I'm not bashing formula here, or passing any kind of
judgment about parents who use it by either choice or necessity.
Your judgments about their parents behavior is unfair and unfounded.
I admitted to my childless friend that I was nervous they were all judging me for formula - feeding and in her typically honest fashion, she admitted that if she didn't know me, she'd probably be making similar assumptions and
judgments about my parenting too.
When people's sense of what's morally acceptable influences their sense of what's safe, they can make bad
judgments about parents» actions.
It was found that people make strong moral
judgments about a parent who leaves her child alone.
The resulting report is called «No Child Left Alone: Moral
Judgments about Parents Affect Estimates of Risk to Children.»
Not exact matches
I hadn't spent much time thinking
about what it's like for gay kids to overhear their
parents talking
about gay neighbors with derision and fear, for example, or how narratives
about judgment and hell can be processed by kids in some pretty destructive ways.
Critical
judgment about pastors,
parents, teachers, and youth leaders are natural to them.
Not only b / c it glorifies spanking, but because of the
judgment in blatantly makes
about parents who DO N'T spank their children.
«Five, Ten» is
about having confidence in the sometimes hard
parenting decisions you've made for your family and sticking to them when you begin second - guessing yourself, you feel
judgment from others, or your stress begins to fog the plan.
The culture of youth sports can cloud a
parent's
judgment to the point that she doesn't want to hear the truth
about the seriousness of an injury to their child.
The alleged lack of scientific studies and the amount of clinical
judgment involved in concussion management, and the lack of uananimity, either
about grading the severity of concussions or in return to play guidelines, while it complicates our efforts to educate
parents on concussions, should not be used as an excuse to do nothing.
That fear though, the fear of
judgment or of not mattering enough for someone to even notice, can be paralyzing and
parents may, unintentionally, cause suffering for their children simply because the cultural attitudes
about asking for help have effectively silenced them for issuing the call when most needed.
There are so many reasons people use cloth diapers, and so many reasons people use disposable diapers (the entry costs to start using cloth diapers are way more than some excellent
parents can manage, for example) that it makes no sense to me to make
judgments about other people's
parenting on the basis of choices
about diapering.
Ask any
parents what their thoughts are on people bringing sick kids to birthday parties, and they'll share a long list of
judgments that simply amount to, «Don't even think
about it.»
Our
parenting choices are not
about judging what anyone else does: it's
about doing what's right for us, without allowing the
judgment of others to cloud our vision.
Heather Shumaker and Stephanie Land spoke with NPR's Michel Martin
about the foundations of their
parenting beliefs and what to do
about all this
judgment in the
parenting world.
You may not realize it, but your words carry an underlying
judgment about AP practices that ignores what motives
parents might have for those practices.
But along with the public support comes public
judgment on a whole lot of
parenting issues that no one seemed to care
about in past generations.
The feeling that everyone is making
judgments about how you're
parenting is nearly overwhelming in these family gatherings, but in those moments, remember what's really important here.
If you're looking for ways to deflect criticism, check out a great article on Natural
Parents Network
about how to respond respectfully to unwanted
parenting advice and
judgment.
Just like cupcakes and second hand smoke, these are moral or physical RISKS
about which
parents make
judgments every day.
And just as Emily, the woman mentioned in the blog post, experienced, rather than getting good guidance from the experts,
parents end up insecure
about their own capabilities, simply forgetting
about the importance of their own
judgment or even feeling guilty for having ideas and feelings that don't seem to match their noble motives.
Authoritarian
parenting is characterized by strict rules adhering to an external
judgment of what is the «correct» way to behave, such as social values, religious values, family traditions or preconceived notions
about what makes the perfect
parent.
To address the
judgment parents feel, ZERO TO THREE has created resources designed to help raise awareness
about the pressure
parents feel.
His
parents are almost perfect; his mom is a mental health professional (Jennifer Garner) who's ready to talk
about monumental things, without
judgment, at any moment.
Maybe only
parents, communities, and local educators are well - enough positioned to make reasonable (if imperfect)
judgments about what each child needs.
Decision makers in education — students,
parents, educators, community members, and policymakers — all need timely access to information from many sources if they are to make informed
judgments about student learning and the success of education programs.
Guest Blogger Shani Jackson Dowell shares her thoughts
about a world where
parents are doing the best for their children while navigating systemic isms and the age - old battle against others»
judgment.
Parents frequently make
judgment calls
about whether their child is too sick to go to school, or whether a family vacation or extracurricular activity is worth missing a day for.
The comments section on this article show a
parent population who see the injustice in this system claiming that «it's
about who you know [to get into schools]» and that «years of favoritism and poor
judgments have led to this, and without a transparent system it will never improve.»
We soon realized that
parenting was a never - ending series of
judgment calls, and that from diapers to diplomas we'd be struggling with decisions
about what was best for our child.
I don't play a lot of dungeon crawlers or roguelike, turn - based games, so take it from someone who has no bias or experience clouding their
judgment: Loot Rascals presents the type of addictive play that makes
parents worry
about their kids.
[68] The substantive elements of the termination that the Board found unreasonable included: the principal ordering Mr. Dorval to use codes given the evidence that policy (of RSCHS and Edmonton Public School Board) supported involvement of teachers» professional
judgment and consultation; the order being simply announced with little or no consultation; questions or concerns being ignored; little or no communication to students and
parents about the codes or their enactment; the failure of the principal and the appellant to respect the professional rights and duties of the teacher regarding assessment of his students; and the discriminatory singling out of Mr. Dorval for discipline when other teachers who also challenged and refused to follow the principal's order were not disciplined.
While many states are doing this with graduated licensing systems,
parents should definitely use their own
judgment about additional restrictions.
And when we see a child fold his arms across his chest, scowl and place demands on what his
parents will do for him, we've likely lost all respect for that
parent as our minds go to terrible places of
judgment about where and when that
parent went wrong.
That's why, no one can really blame
parents if they get worried and paranoid
about their
parenting styles, especially at a time where
judgments are easily given.
Parenting experts stressed no one can make a judgment about someone's parenting based on cautiously choreographed scenarios like a televised
Parenting experts stressed no one can make a
judgment about someone's
parenting based on cautiously choreographed scenarios like a televised
parenting based on cautiously choreographed scenarios like a televised campaign.
but also making
judgments about right and wrong, good and bad
parenting.
When confronted with an angry child, Michael Emblet of the Christian Counseling and Educational Foundation recommends that
parents get on their knees and examine their hearts before making radical
judgments about the child.
In fact, the biggest obstacle of doing so is
parents» own
judgments and fear
about their child's behaviors.
Although excruciatingly difficult, I am attempting to withhold
judgment about the fact that these prospective adoptive
parents obviously consider the adoptee as a commodity rather than as a human being.
They were also asked to investigate the kinds of attributions and
judgments they make
about themselves and their child and then begin to make connections between how those
judgments relate to relationship patterns and then to the quality of the
parent — child relationship.