I am NOT about to suggest that you give formula
instead of nursing your baby.
Not exact matches
We co-sleep, I have never sleep - trained or put my
baby on a schedule, I
nurse on demand
instead of using pacifiers, and I have listened to my heart when it comes to parenting my VERY spirited, energetic, strong - willed little girl.
I might not have had that horrible surgical experience, might have been able to hold my
baby sooner than 8 hours after birth, would not have had my system pumped full
of drugs I'm allergic to, and would have been able to
nurse my
baby,
instead of the uneducated hospital staff shoving bottles at him.
Instead of capturing that milk in a lightweight container, like the Haakaa, milk from the breast my
baby wasn't
nursing on ended up all over my sheets.
And, if your
baby refuses to go to sleep
nursing, strolling, riding in car seat, rocking, or walking, and you throw out your back bouncing your
baby to sleep several times a day, you might consider putting a
nursing pillow under your swaddled
baby so that you can support all
of their weight on your lap
instead of using your back.
For one, this sometimes draw unwanted attention especially from male strangers which render a lot
of breastfeeding moms self - conscious and anxious
instead of being encouraged to
nurse her
baby.
(Pumping
instead of nursing and feeding your
baby solids also make LAM less effective.)
Gourley also notes that your
baby may be
nursing differently so their gums rub on your breast to help relieve teething pains, or one
of you may be breaking suction at the end
of a feed by just pulling your nipple out, which causes friction,
instead of releasing suction first.
Instead of nursing, you might offer your
baby his or her thumb or hand to suck on.
Supplementing with a bottle, pumping, and using a pacifier to sooth your
baby,
instead of nursing, will all interfere with your milk supply.
And there is no good reason to think that the advice would be any different for a
baby who is drinking formula
instead of nursing.
Public Eye Award 2005: Overwhelming winner
of the «People's Choice» award for «for its practice
of marketing
baby food and formula in the developing world by encouraging women to use their products
instead of nursing their children.»
So far I have freaked out about doubling the amount
of children in our house, where the
babies are going to sleep, cloth diapering, starting completely over with
baby clothes
instead of trying to sort through what would be usable,
nursing two
babies at the same time, buying a bigger house, how I'm going to drive four kids around (thank God we just replaced my husband's car in January with a full size SUV with a usable third row), traveling with four kids, what happens if my husband has to start traveling for work, getting the big kids to and from school with two
babies in tow, how the big kids are going to feel once there are two new
babies in the house, how I»M going to feel with two more
babies in the house, and so on and so forth.
Telling her to feed a bottle
of formula
instead of letting her
baby nurse when they need to, is effectively the same as telling her to confuse her body about how much milk it needs to make.
Mother
of one 8 - month - old Playards - YES Bassinet - NO (used the pack - n - play) Swaddle Blankets - YES (Aden + Anais) Crib - YES SnuggleU - HAVE N'T USED Rocking chair / glider - NO Activity gym - YES Bouncer - YES Bumbo - YES (I didn't have one, but I have tried it and would get one on sale for my next
baby) Exersaucer - YES Jumper - HAVE N'T USED Front Carrier - YES Stroller - YES Wet wipe warmer - NO (I haven't actually used one, but I didn't use one and diaper changes were fine) Changing table - YES Swing - YES Lilly Padz - HAVE N'T USED Nursing pillow - NO Milkies - HAVE N'T USED Nipple cream - YES Nursing nightgown - NO (I slept in nursing tanks and they were fabulous) Bottle warmer - NO Bottle dishwasher basket - YES (also good for small toys and various things) Bottle drying rack - NO Highchair - NO (used a booster from the start) Booster Seat for Meals - YES (we used this instead of a high chair) Burp cloths - YES (I still have the littered strategically around the house) Baby bathtub - NO Nasal aspirator - NO (I use the free one from the hospital, but I wouldn't buy one; I haven't found them to work so well) Baby fingernail clippers - NO (I use adult cuticle clippers and they are wonderful) Video monitor - YES Audio monitor - HAVEN «T USED Gas drops - NO Gripe water -
baby) Exersaucer - YES Jumper - HAVE N'T USED Front Carrier - YES Stroller - YES Wet wipe warmer - NO (I haven't actually used one, but I didn't use one and diaper changes were fine) Changing table - YES Swing - YES Lilly Padz - HAVE N'T USED
