So, despite my own beliefs I am not free from being a little
judgmental at times.
Hi Whitney, My statement about characteristics of moms that tend to breastfeed longer wasn't meant to be
judgmental at all, so I'm sorry that it felt that way to you.
Because we can all be together on this same planet without calling each other
judgmental at every second of the day.
One thing that's a bit of a turnoff is that the book does get a little
judgmental at times.
The term «casual s3x» is intrinsically
judgmental at best and cultural - fascism at worst.
Not exact matches
And commentators remain
judgmental to this day: for example, almost all the»96 roundups skipped offerings that came to market without the backing of investment bankers, although
at least one issue managed by a company CEO thrashed the underwritten crowd.
Once I left religion behind and embraced humanity I found myself less
judgmental, depression subsided when I realized I really wasn't in danger of burning in hell
at the discretion of a God, and found that for the most part people are good.
not only are you
judgmental and do you make egrgious assumptions about the practices of other posters, you seem to have no knowldge
at all of that book you wave around in your holier - than - thou rantings.
I went to a small town in the midwest to work for a non-profit thinking it'd be like chicken - soup - for the soul... INSTEAD it was a fundamentalist nightmare... it was NOT just small town mindedness... I could hardly find a church with out people wondering — why is this attractive woman in her early 30's unwed (or
at least divorced with 3 kids) people were cold and unfathomable
judgmental and sometimes downright hostile eager to quote scriptures seemingly un-lead by the Holy Spirit.
These were the sorts of verses that many self - righteous and
judgmental Christians quoted
at me when I was experiencing some of the deep pain and struggles in my life.
In previous eras sexual prohibition was decreed for «maiden lades,»
at least for proper maiden ladies, and they endured it frequently by becoming the paradigms of rigid virtue with ramrod backbones and
judgmental airs, in many instances, enough to create a recognizable caricature.
You accuse fundamental Christians of being intolerant,
judgmental and hateful, while you foam
at the mouth calling them freaking lunatics, ignorant, weak - minded, stupid fundies, and hateful bigots.
I guess what I'm getting
at is God is much bigger than our little relgious boxes we draw and humble, peace loving people are usually closer to God than scared,
judgmental people.
Often times I am guilty of pointing my finger and showing
judgmental anger
at them as I feel they would to me.
Sometimes it might be wise for her to be firm,
at other times tender; sometimes it might be compassionate for Her to be
judgmental,
at other times tolerant.
But from the point of view of a professor
at a Catholic university (Patrick's), don't we have to be
judgmental about the efforts of, say, Machiavelli, Hobbes, and Locke not only to «tame» but to destroy Christianity [see the symposium on Strauss referenced below]?
Although his general observation is interesting
at best, the problem though, is that all of his supporting arguments are nothing more than
judgmental in the most narrow - minded way.
13 Whitehead does not use the term judgment
at this point, but see S 50; PR 100, 260, 267; MT 181 for various summaries of PI in which its
judgmental character emerges.
While you and I cringe
at hearing this response, many Christians cringe daily in having such
judgmental words spoken directly to them.
All you have done is prove the points I made by being
judgmental, divisive and a know - it - all who really doesn't know much
at all about people.
In fear of being seen as
judgmental, many of us decide to stop sharing our faith
at all.
I'm as hypocritical as the next person,
judgmental of those I deem
judgmental, self - righteous, indulgent, a gossip, too careless with my words, too quick to get angry
at certain people with certain theological views, too easily seduced by money and notoriety and... my favorite things in the whole entire world... AWARDSI LISTS!
Unless he accepts it
at a heart as well as
at a head level, he will convey a
judgmental attitude in spite of his conscious intentions.
My main point was to look
at the comments, pick out the believers and non-believers, and tell me who sounds more intolerant and
judgmental.
Most are
at least half - way decent and moderate enough not to be so
judgmental.
I would like to think that the above considerations might lead the bishop to review his criticisms and arrive
at a «less
judgmental» estimate of what I wrote.
I find it amusing that so many people's immediate response to a ridiculous,
judgmental, over-simplified list like this is to point the finger
at other people.
But considering when out and about I see way, way more babies getting bottles than being nursed, and the stats that show the majority of moms use bottles and formula
at some point, I have to wonder, WHO is giving the
judgmental looks to bottlefeeding moms??? The tiny minority who manage to exclusively breastfeed?
At first, I felt a kind of
judgmental reaction to this («I'd have let him go!»)
(Please, let me say
judgmental one more time, it's not annoying
at all!)
We try to keep Tariku on West Coast time when we travel, so we're often faced with the unique problem of trying to find something to do with an energetic two - year - old
at midnight (never fails to draw dirty looks from
judgmental strangers).
Given some of the criticism directed
at Weigel as well as All the Single Ladies author Rebecca Traister, both married women writing about the single life, it's clear that the anti-couple single community can seem just as
judgmental and limiting.
When you use negative and
judgmental language, it makes parents feel badly about letting their children eat
at school, even if they can't afford to pack a meal from home.
Without shouting
at the others that they are being, «
judgmental».
While I wish you would not have been so extremist and
judgmental (I truly think it was a selfish move on your part to get attention and make money), I do appreciate the opportunity for Attachment Parenting to be self - reflective and take a hard look
at the reality of the recommendations put forth that are very difficult, if not impossible, for every woman to adopt.
Or are you making a
judgmental leap that babies that nurse «too long» and are tended to
at night will grow up to be weak, nervous, and incapable of functioning independently on their own.....?
The two that do try it will spit it out before you can cut a piece for yourself and you will feel annoyed
at their immature and
judgmental pallet.
Whenit comes to others, we should not be
judgmental or
at least give the benefit of the doubt, while we should try to respect other feelings and yet meet the needs of our kids
You can tell that Ana has a genuine passion for this work and is committed to seeing moms succeed
at breastfeeding without being
judgmental if a mother feels like she wants to stop (believe me, I wanted to quit many times).
However, while you might need to explain the value of breastfeeding to someone who has some influence in your life, you don't need to explain yourself to every
Judgmental Joe who pops up to shame you
at the mall or wherever.
If I knew that the death rate
at home with a midwife was 450 % higher than
at a hospital and I kept that information to myself for fear of sounding «
judgmental» of my friends» choices, I would certainly be in for some judgement of my own were they to experience the worst.
The messages we receive from well meaning family members or media can,
at times, feel
judgmental and harmful.
I assumed maybe I'd missed the bit showing the formula feeders as
judgmental too, but not surprised
at all that it seems one sided.
Stay away from the online «mommy wars» between working and
at - home moms, and tune out any
judgmental comments you may receive.
Maybe she has to return to work immediately and doesn't want to pump during her break, maybe she is taking medications that prohibit breastfeeding, or maybe she just wants to be able to drink a glass of wine
at the end of a long day taking care of her baby and dodging
judgmental assumptions from a society that thinks they know what she should do with her own body.
Nothing is risk - free, and
at some point guidelines become interfering and
judgmental.
Almost weekly I see some sort of blog post, news story or media campaign that is dedicated to this idea that all of us are
judgmental, disgusted and shocked
at how the «others» parent.
The main reason I wanted to comment was that I was offended and slightly appalled
at your quite
judgmental comment about how, «these mothers are more likely to be well - educated, white, older, richer, buying organic food, fretting about BPA exposure, and the list goes on».
I understand you saying how it wasn't meant to be
judgmental now after explaining how it has to be looked
at for the study.
It didn't help that whenever I pulled a bottle out of my diaper bag these same moms would raise
judgmental eyebrows
at me before confessing that they, too, had struggled
at first.