As the first Incarnation was, you say, imperfect, we have
to wait for the Holy Ghost
to produce a second birth and this in fact is described in the Book of Revelation: «Ever since John, the apocalyptist, experienced for the first time (perhaps unconsciously) that
conflict into which Christianity
inevitably leads, mankind has groaned under this burden: God wanted
to become man, and still wants
to.
Marriage counselors are trained
to create a space where each individual can communicate their fears and desires in order for a reciprocal and productive strategy forward
to develop, instead of sharing
inevitably leading to escalating
conflict.