambivalent
feelings that usually accompany divorce — guilt, rage, release, resentment, failure, joy, loss — so that each person's infected grief wound can heal; discover what each contributed to the disintegration of their relationship; learn the relationship - building and love - nurturing skills which each will need either to enjoy creative singlehood or to establish a better marriage.
Or are you like
others that malign just because a few people got their
feelings hurt when Mark pointed out that their lives are not in accordance with God's Word?
Delusions: These are beliefs that are not true, such as
feeling people are following or trying to
hurt them, believing
other people can read their minds, or beliefs that they have special powers or abilities.
Then there are
others who
feel superior and use their religion to
hurt and judge
others who have never done anything to them.
you, on the
other hand, seem to want to shut down religious discussion because you are afraid of people getting their
feelings hurt.
In the
other marriage the partners fought frequently and vented the
feelings that lingered from their distressing childhoods yet were careful not to physically
hurt or lose their loving concern for each
other.
For some reason, people like you seem to take particular joy in trying to
hurt other peoples
feelings.
I forgive you though lol — I think what you're saying is the equivalent of «hate
hurts the hater»: the negative
feelings we have towards
others make us
feel, well, negative.
It means being sensitive to the needs,
hurts, and
feelings of
others and caring enough to speak the loving word and do the loving deed.
Others are not safe - you know not to mess with them cause you'll only
feel hurt if you do.
Some comply with authority in ways that make them
feel emotionally castrated;
others defy authority in rebellious, self -
hurting ways.
Spend some time together each day seeking to get reconnected through communicating, caring, affirming each
other, and dealing with small
hurts and frictions that otherwise may build into a cold wall that blocks the flow of loving, sensual
feelings.
Jeremy i could see how that could have happened the motive was there and he
felt he had a lot to lose and thats what can happen in real life situations.People
feel all there hopes and dreams are suddenly squashed there purpose future gone so people become depressed and want to die
others get angry and want to
hurt others.I believe that is what happened To Cain he got angry.
Each is immediately lost in protecting him - self from the further
hurt which is expected, and can not stop to wonder what the
other is really
feeling.
Wounded people
hurt others and out of their
hurt, they judge and label
other; which I believe gives them a
feeling of control.
Actually, np, I'm
feeling very strongly about this because of my personal experience of trying to manage
hurt: I think you are disrespecting yourself by requiring nothing of
others.
We should all do ourselves a favor and help one anther stop listening to
others tell us to fight wars and kill kiil kill that is not living life humans are easily brain washed and talked into things that end up
hurting them I have seen this happen all the time he
hurt our own loved ones sometimes because someone told us its what we have to do that is not living life do nt let someone tell you that you mean nothing because you mean a whole lot to someone but mostly you should mean a whole lot to yourself most of all that is the only way that you can take how you
feel about yourself and pass that amazing
feeling onto
others and that is really all you need to know about life its there to enjoy treat yourself and
others well live life live it well
If you are
feeling lost, disillusioned or
hurt as a result of a shift in your faith or by a negative church (or
other faith community) experience, Walking Wounded just might be the class for you.
For my part, I
feel hurting others — rejecting, not listening, blaming — is worse for me than being on the receiving end, only because I now know Jesus is using this pain to refine me.
If you are
feeling lost, disillusioned or
hurt as a result of a shift in your faith or by a negative church (or
other faith community) experience, this just might be the class for you.
In all honesty, the «religious people» that don't legislate against things based solely on their religious convictions and thereby
hurt the rights of individuals, and who don't condemn science and medicine and societal progression and
other religions and
other denominations and people who are not religious, and who don't claim to know that something is true beyond all
other truths, are probably a very slim minority, and I'd have to argue that they aren't really religious, they are just doing whatever makes them
feel good, which could be accomplished through secular means as well.
It does this by creating a climate of acceptance — of
feelings and impulses (around which irrational guilt often forms)-- and by confronting the young person with the need to change irresponsible, self -
other hurting behavior (the source of appropriate guilt).
You may not
feel any of this applies to you but there are many people who know guilt and who are very aware of their sinfulness; having
hurt others, having used violence, having broken families through drug abuse, sexual abuseâ $ ¦ I could go on, not just big sins but lots of destructive small sins as well.
not wanting
hurt other people's
feelings.
Scobie has always
felt such pity and responsibility for
others that he can not bring himself to
hurt people, and to avoid inflicting
hurt he commits all kinds of sins.
Actually, the concept of American exceptionalism can be found in those that simply allow
others to think and behave as they
feel as long as it isn't
hurting anyone and that allows people to flourish in all areas of their lives.
Carl and Joan have resentments, annoyances, and
hurt feelings in
other areas, too.
Wow it sux not to be able to
hurt other people's
feelings.
People kill for the sake of killing in this world, people chop down trees just for the pleasure of watching them fall, they kill little animals, there are people out there who live to wreak havoc on
others, even in the most insignificant wayâ $» whether itâ $ ™ s making someone
feel bad or attacking someone where it
hurts the most.