Sentences with phrase «in validating their feelings»

brown January 5, 2011 at 3:01 pm The Gift of Fear looked totally sketchy when I picked it up (in paperback, with a bombastic cover) but was really helpful in validating the feelings of discomfort / fear I sometimes get.

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When Abraham Maslow introduced us to his «Hierarchy of Needs,» he illustrated that humans need to be validated, feel safe, and be acknowledged in order to reach their potential.

But understanding the reasons behind the human need to avoid fault and feel validated is only the first step in reversing the credit - and - blame cycle.

I do know that the blessing for me was that I finally felt validated that someone in a leadership finally saw what had happened and told me so.

I feel no obligation to validate your delusions by participating in them.

I went from feeling validated as an equal among my male counterparts to suddenly feeling powerless... and keenly aware of the tricky balancing act of maintaining my «proper role» as a woman in the church.

It is a paradox of our faith — but one that Christian living validates — that we should feel assured of our salvation when our lives have been committed to God in Christ; yet at the same time we should «press on,» in humility and continuing penitence, leaving it to God to judge our status before him.

It acknowledged and validated the pain and anger that many in the congregation felt, used the Word to provide a healing salve, and appropriately called for the church body to pray for Trayvon's parents as well as the Zimmerman family.

And I also noticed that you didn't put in your list of «validating thoughts» that whatever God feels like or does with us, it has to jibe with Scripture.

If you need other people to validate your religious beliefs, then that is on you... I make no apologies for being comfortable enough in my own skin to not feel as if I need to pay a religion to validate my belief system.

He was an integral part of their team and was validated in his feelings of knowing he had «another mission» in his life.

Of course it would be silly to suggest that winning any game, cup or otherwise, isn't good for the club, but let's remember just how problematic FA Cup success has been for this club... I'm certainly not going to suggest I didn't enjoy seeing Arsenal win, I'm a fan of this club first and foremost, but how bad are things when you find yourself secretly wishing that your own team lost so that just maybe real change would finally come... I resent this team for even making me feel such thoughts and it's going to take a lot of effort on their part to earn my trust again... this club has treated the fans so poorly that it has created an incredibly fragile and toxic environment, so much so that a «what have you done for me lately» mentality has emerged... fans rise and fall depending on the results of each game because we don't have faith in those in charge to make the necessary changes to personnel and tactics... each time we win many fans attack any dissenting voices and make unrealistic claims about the players, the manager and the potential for unprecedented success... every time we lose the boo - birds run rampant, calling for heads to roll and predicting the worst... regardless of what side you fall on, it's not your fault, both sides are simply overcompensating for the horrible state of affairs that have been percolating for several years... it's hard to take the long view when those in charge have lied incessantly and refuse to take any responsibilities for their own actions... in the end, we are trapped by the same catch - 22 that ManU faced upon Fergie's exit... less fearful of maintaining the status quo than facing the unknown, which was validated, wrongly or rightly, by witnessing the difficulties they have faced during this transitory period... to be honest, the thing that scares me most is that this team has never prepared whatsoever for this eventuality, which considering our frugal nature and the way we have shunned many of our most revered former players is more than a little disconcerting

It felt like a deep desperation to validate myself in the eyes of a woman.

- If the LO is in good health (meaning the crying is not due to a disorder or some sort of physical pain) and if all of his other needs are met: he is fed, changed, does not need soothing or entertainment, try holding the LO in a loving embrace and allowing him to just cry while you validate his feelings and let him know you're there.

Strong families are built on a foundation in which development is understood and celebrated, mistakes are allowed, feelings are validated and connecting with others is emphasized.

«One thing that bed - sharing serves to do is to permit mothers to validate their role as mothers,» says McKenna, who notes that working mothers in his experience have felt inadequate at bonding and creating attachment.

This book will validate what you are feeling as a new mom and guide you in the direction that intuitively feels right.

Feelings are transitory, so naming his or her feeling is okay, in fact it can be validating.

All parents want to feel validated in their decisions, and even if they do not intentionally seek out support, unsolicited advice will come their way — from family, friends, pediatricians, teachers, strangers, and others.

In this group you will receive the understanding, sense of community, and hope that you need to feel validated, empowered, and so not alone!

