For many women, anger was not allowed to be expressed, and they may find themselves triggered
into feeling angry themselves, or helpless or even fearful, when their children are angry.
For this reason, many couples actually pick fights or provoke their partner
into feeling angry or jealous.
Not exact matches
Both
angry, both hurt, we walked
into separate rooms and stewed on the facts of what
felt like a derailed relationship.
Thompson is still
angry at his former wife for bringing their son
into Andre White's world, and he
feels guilty for not having done more about it.
New Manchester United manager, David Moyes once admitted that playing against Manchester City was like «going
into a gun fight with a knife» and it certainly
felt like that for Newcastle against the Citizens, as they had several injuries ahead of the game and star man, Yohan Cabaye, was the subject of a late # 10m bid from Arsenal and was therefore not in the right frame of mind to play according to an
angry Alan Pardew.
Summon up all your compassion so your
angry child
feels safe enough to burst
into tears and have a good cry.
Sometimes when parents are
feeling angry or hurt with each other, they may try to pressure you
into taking their side or being just as
angry as they are.
Stop running from the rain, stop ignoring the storm and hoping it goes away, stop getting
angry at the storm for daring to make you
feel this way, daring to question, and instead walk
into it.
If you hold this space long enough, you might find your emotional child melting
into your arms rather than your
angry child, retreating to their room
feeling upset and confused, blaming YOU and your reaction to their upset as the cause of their angst.
When you
feel so
angry that you want to explode, you can go and scratch the pillow, or the mattress, or pound your fists
into the ground.
Woloschak says that she «
felt frustrated and
angry that the government had invested so many millions of dollars — and immense human effort —
into studies that were just going to be trashed because of concerns about space».
When you begin to
feel overwhelmed, upset,
angry, anxious, and the like, stop what you are doing, sit down comfortably, close your eyes, let your hands settle
into your lap, and breathe.
I suggest that Peter remember, when he
feels powerless to please Annie and is dismayed by her anger, that she is
angry precisely because his comfort and support matters so much to her; to remember that his turning and responding has the power to pull her
into loving connection.
Although it's tempting to hit «send» and launch an
angry missive
into cyberspace, Spira recommends sleeping on any upset or hurt
feelings.
After a few hours of this assault, you
feel the chair melt and the floor of the movie theater becomes an
angry mirror
into your soul.
For Mana, showing up for practice and competing in the meet are acts of open defiance, and Ariki isn't the kind of character you want to make
angry, which pulls the openly conflicted Gen
into the center of a potentially violent situation — one that
feels like something out of a Paul Schrader movie (say, Travis Bickle's foolhardy attempt to liberate Iris at the end of «Taxi Driver») rather than the sort of climax audiences might anticipate from this otherwise Disney - appropriate inspirational drama.
The latest film by British director Sally Potter, The Party, spares no one's
feelings or ideas as a friendly get - together dissolves
into angry recrimination.
At moments, it
feels like Tarantino is really trying to say something about the bizarre,
angry jigsaw of people who help make this country the polarized mess it remains today, but once the film shifts
into an expected cacophony of violence, whatever that might be slips through his gore - stained fingers.
We know engaging thousands of people on social media can
feel like working in a black hole, but we've curated a list of actionable social media tips authors can utilize to market their books and themselves on social media without wasting time, breaking the bank, or turning
into an
angry - aggressive marketer who's forgotten what their real job and passion is: writing.
If that trade that you waited patiently for and that looked «perfect» ends up not working out, don't immediately jump back
into the market just because you
feel angry or you
feel «cheated» by the market.
Have you ever sat at your computer
feeling frustrated, greedy or
angry and then entered
into a trade that you knew was a stupid one even before you clicked the Buy or Sell button?
You start
feeling mad that you lost, you get
angry, so you jump back
into the market and risk even more, hoping you make back your lost money.
3) I'm ticked off — «
Angry, agitated cats will often erupt
into a screaming match if they
feel threatened enough to attack,» says Moore.
Now the story had turned
into a dream story, the kind that ends when the protagonist wakes up, the kind, I tell my students, that makes me
feel angry and betrayed as a reader, because I have invested my emotional energy in something that doesn't exist.
