I think there's a difference between spanking and «harsh» spankings that induce fear in a child...
The idea of spanking a child is that by doing it they won't repeat bad behavior... if a parent has gotten to a point where they find themselves spanking more often than not for the SAME action then it's time to find something else.
Not exact matches
I'm always frustrated by the conflation
of «
spanking» with the
idea of discipline as if there is no other way to parent a child than hitting them.
Without getting all into the
spanking debate (I'm very much against
spanking as a discipline technique), the
idea that not
spanking leads to out
of control kids who will go to jail is so offensive.
I'll be honest, the
idea of Jesus
spanking a kid, even metaphorically, grates on me big time.
For example, before entering a room where your child is supposed to be drawing with crayons on paper, you could imagine finding your child drawing on the wall and run through
ideas in your mind
of how you could react in a way other than reflexively
spanking.
But there are many parents who
spank and are OK with the
idea of their kids being scared
of them and reacting to situations out
of fear.
I am confident that as more
of us come around to the
idea of gentle discipline, the amount
of people
spanking will decrease dramatically.
Also, the
idea of successful enterpreneurs entering populist politics isn't exactly brand
spanking new.
You might try that site to find fellow
spanking lovers because the free membership will at least let you get an
idea of how many real members are near you without any $ investment.
The saying in English (
spank me) may also be a criticism on our contemporary times where we usually follow global and standardized models /
ideas, sometimes without really knowing or thinking about what they mean, what can be also seen, let's say, in the episode
of the «telephone teenager girl».
Crowe the told a story about Gosling's ability to be funny and go off - script to try to make Crowe laugh and lose his way: «We blocked off a section
of Sunset Boulevard and it was a very simple shot... But Ryan is just not on the script, he's just jamming off some
idea that's in his head about German
spank films and I'm just falling apart in the car laughing and he goes into that pseudo-German he does with such conviction... and Joel is screaming «Not tonight guys, not tonight!»
As the name suggests, Donkey Kong Country Returns is a trip down memory lane, and this tightly crafted collection
of classic platforming tropes shows that clever level design can be just as engaging as brand -
spanking - new
ideas.
It's a constant battle for us to get those
ideas to go through the system, that long
spanking machine
of people who have to sign off on you.
Consistent with this
idea, low levels
of mothers» physical aggression (
spanking) have been found to be related to child problem behavior, while for fathers only high levels
of physical aggression predicted more child problem behavior (Mackenzie et al. 2013).