Your journeys are unique, and we hope you feel validated in this community.

Please know that API's Eight Principles of Parenting are not intended to be standards of perfection but rather to be used as guidelines to help you feel informed, validated, supported and confident in your child - rearing decisions.

In a culture that fails to recognize, understand or validate the significance of the psychology of childbirth for the mother or baby, care is given without that sensitivity, leaves a birthing woman and her newborn baby's emotional wellness unchecked, can make labor, birth and postpartum all the more difficult, and increase the risk of her and her baby feeling traumatized.

Dyadic Developmental Psychotherapy principally involves PLACE - creating a Playful, Loving, Accepting, Curious, and Empathic environment in which the therapist and parent attune to the child's «subjective experiences» (feelings, and thoughts) and help the child make sense of them by reflecting back and validating those experiences to the child by means of eye contact, facial expressions, gestures and movements, tone of voice, timing and touch.

But stress is really subjective and it can feel terrible at times, so acknowledging and validating an athlete's stress can also provide perspective for them to see the big picture in the long run.

Just remember that all kids, regardless of age, benefit from having the adults in their lives listen to and validate their feelings.

In the end I was successful at validating what she was feelings, helping name them, and letting her know they were normal.

«Taking a moment and validating a child's feelings goes a long way in teaching that kid how to identify and manage emotions as they grow up.»

So after the baby is here and as the baby starts to kind of move into that five, six, eight month old, one year old, they start to be really focused particularly for moms on whether or not they're child is feeling secure in the world, whether or not they're feeling validated and heard and listen to.

Formula feeding moms are made to feel guilty because they didn't make a choice that other mothers have proudly made; a dangerous consequence of all parents just wanting to feel validated and supported in their personal parenting decisions.

I think that the very first thing to do for your child in this situation is validate how he feels.

In training programs held year - round, Head Start Trauma Smart teachers learn to validate extreme emotions referred to as (INAUDIBLE) feelings using calm and quiet voices.

Your little one is still learning how to express her emotions and sometimes she might be a little dramatic, but it's a good moment for you to validate those feelings and teach her how to communicate in a better (and less destructive) way.

Validating their reasons for introducing formula can help them to feel more confident in their decision.

That, to me, is a huge step, that a mass - market publisher has published an entire book talking about women's negative feelings in a way that validates us.

Tamaro has a knack for lightening the mood, validating your feelings during the postpartum emotional roller coaster, and at the same time giving you practical guidance on getting breastfeeding going in the right direction.

She felt heard and validated in her concerns which has not happened thus far in this painful process.

My postpartum depression actually manifests more as anxiety and what I found, my medication has not been sufficient in helping with that sleep is key and everyone will tell you that and it kind of feel validated sometimes when I tell other moms, yeah I just really need to sleep like «oh, honey everyone does» and you'll get used to functioning on you know little sleep.

Giving him direct attention while he is speaking about something really makes him feel so validated, and it boosts his confidence in himself.

They validate their children's feelings, while also making it clear that the adults are ultimately in charge.

Naturally, it was my job to step in and validate their feelings, and then mostly do a lot of distracting and redirecting.

Just think of all those moms you can validate now when they tell you they just felt it in their gut.

It no longer affects his speech in any way, so I feel like my decision to hold off was validated.

Feel validated in whatever choice you make.

I have noticed that many people feel the need to validate their parenting choices to others, and in many cases that takes the form of putting down the other side in order to make themselves feel better.

While all family interaction is critical, «the opposite - sex parent is especially important in making children feel validated and encouraged.»

No one should have the right to tell you how to feel in order for you to feel validated in your role as a parent.

At the end of the day, that's all any mother wants and / or needs: to feel validated in her feelings.

Depression in fathers was assessed using the World Health Organization Composite International Diagnostic Interview Short Form, a validated measure used to identify the presence of a major depressive episode within the previous year.24 Fathers were asked 2 stem questions: (1) «During the past 12 months, has there ever been a time when you felt sad, blue, or depressed for 2 or more weeks in a row?»

Validate his feelings by telling him that you want to be with him too, and you would love to add in extra cuddle time before bed or in the morning when he wakes up.