The sheer ridiculousness of the comments you refer to is freaking hilarious... because obviously these people either a) don't have kids themselves, in which case they have no business
intimating that they would make a better parent
than you, or b) do, in fact, have children, but SPEND ALL OF THEIR TIME READING
BLOGS THAT THEY CAN MAKE DEROGATORY COMMENTS ON INSTEAD OF BONDING WITH THEIR CHILDREN.