In 1974 Minuchin described the involvement as occurring along a continuum that lies between enmeshment at one extreme (perhaps the mother - son relationship in the example above) and disengagement at the other (perhaps
the increasing emotional distance between his mother and father).
A harsh start - up begins with the Four Horsemen and causes flooding and
increased emotional distance that can strain the marriage.
If you think you spouse's behavior is a reflection of how he or she feels about you, then you will start getting critical and
increase your emotional distance.
Not exact matches
In addition, strained marital relationships can lead to
increased father marginalization in the family and
distancing from their children and thus reduce his physical and
emotional availability (Markiewicz et al., 2001).
... a child's development is hampered and faces
increased risks of their
emotional and psychological status if there are large
distances between their residences.
Therefore, the achilles heel to any separation of physical
distance is to maintain, preserve and eventually
increase / improve the
emotional closeness between two committed individuals.
They also need to understand that the other partner's
increasing disengagement and
emotional distancing is fuelled by a fear of messing up, a distaste for feeling inadequate, or a concern that talking about issues will make their partner want to leave.
■ This, in turn, may be resolved in one of two ways: Disengagement marked by
increasing disconnection and
emotional distance, or a high conflict period marked by the 4 Horsemen and high level of painful conflict.
For people low in avoidant attachment (i.e., those with less of a need for
emotional distance in relationships), their desire for sex was higher when their partners were more responsive, but for those who are highly avoidant (i.e., those who do express desires to be distant from partners) actually desired sex less as partner responsiveness
increased.
It doesn't seem like that would really be a key ingredient for friendship and for having a good sex life, but it's very essential because there is an
increasing sense of
emotional distance when couples don't do these things.
As intense emotions
increase, parents will begin to create
emotional distance between each other.
Reduced
emotional distance (i.e.,
increased warmth) within the family pictures was more strongly related to reduced conduct problems in high CU compared to low CU children, further adding support to the notion that parental warmth is of unique importance to the development of children with CU traits (hypothesis c).
Just when we need
emotional support the most, during a period of bereavement, many relationships experience
increased strain, conflict and
emotional distance.
For example, one partner fearing that he / she is no longer desired by their spouse is enough to shift their behavior and the relationship dynamics in ways that decrease marital satisfaction (e.g.,
increased hostility, pulling away during intimacy, withdrawing, or creating physical and / or
emotional distance in other ways).