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innocent victimhood (why can't you see all the good I do?).
Defensiveness is defined as self - protection in the form of righteous indignation or
innocent victimhood in an attempt to ward off a perceived attack.
Avoid thoughts of righteous indignation («I don't have to take this anymore») and
innocent victimhood» («Why is he always picking on me?»).
It's crucial that during this time you avoid thoughts of righteous indignation and
innocent victimhood.
Defensiveness: self - protection in the form of righteous indignation or
innocent victimhood.
It's crucial that during this time you avoid thoughts of righteous indignation («I don't have to take this anymore») and
innocent victimhood («Why is he always picking on me?»).
and
innocent victimhood («Why is he always picking on me?»).
Research shows that couples who rate their relationships as happy are skilled at avoiding thoughts of righteous indignation and
innocent victimhood when listening.