Nursing pillow - NO Milkies - HAVE N'T USED Nipple cream - YES Nursing nightgown - NO (I slept in nursing tanks and they were fabulous) Bottle warmer - NO Bottle dishwasher basket - YES (also good for small toys and various things) Bottle drying rack - NO Highchair - NO (used a booster from the start) Booster Seat for Meals - YES (we used this instead of a high chair) Burp cloths - YES (I still have the littered strategically around the house) Baby bathtub - NO Nasal aspirator - NO (I use the free one from the hospital, but I wouldn't buy one; I haven't found them to work so well) Baby fingernail clippers - NO (I use adult cuticle clippers and they are wonderful) Video monitor - YES Audio monitor - HAVEN «T USED Gas drops - NO Gripe wate
Nursing pillow - NO Milkies - HAVE N'T USED Nipple cream - YES
Nursing nightgown - NO (I slept in nursing tanks and they were fabulous) Bottle warmer - NO Bottle dishwasher basket - YES (also good for small toys and various things) Bottle drying rack - NO Highchair - NO (used a booster from the start) Booster Seat for Meals - YES (we used this instead of a high chair) Burp cloths - YES (I still have the littered strategically around the house) Baby bathtub - NO Nasal aspirator - NO (I use the free one from the hospital, but I wouldn't buy one; I haven't found them to work so well) Baby fingernail clippers - NO (I use adult cuticle clippers and they are wonderful) Video monitor - YES Audio monitor - HAVEN «T USED Gas drops - NO Gripe wate
Nursing nightgown - NO (I slept in
nursing tanks and they were fabulous) Bottle warmer - NO Bottle dishwasher basket - YES (also good for small toys and various things) Bottle drying rack - NO Highchair - NO (used a booster from the start) Booster Seat for Meals - YES (we used this instead of a high chair) Burp cloths - YES (I still have the littered strategically around the house) Baby bathtub - NO Nasal aspirator - NO (I use the free one from the hospital, but I wouldn't buy one; I haven't found them to work so well) Baby fingernail clippers - NO (I use adult cuticle clippers and they are wonderful) Video monitor - YES Audio monitor - HAVEN «T USED Gas drops - NO Gripe wate
nursing tanks and they were fabulous) Bottle warmer - NO Bottle dishwasher basket - YES (also good for small toys and various things) Bottle drying rack - NO Highchair - NO (used a booster from the start) Booster Seat for Meals - YES (we used this
instead of a high chair) Burp cloths - YES (I still have the littered strategically around the house)
Baby bathtub - NO Nasal aspirator - NO (I use the free one from the hospital, but I wouldn't buy one; I haven't found them to work so well) Baby fingernail clippers - NO (I use adult cuticle clippers and they are wonderful) Video monitor - YES Audio monitor - HAVEN «T USED Gas drops - NO Gripe water -
Baby bathtub - NO Nasal aspirator - NO (I use the free one from the hospital, but I wouldn't buy one; I haven't found them to work so well)
Baby fingernail clippers - NO (I use adult cuticle clippers and they are wonderful) Video monitor - YES Audio monitor - HAVEN «T USED Gas drops - NO Gripe water -
Baby fingernail clippers - NO (I use adult cuticle clippers and they are wonderful) Video monitor - YES Audio monitor - HAVEN «T USED Gas drops - NO Gripe water - YES
I could see pumping hurting supply if you did that
instead of having
baby nurse.
Also, I saw on another comment, you recommended giving a snack at 4ish
instead of nursing to get where
baby can eat dinner with the family around 6.
Instead of bringing your breast to your
baby, O'Connor also stresses bringing the
baby to your breast when
nursing.
In the womb,
baby has access to 24 hour nutrition, and so breastfeeding can be done on demand,
instead of a schedule, to develop a strong
nursing relationship and milk supply.
Also, swaddling does work really well for some
babies (it did with mine), but I found it very hard to replicate the superb swaddling job that the neonatal
nurses do, because when I tried it with a regular swaddling blanket she quickly wormed her way out
of it, so
instead I used a swaddling sleepsack (my favorite was the Kiddopotamus, but others swear by the Miracle Blanket or the Halo), and actually continued swaddling until quite recently because it helped her sleep so much!
After 8 weeks
of maternity leave, when I got back to work, initially I tried to get to my
baby to
nurse her once during the day, but it affected both
of our day time routines so much that I started pumping while at work
instead.
