Recently, I was reminded of a powerful yet simple way parents can counterbalance the negative
impact of divorce for their children.
Not exact matches
The groundbreaking work that Daniel Patrick Moynihan did in 1965, on the black family, is an example — along with the critical research
of psychologist Judith Wallerstein over several decades on the
impact of divorce on children; Barbara Dafoe Whitehead's well - known work on the outcomes
of single parenthood
for children; Sara McLanahan and Gary Sandefur's seminal book, Growing Up with a Single Parent; and David Blankenhorn's Fatherless America, another lengthy summarization
of the bad empirical news about family breakup.
The chapter headed «Where psychiatry and Catholicism agree» is similarly enlightening, as the Church can find confirmation in secular science
for her teachings on marriage and family life, and the negative
impact of parental separation and
divorce.
It also showed how, if not given support, the
impact of divorce can spiral into a dungeon
of depression, darkness and despair
for the person facing it.
Two years ago, M. Christian Green, a senior fellow at the Center
for the Study
of Law and Religion at Emory University and a former lecturer at Harvard Divinity School, wrote that
divorce doesn't just affect a couple and their immediate family — friends, neighbors and entire communities are
impacted as well.
Still, many
of us think that a
divorce without kids is no big deal; there's no custody or co-parenting battles, child support or fears about how your decision will
impact the kids
for years to come.
This is something I have written a lot about, most recently in the wake
of Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie's
divorce and how that's
impacting their six children, and when I interviewed law professor Merle Weiner about her idea
for making parent - partnerships legal.
Divorce doesn't just affect a couple and their immediate family; friends, neighbors and entire communities are
impacted as well, she writes in «There But
for the Grace: The Ethics
of Bystanders to
Divorce,» an article in the Institute
for American Values» newsletter, «Propositions.»
Recent publications suggest that well - developed joint custody arrangements are often best
for helping children survive the
impacts of divorce.
For all our studies about how
divorce impacts kids, ranging from doom and gloom to «the kids are all right,» especially if the parents are already
divorced, we don't seem to ask the most important people
of all what they think — the kids themselves.
Because getting a
divorce would
impact you — and those around you —
for the rest
of your days, it's understandable that you'd want to think it through as much as possible.
Sometimes, despite the positive
impact of physical separation, couples stay together in the same physical space
for legal and financial reasons until the day
of the
divorce decree.
And it would do away with a requirement that a lien automatically be placed on someone's home as a condition
of eligibility
for public assistance, a rule that Dems say
impacts mostly seniors and women with kids who won their house as part
of a
divorce settlement.
«Married women diagnosed with a serious health condition may find themselves struggling with the
impact of their disease while also experiencing the stress
of divorce,» said Amelia Karraker, a researcher at the University
of Michigan Institute
for Social Research, who presents her findings May 1 at the annual meeting
of the Population Association
of America.
Fortunately, many resources, like the
Divorce Center in Massachusetts and Kids» Turn in California, are available for couples who want to reduce the impact of their split on their children and continue working together as parents even after d
Divorce Center in Massachusetts and Kids» Turn in California, are available
for couples who want to reduce the
impact of their split on their children and continue working together as parents even after
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Even long after your
divorce is finalized, if your ex-spouse has any loans or lines
of credit that still have your name on them when they file
for bankruptcy, it could have a negative
impact on your credit score.
If you are separated or
divorced, have any history
of financial difficulty, own a business or on title to other properties — or anything that could
impact your current financial situation it is essential to share that information with your mortgage broker to ensure you can get pre-qualified
for a mortgage.
Being somewhat limited in my freedom to be entertained as a kid,
for many years
of my life, gaming served as a diverse means
of escape
for me away from the trappings
of a mostly mundane, repetitive life, at the end
of the school day I would often think to myself «alright... so what are some
of the good things that I have to look forward to when I get home...», one
of the first things that I would do as soon as I got home after school was play FINAL FANTASY on PlayStation, I would eagerly walk home as quickly as I could just so that I could continue playing from the part where I had last left off the day before, as pathetic as this may come across, I can confidently say that many
of the happiest moments that I have had in my life have been while being utterly enthralled by the developments in the games, I think that reminiscing about aspects
of a video game with great fondness is a hallmark
of an impactful form
of entertainment, I would often be so «in the zone» while playing that anything aside from what was taking place on the screen would become completely null and void in my mind to the point where I forget that I was playing a video game, even though I did not live the events
of the game, I can emphatise with them as if I had, that is the sort
of impact that the emotional depth
of the story, the characters, the music, the design and the overall world
of the series have had on me, what appeals the most to me is that FINAL FANTASY allows us the luxury
of divorcing ourselves
of our current reality to assume that
of a world
of fantasy
for a precious moment in time, which is a sentiment that makes me wish that our world as whole had a little more «FINAL FANTASY» within it so as to make us all want to wake up as soon as possible to enjoy another day
The potential
impacts of social media activity on many aspects
of a
divorce case, from spousal support, to determination
of income
for child support, to determination
of custody and visitation
for minor children, are too numerous to discuss here or
for an attorney to address in advising their client on what they can and can not share on social media.
Finally, the Virginia Court
of Appeals upheld the
divorce court's award
of $ 65,000
for husband's adultery, drinking and verbal abuse because the trial court's considerations
of non-monetary contributions to the well - being
of the family do not require a showing
of an adverse economic
impact, as contended by Husband.
