MIRROR.CO.UK - Jan 15 - The average person
in a bad relationship waits four years before breaking it off, according to research by eHarmony.co.uk — fear of being alone, pity for their partner and concern over how the rest of the family will be affected are the major reasons.
By the time we see the client they're
in a
bad mood, they've been
waiting, and we're trying to re-establish that
relationship with them and get what their pet needs.»
I can top all of you being
in a
wait and see
relationship for 24 years, good times, great sex but no respect; it has taken me this long to realize that love doesn't hurt; love cares what the other person's needs are and tries to fulfill them; the plain truth is that this guy is a user out of our good nature; the
worse of the
worse because they know the feelings and hurt
in someone and they continue to take, string along to fulfill their own needs; it isn't about how much we love them; it is about how little that they love us; no one lets a person that they truly love be
in pain, year after year; it is a defect
in their make up and a defect
in ours to stay and settle for less than we deserve; there is love after this and we have to learn to love ourself enough to stop this pain on our own behalf; mine has thrown me out like an old shoe over and over and I forgive him, not now; I forgive myself for wasting time and need to move on to find someone who isn't selfish and using; I can't change him, I can only change me and that I am going to do; there is a saying that if you aren't over him you are under him, exactly l see you and best of luck to my poor replacement.