[jounal] Nickola, C. / 2013 / Attachment Anxiety and Reations to Relationship Threat: The Benefits and Costs of
Inducing Guilt in Romantic Partners / Journal of Personality and Social Psychology 106 (2): 235 ~ 256
This too does a number on us psychologically, first by creating restriction by only granting ourselves half and then
inducing guilt or shame when we go back for the other half.
Sure, there are certainly foods that are «better» or «worse» for you, but I'm not a huge fan of
inducing guilt upon someone if they happen to enjoy a specific food that isn't the best for us.
That said, it's important to look out for even the simplest manifestations of emotional abuse: name - calling, insulting, humiliating,
inducing guilt, intimidating.
She stated that behavioral controls, such as teaching children not to cross the street without first checking for cars, did not negatively impact mother - child relationships as did psychological controls, like purposely
inducing guilt or telling children to think, feel and play in certain ways.
Don't expect any breast - versus - bottle battles here nor any stabs at
inducing guilt in new moms.
Many feminists believed that her views hurt the cause of equal rights for women by
inducing guilt in working mothers.
He later wrote that it was in those days that he came to the conclusion that too often such preaching rests on
inducing guilt but not repentance.
The Church should stop
inducing guilt by encouraging people to read the Bible and instead provide people with the education required to understand the Scriptures.
That language can, of course, be misused, either to stigmatize or to
induce guilt.
This tentative model for understanding the causes of problem drinking is offered in the report of the Cooperative Commission on the Study of Alcoholism: «An individual who (1) responds to beverage alcohol in a certain way, perhaps physiologically determined, by experiencing intense relief and relaxation, and who (2) has certain personality characteristics, such as difficulty in dealing with and overcoming depression, frustration, and anxiety, and who (3) is a member of a culture in which there is both pressure to drink and culturally
induced guilt and confusion regarding what kinds of drinking behavior are appropriate, is more likely to develop trouble than will most other people.»
Christine, are you sure you are not confusing a normal feeling of conscience
induced guilt (a good thing normally) with the abusive process of using shame as a means of control?
«If we could just get over our prudishness and sin -
induced guilt, [West] seems to think, we would be ready simply to dispense with clothes and look at others in their nakedness.»
My own children have been subjected to relentless test prep, bribery, teacher -
induced guilt trips and even overt falsehoods designed to boost their performance on the standardized test that's linked to school rating / teacher performance.
I am amazed that such public figures would demonize public education, try to
induce guilt - trips on parents for opposing school closure, and put forth what is either (at worst) a threat or (at best) really insensitive word choice.
Not exact matches
The neurochemicals
induce temporary euphoria and relaxation, but the vicious cycle of shifting moods is carried on by an aftermath of
guilt.
Not to let
guilt -
inducing churches off the hook... but we ARE in fact guilty.
In Blankets, Thompson» with heartbreaking beauty» portrays Christianity as a cultural force that operated mainly as a confidence - zapping,
guilt -
inducing straight - jacket.
As Christendom continues its collapse, we'll see more and more of these
guilt -
inducing types of books.
It's inspiring without
guilt -
inducing.
For no matter how hard I try, however eloquent, dynamic, or (at desperate moments)
guilt -
inducing I may be on Friday afternoon, on Monday morning my arguments have fallen flat and sunk into the muck, idealistic words overwhelmed by a depressingly powerful reality: Sunday Mass at the parish.
You can
induce all the misery and
guilt on your children and leave them shells of their potential.
There'd be these
guilt -
inducing discussions how that was not a good reason, and really it should be about Jesus and love etc...
A modern skeptic might argue that the appearances were the result of mass and individual hallucinations
induced by grief and
guilt; however, one would never convince Paul and the others that this was a legitimate reading of their experience.
They therefore concentrate all their energies upon
inducing a sense of
guilt, and then presenting the message of salvation and forgiveness.
It's all heavy pressure
guilt trip, works of the flesh, burnout
inducing, busy - body work of the church... and you get nothing....
But, don't worry, I'll sneak in a few healthy ones here and there so as not to be so
guilt inducing.
Broccoli has that
guilt -
inducing green hue that tells you to eat more of it, while cauliflower is a pearly, milky, innocent white... but they're from the same cruciferous family (Brassicaceae, right?)
Weekends are fun because relaxing is acceptable and not
guilt -
inducing, because you can make margaritas and lounge around the pool when it's too hot to do anything else, and because you can have late nights that -LSB-...]
This effortless white bean dip makes a great app before a big meal, it feels substantial enough that you don't eat 10 pounds of it before dinnertime, and doesn't have the
guilt -
inducing after effects of say a nut - covered cheese ball.
in the batter, not the least bit
guilt -
inducing.
That way, you get the shredded chicken, zesty salsa verde, fresh lime and cilantro, and all the satisfying denseness of an enchilada, without all the
guilt -
inducing cheese and high - carb tortillas.
As a certified herbalist & former college of Deb's, I too suffered from anxiety attacks and know the
guilt they can
induce when you can't be at your best as a mom.
Heck, life and motherhood are
guilt inducing enough.
There is definitely some
guilt -
inducing in the AP philosophy that I think we can incorporate even when we think we are not.
(NurtureShock also debunks some ideas about only children, so it's definitely worth reading if you have an only, and not
guilt -
inducing.)
In addition to gnawing in the pit of our stomach,
guilt also motivates us to self - reflect when undesirable things happen and drives us to do something different in the future to avoid a repeat of
guilt -
inducing outcomes.
It's concerning, frustrating,
guilt inducing and terrible.
On the bad days being the parent of a spirited child is confusing, frustrating, taxing, challenging, and
guilt inducing.
The leadership
induces feelings of shame and / or
guilt in order to influence and / or control members.
And in no area do these
guilt -
inducing expectations and stereotypes rear their horrible head more than our professional lives after becoming moms.
Do what you will, but the article's condescending,
guilt -
inducing tone will likely make your daughter feel rebellious.
The emails always have
guilt -
inducing subjects like «Ted, Does Your Child Ever Scare You?»
Unfortunately for Badinter's thesis, if American women are, in fact, being subjected to crushing,
guilt -
inducing nursing shame, it doesn't appear to be working too well.
Some comments people made to me about how much their baby slept or fed or ate or pooed or cooed
induced pangs of
guilt or fear in me.
Mostly, though, this book is for the woman who is in tears, with cracked nipples and a screaming baby whom she can't mother because she is constantly hooked up to a pump, who wants so badly to quit breastfeeding and finds nothing but fear - and -
guilt -
inducing literature every where she turns... I hope this book will help her sit beside her breastfeeding friends, free from insecurity and judgment.
I'm not talking about
guilt here (though wishing
guilt on people is just nasty) but rather intentionally belittling, mocking, and dismissing others in order to
induce shame and build a false sense of superiority.
There are
guilt -
inducing media campaigns with a tombstone for a...
There are
guilt -
inducing media campaigns with a tombstone for a headboard or a knife in the parental bed.