By calling upon both our extensive experience in marital dissolution and the
impact of psychological factors on a
divorce case, we are better able to advocate
for the children's needs.
The nice people at CARP will tell you that the
impact of divorce on seniors can be disastrous, particularly
for women, and the data available from Statistics Canada on later - in - life
divorces bears this out.
For example, a divorce or a criminal charge is a major event that can impact the course of your life for years to co
For example, a
divorce or a criminal charge is a major event that can
impact the course
of your life
for years to co
for years to come.
Whether the issue is separating from your spouse, filing
for divorce, the amount
of spousal support you pay or receive, or how often you see your children, these issues will have a profound
impact on your financial future and emotional well - being.
When you are getting a
divorce or legal separation, the last thing you want is
for your actions to
impact the well - being
of your child.
The method couples choose
for pursuing their
divorce will have a powerful
impact on the happiness
of their post-marriage relationships, especially their ongoing relationships with their children and future spouses.
For example, state
divorce laws may mandate that parents attend court - sponsored classes, in which they learn about the
impact of divorce on children.
Spousal support can have a substantial
impact on the quality
of life
for ex-spouses after a
divorce.
Recognizing the cost and time commitments
of our clients, as well as the emotional
impact of filing
for divorce, our attorneys work hard to obtain efficient resolutions to
divorce proceedings.
The
impact of a
divorce will last
for many years, both personally and financially.
If you are contemplating filing
for divorce or you have already been served with a
divorce complaint, you probably have legitimate concerns about whether the emotions that often accompany a marital breakup, such as anger, frustration, anxiety and bitterness, will color your judgment,
impact your behavior and result in unintended consequences on your future and that
of your children.
Your
divorce is likely to
impact upon your finances
for the rest
of your life.
These studies show
divorce, in
of itself, does not cause significant problems
for children, it is the level
of conflict the children witness that can determine the
impact.
You will have a legal professional working
for you that is very familiar with the court system, case preparation, case presentation and the law, both in state statutes as well as past court decisions that could
impact the outcome
of your
divorce.
Yet one would think that, unlike some
of the more abstract problems (say that
of public debt and the appropriate level
of government spending) which might not affect anyone in particular (important though they are important
for us collectively) and so attract few people's attention, the problems
of access to justice not only
impact real people every single day, but may indeed affect anyone at some point in one's life, whether personal (say because
of a
divorce) or business.
A professional with at least 30 hours
of training / education on listening to and reporting the views
of the child including: 6.5 hours on child development and structured interviews
of children, research on children in family justice decision - making, and ethics
of interviewing children; 6.5 hours on child interview skills including building rapport, child friendly interview environments, appropriate language usage and questions, and effectively reporting the views
of the child; and 17 hours
of other relevant education on topics such as the rights
of children, research on the inclusion and exclusion
of children in family justice decision - making, the
impacts of family breakdown or transition on children, risks and protective factors
for children in family justice processes, family dynamics
of separation and
divorce including high conflict family dynamics.
The decisions one makes while getting
divorced in Michigan are likely to
impact them
for the rest
of their lives.
Yet the court seems to be saying that
divorce, separation and changes to family dynamics are so commonplace in «the times in which we live» that the seriousness
of its
impact on children may have been diluted, especially
for the younger ones.
Notable powers included: regulation
of trade and commerce, military, banking, bankruptcy and insolvency, Indians and Lands reserved
for Indians, marriage and
divorce, and the criminal law.6 The majority
of these powers seemed to be a reasonable compromise since they had widespread
impact on almost every province in the Dominion.
In fact, Colorado has strong protections
for people who can prove they are victims
of identity theft or who may have their credit adversely
impacted by
divorce.
Still, many
of us think that a
divorce without kids is no big deal; there's no custody or co-parenting battles, child support or fears about how your decision will
impact the kids
for years to come.
Because
divorce impacts such a significant portion
of our clients (and this
impact crosses over from children to individual adults, couples and families), it is important
for therapists to thoroughly understand both the fundamental aspects
of the
divorce process as well as the more constructive options and resources that are becoming available.
Thus, the
impact of one couple's
divorce can go on
for generations to come.
I will recommend the Child Specialist chapter to every
divorcing parent I work with to help them understand how their choice
of a Child Specialist can
impact their children's well - being
for years to come.»
As a Child Specialist, Shelley assists parents in understanding the
impact of divorce on their children at all developmental ages, and guides parents to develop a customized parenting plan that accounts
for the children's thoughts and feelings.
Dr. Zimmerman has also co-authored three books about reducing the devastating
impact of divorce on children and
for 22 years was co-founder and managing partner
of Connecticut Psychological Group, Beacon Behavioral Services and the P.E.A.C.E. Program (Parents Equally Allied to Co-Parent Effectively) before returning to solo practice in 2007.
When a court finds that one spouse is at fault
for a
divorce, it may bring personal satisfaction or vindication
for the other spouse; it may also have an
impact on the
divorce decree in terms
of alimony, property division and custody.
The New Ways
for Families ® (NWFF) method is a short - term structured parenting skills program designed to reduce the
impact of conflict on the children in potentially high - conflict separation and
divorce cases.
«To have a greater
impact on reducing the overall number
of suicide attempts that occur yearly in the United States, prevention and treatment efforts need to target groups that have been accurately identified as a risk... professionals should recognize that children who experience parental
divorce might be more vulnerable
for suicide attempt than those from intact households,» the study states.
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