I think it's likely Farmville is as popular as it is because it makes us
feel safe and secure in the same way that Halo gives us a rush, or the
angry traffic guy forces us
into a flight, fight, or freeze experience.
One New York gallery in particular, Untitled Space, is currently inviting multidisciplinary women artists to submit work to an upcoming exhibition titled «
Angry Women,» which will channel the
feelings of election - related rage and anxiety
into challenging and confrontational works of feminist art.
Perhaps,
angry frustration from the barrage of media and political propaganda,
felt by the ever - expanding sceptical community, (which is, much to the surprise of pollsters, dominated by well qualified professionals), was the catalyst that sent climate science
into the blog hit statosphere with a bullet.
When this occurs it can manifest
into anxiety, depression, low self - esteem, trouble staying focused,
feeling disconnected,
feeling excessively
angry or guilty, or trouble finding meaning in life, to name only a few.»
When
angry feelings spill over
into the workplace or
into your relationships, anger management counseling can help.
When he gets home from work, he
feels angry because Ashley has moved his well organized notes from the previous day
into a big pile.
Other children may
feel angry and express this by getting
into conflict.
Eventually, agreements reached are written
into a legally binding document anyway, but collaborative divorce does not sweep
angry feelings under the rug.
Aggressive Child defiant, demands must be met immediately, disobedient, easily frustrated, easily jealous, gets
into many fights, hits others,
angry moods, punishment doesn't change his / her behavior, screams a lot, selfish or won't share, sudden changes in mood or
feelings, temper tantrums or hot temper, unusually loud, whining (15 items, each rated as «often true,» «sometimes true,» or «never true»; Cronbach α =.85)
For example, if your child is
angry when he comes
into the playroom, I reflect back the expressed
feelings patiently and without judgment.
When longings for closeness make people
feel weak or vulnerable, they often turn their own sadness and anxiety
into angry complaints.
Because they have deposited love and positive
feelings into each other's «bank accounts», they are better able to see their partner's good intentions, and not lose total sight of the goodness of the other person, even when they get
angry.
Marriage education is a new field that teaches the skills for how to communicate with your spouse including how you say things tactfully, how to listen in a way that your partner
feels heard, how to stay in a calm conversational zone instead escalating
into angry outburst, how to prevent getting snippy, nasty, or sarcastic... and much more.
In our example, I might suggest that Michael remember, when he
feels like turning away from Avery and is dismayed by her anger, that she is
angry because his comfort and support matters so much to her; to remember that his turning and responding to her emotionally has the power to pull her
into loving connection, instead of cold withdrawal.
There are so many times when it
feels like little molehills are getting made
into mountains and neither of us know how to react without getting
angry.
Each person in and of him / herself can be right, but put
into a group, i.e. the family system, people can be left
feeling misunderstood, hurt,
angry, etc..
It's important to try and get
into therapy sooner and not wait until things are in crisis and it's hard to come back from
feeling so sad, alone,
angry and disappointed for so long.
The 27 items are divided among three subscales which assess the support and sense of togetherness between family members (e.g., «We put a lot of energy
into what we do at home»); the extent to which family members express their thoughts and
feelings (e.g., «Family members often
feel like keeping their
feelings to themselves») and; the expression of negative emotions towards members of the family unit (e.g., «Family members sometimes get so
angry they throw things»).
More specifically, the
FEEL - KJ assesses the emotion regulation strategies Problem Solving (e.g., «I try to change what makes me
angry»), Distraction (e.g., «I do something fun»), Forgetting (e.g., «I think it will pass»), Acceptance (e.g., «I accept what makes me
angry»), Humor Enhancement (e.g., «I think about things that make me happy»), Cognitive Problem Solving (e.g., «I think about what I can do»), Revaluation (e.g., «I tell myself it is nothing important»), Giving Up (e.g., «I don't want to do anything»), Withdrawal (e.g., «I don't want to see anyone»), Rumination (e.g., «I can not get it out of my head»), Self - Devaluation (e.g., «I blame myself»), Aggressive Actions (e.g., «I get
into a quarrel with others»), Social Support (e.g., «I tell someone how I am doing»), Expression (e.g., «I express my anger»), and Emotional Control (e.g., «I keep my
feelings for myself»).