I'd love to have a rule that everyone
voting in a church meeting should first personally plead with the person they are about to exclude.
When I was the only
person in a church meeting of a hundred plus, who voted against spending thousands on a building (mainly because of dodgy fiscal justification and concerns over leadership empire building), I obviously became villein of the peace!
I remember being
in some church meetings way back when the pastors told the congregation, suspiciously in the absence of the people in questions, why certain people left, only to find out that things were actually much different.
However, and this is a big caveat, I would caution that governing our own worlds is something that in 18 years of being Mormon I have heard exactly
once in a church meeting.
Prepare agenda for church business meetings and record minutes of special meetings in the church
It was there I learned (and I did take it as a lesson) that
in church meetings you don't express negativity.