Instead of allowing themselves to feel hurt, many people will turn the hurt
into feelings of resentment and anger.
Not exact matches
Feeling ashamed at being so petty does not banish the pettiness, for fresh occasions keep cropping up which fan the smoldering sparks
of resentment into flame.
moments, and it works very well, but don't walk
into it thinking you're getting It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia, because the show packs a heavy emotional punch as well; I found myself
feeling genuine compassion and sympathy for Grace and Frankie, and was even a little misty - eyed by the end
of the pilot, as anger,
resentment, and bitterness gave way to cautious optimism.
Eventually
feelings of togetherness and genuine affection can morph
into bitterness and
resentment.
Division
of labor, for instance, only becomes noticeable and problematic by either or both spouses when there are other, more meaningul areas
of the marriage that are suffering: not
feeling known by and / or wanting to know your spouse, a depleted fondness and admiration for and from your spouse, and a general lowered emotional bank account which turns neutral / trivial actions and statements
into fights,
resentment, and eventually the true cancer
of relationships, contempt.
One
of the main reasons why couples develop serious difficulties is because one or both partners withdraw and go
into the «silent treatment» mode due to
feelings of hurt, anger, and
resentment.