Sentences with phrase «in painful conflict»

Couples in mediation are much less likely to entangle children in painful conflict and report less stress during divorce.

There are several reasons: (a) it's less adversarial than going to court; (b) it's more private; (c) you retain control of the process — i.e., you are not bound by what the mediator thinks (indeed, most mediators see their role as helping the parties effectuate their goals, not imposing the mediator's ideas); (d) it's usually much less expensive; (e) if there are children involved, the process is less likely to embroil them in a painful conflict; and (f) mediation often gives divorcing couples a better chance of successfully negotiating issues that may come up in the future (such as child support, alimony, or custody and visitation issues).

In the early decades of the second century, the Jerusalem community was itself divided and in painful conflict over the issue of Hellenism, from the priesthood on down.

Not exact matches

While there are many painful conflicts at the congregational level, nothing at the ELCA churchwide or synodical level has unleashed the personal vitriol experienced by Missouri in the sixties and seventies.

Persons who have been hurt in close childhood relationships often feel a painful inner conflict simultaneously pulling them toward intimacy, to get their basic needs met, and away from intimacy, because of the fear of repeating old hurts.

A good illustration of a conflicted or neurotic need is the powerful fear of intimacy in a person whose painful loneliness makes him crave closeness intensely.

Intimacy grows when conflicts are faced and worked through in the painful but fulfilling process of gradual understanding and compromise of differences.

As he discovered, it is through the repressed memories, wishes, conflicts, and impulses in the unconscious that painful experiences and unfinished growth from the early years continue to cripple the ability of many people to live creatively in the present.

A torrent of painful, conflicted feelings flowed; as these were experienced and talked through, there seemed to be a release of tension in his struggle for inner liberation.

Furthermore, this bodily conflict between the mother and her emergent child anticipates the often much more painful act of separation, when the child, exercising the newly awakened powers made possible by his large head, reaches for his own autonomous knowledge of good and had, and repeats the original rise and fall from obedience and innocence in the ever - recurring saga of human freedom and «enlightenment.»

Teenagers with Crohn's disease, a painful digestive disorder often diagnosed in adolescence, for example, sometimes get conflicting information regarding medications, diet modifications and alternative therapies.

The Blu - ray combo pack includes a «Making of» featurette that goes behind the scenes of filming in two languages with a local cast, who share their painful stories of their personal conflict during the war.

An exhibit at Washington University's Kemper Museum — In the Aftermath of Trauma: Contemporary Video Installations — introduces painful political conflicts to St. Louis museum goers at oblique angles.

Through the installation, inspired by the personally annotated Bible of Bertolt Brecht, the viewer is immersed in a body of text and images from the Archive of Modern Conflict, thereby weaving painful links between wars and the religious scripture.

I agree that the mitigation as proposed by some could well be very painful and I think that it may even cause major conflicts, not in fifty years but sooner, so we better know that there is an actual risk of something definitely worse, which I see as meaning extermination not just inconvenience.

I also specialize in working with substance use issues in an alternative to the 12 - step approach; couples counseling to help you and your partner communicate and resolve conflicts more effectively; treating trauma to keep painful experiences from your past from overwhelming you; and Internet / online issues so that your online interactions can be healthy and fulfilling.

Conflict can be especially painful in personal matters such as: children, homes, property, income, and debts.Do not try to avoid the messiness of conflict because then you avoid clarity, resolve and the self - determination at the heart of the Conflict can be especially painful in personal matters such as: children, homes, property, income, and debts.Do not try to avoid the messiness of conflict because then you avoid clarity, resolve and the self - determination at the heart of the conflict because then you avoid clarity, resolve and the self - determination at the heart of the process.

Coaches are incredibly helpful in short - circuiting difficult issues that could typically lead to extreme conflict, animosity between spouses and painful litigation.

«In a nurturing and supportive environment, my aim is to provide a safe place for you as an individual or as a couple to begin experiencing life more deeply, enjoy more satisfying relationships, and resolve painful conflicts.

■ Unresolved conflict around crucial issues can result in an impasse giving rise to a marital Gridlock — often with harsh, painful and destructive overtones in which each partner becomes rigidly entrenched in his or her position.

