The presentation will address countertransference issues
involving fear of abandonment, denial, control, guilt, caretaking, boundaries, and the handling of missed appointments, termination, and fees.
Not exact matches
Dependency
involves both insecure attachment, expressed as difficulty tolerating aloneness; intense
fear of loss,
abandonment, or rejection by significant others; and urgent need for contact with significant others when stressed or distressed, accompanied sometimes by highly submissive, subservient behavior.
In addition, the underlying «self - structure» organization
of the narcissistic and borderline personality organization is the same (Kernberg, 1975),
involving the person's tremendous sense
of core - self inadequacy and
fears of abandonment.
For example, in circumstances where an attachment figure is inconsistently available, physically or emotionally, a person may implicitly adopt hyperactivating attachment strategies
involving amplification
of attachment needs, high levels
of negative emotion, persistent attempts to maintain connection, and intense
fear of abandonment (Cassidy & Kobak, 1988).