So if I'd been
nursing my
baby instead of pumping, he would've gotten at least 40 - 60 ml colostrum (maybe more — aren't
babies more efficient than pumps?).
Or perhaps the limited amount
of time with a
nurse will be squandered on a pointless discussion about the advantages
of the competing brands,
instead of learning the
baby's cues or how to know that the
baby is getting enough to eat.
Many times after
nursing, the nipples will be corrected from the
baby nursing, especially if the mother
nurses for years
instead of months.
However, the one exception is if you are a breastfeeding mother with a very young
baby — sometimes it's simply too hard to deal with the logistics
of pumping at a wedding and it may be more acceptable to bring a
nursing newborn
instead of excusing yourself every two hours and schlepping a pump and cooler around with you.
I too would spend my few hours at home being woken by an alarm to pump
instead of my
baby to
nurse.
If the
nurses hadn't suggested Kangaroo Care, and
instead left my
baby in the incubator in those early days when my sense
of motherhood was most fragile and yet impressionable, I don't know what approach to parenting I might have adopted but I do know that it would have taken me much longer to get to the current place in my parenting journey.
i do nt want her to
nurse at night, if any
of you do nt want that either - offer your
baby a bottle (could be with water)
instead.
Instead of suffering and hoping it will correct itself, taking a few small, proactive (or corrective) steps now will teach both you and your
baby the correct way to latch for a pain - free, successful
nursing session.
The point is - it happens, but according to Kelly Mom, for some women low milk supply can be fixed and increased using a few techniques like
nursing or pumping more frequently, using a supply and demand cycle
instead of scheduling your
baby's feedings, and using a galactagogue, which is a supplement that increases lactation.
Always
nurse on demand
instead of on a schedule and your milk supply will steadily increase and
baby will be happy!
I could go anywhere with my
babies in a sling,
nurse them and let them nap,
instead of running home or driving them in a car to get them to sleep.
You may try offering your
baby more frequent
nursing sessions and / or bottle feedings
instead of solids; you will find that within a week or two, your
baby is oftentimes over the growth spurt and back to feeding «as usual».
If your
baby sucks on a pacifier
instead of nursing at the breast, she won't be getting as much breast milk.
If they
instead keep up with their
baby's higher demands by
nursing more, they will usually quickly boost their supply
of breastmilk, and their
baby will resume their usual schedule.
It is common for mamas to have a tough time getting
baby to
nurse once introducing solids because
baby may be full
of solids or want solids
instead of nursing.
«When we went on our first date, my mother, who had been a pediatric
nurse and raised five children
of her own, put hand sanitizer on the
baby instead of diaper cream!»
Instead of thinking
of your
nursing relationship as «on demand», try thinking
of it as «on cue», because
babies don't really demand anything.
Instead hand express a teaspoon
of breast milk into a clean container, add 4 drops
of Colief, feed to
baby on a sterilized spoon, and continue
nursing as normal.
«I chose a homebirth because I don't enjoy hospitals and
nurses telling me what I'm allowed and not allowed to do from a legal standpoint and hospital policies
instead of what's best for me and
baby.»
I would not include formula as either a mother chooses to
nurse, or if she can not she likely will choose one type
instead of switching
baby around.
This mother had been struggling with her
baby's slow weight gain and had recently started
nursing more often
instead of sticking to the feeding schedule she had first adopted.
So
instead of giving your
baby a full feeding
of breast milk,
nurse for several minutes and then stop and give your child a bottle.
Sent your
baby to the nursery
instead of nursing?
I sadly pumped
instead of breastfeeding my
baby, and the
nurse came in again, instructing me to use the bottle so we could accurately measure his milk intake.
Breastmilk is high in calories, so when a
baby receives solids
instead of nursing, they fill up his or her tiny stomach.
He pointed out that nothing terrible happened, yet nowadays, if the
baby won't
nurse for the first x number
of hours, they start formula
instead of giving the
baby some time.
Once
baby has her latch down, you can try to soothe her with a pacifier
instead of nursing all the time.
Instead,
nurse your
baby first (or offer her a bottle); then, when she's had her fill
of milk, offer her a few spoonfuls
of solid food.
Instead, use a
nursing pillow or some form
of support to raise the
baby to your breast's level.