Not exact matches
Persons who have been hurt in close childhood relationships often feel a painful inner conflict simultaneously pulling them toward
intimacy, to get their basic
needs met, and
away from
intimacy, because of the fear of repeating old hurts.
Although emotional affairs often do not include physical
intimacy, they can take
away from the relationship by encouraging one partner to get his or her emotional
needs met elsewhere, and by bringing secrecy and deception into the relationship, which damages trust just as surely as if the partner had slept with the other person.
How the concepts of closeness - distance (and moving toward or
away) can give you the words
needed to discuss your
intimacy needs;
You may organize a romantic weekend for the two of you:) Find a villa in the mountains and get her there, rend wine next to the fire, cuddling on the veranda, sharing
intimacy away from everyday grind could rekindle romance quicker than anything I can think of, just remember sparkles
need to be kept bright after the weekend is over:)-RRB-