■ This, in turn, may be resolved in one of two ways: Disengagement marked by increasing disconnection and emotional distance, or a high conflict period marked by the 4 Horsemen and high level of painful conflict.

Legal costs went through the roof, the children became pawns and the ongoing conflict aggravated painful emotions like salt in a wound.

Your children will have less opportunity to manipulate, and will learn that even painful, serious conflicts can be resolved in a civil way.

We believe that «CONFLICT IS GROWTH TRYING TO HAPPEN» (Harville Hendrix) & that by working through the painful problems in your relationship you will discover deep truths & find deeper more satisfying ways of knowing both yourself and your partner.

Allowing emotions to cloud the big picture could make proceedings more difficult and painful for the parties, or Heft says cause one side to capitulate and settle for less than what they are entitled to in an effort to end the turmoil and conflict.

When couples do not know how to calm each others» painful emotions, they find themselves in a cycle of conflict.

Even in the most difficult and painful cases of marital separation, if the parents really want to spare their children the pain of being caught in loyalty conflict, they will figure out a way to develop a mutual story of the divorce.

Marital therapist Brent Atkinson in his excellent Emotional Intelligence in Couples Therapy speaks about as well as any of the intensity with which we are swept up in the reactive and painful fear that infects both people in the throes of intimate conflict.

As a clinician in the field of high conflict divorce, many parents come to me having been told that their story is the worst and most painful case of parental alienation ever seen.

Divorce for Grown - ups: a growing trend 01 - Jul - 2015 While many associate the word «divorce» with painful and messy, a paradigm shift in conflict resolution has led to a specialty known as «collaborative divorce.»

Split Decision: Today's divorce seeks to minimize cost and antagonism 01 - Jul - 2015 While many associate the word divorce as synonymous with painful and messy, a paradigm shift in conflict resolution has led to a specialty known as «collaborative divorce.»

These conflicts are frequently painful and result in emotional wounds that are difficult to heal.

Once feelings of connection are re-established, couples are better able to manage conflict and the painful feelings that will inevitably arise from time to time in a close relationship

They may find this is more painful than they expected; having the ex-husband back in the picture re-awakens buried issues and feelings, disrupts the family routine they have come to develop, and leads to open conflict again.

In working with couples and in navigating my own love life with all its heart swells and perils, I've found that conflicts between romantic partners are some of the most painful encounters we experience as adultIn working with couples and in navigating my own love life with all its heart swells and perils, I've found that conflicts between romantic partners are some of the most painful encounters we experience as adultin navigating my own love life with all its heart swells and perils, I've found that conflicts between romantic partners are some of the most painful encounters we experience as adults.

Communication issues, high conflict couples resolution, infidelity / affairs, desire issues / sexless marriages, orgasm problems, erectile dysfunction or premature ejaculation, painful sex, problems parenting and co-parenting, problems setting boundaries with in - laws, financial issues, working through life transitions such as retirement, empty nesters, becoming new parents, becoming newlyweds, addiction problems, and anxiety / depression.

Over the past years, I've been using «The High Conflict Couple — a Dialectical Behavior Therapy guide to finding Peace, Intimacy and Validation» by Alan Fruzetti in my couples counseling and marriage therapy with couples struggling with high levels of painful and unproductive cConflict Couple — a Dialectical Behavior Therapy guide to finding Peace, Intimacy and Validation» by Alan Fruzetti in my couples counseling and marriage therapy with couples struggling with high levels of painful and unproductive conflictconflict.

While many associate the word «divorce» with painful and messy, a paradigm shift in conflict resolution has led to a specialty known as «collaborative divorce.»

Nicola has an interest in the internal conflicts that arise from difficult relationships and an experience of working with painful and difficult relationships in complex situations.

And so «falling in love» usually involves finding someone who offers or provides that old familiar dynamic (no matter how painful or difficult or conflicted) with whom we can «work through» our family of origin issues.

Reliance on defenses against psychological pain that result in externalizing unwanted or unacceptable feelings, ideas, attitudes, and responsibility for misfortunes so that more painful internal conflict is transformed into less painful interpersonal conflict.