You'll meet many gentlemen here, they're all good at «vanity project», well, which also part of
social skills, how close you stand to someone you are talking to, how you act when you two meet or part, and all the
niceties of dinner party conversation... But don't assume they are hard to get, you
just talking and acting like a socialite, making some eye contact with men, they may give you a clue that where you can go after the party, then further communicate with you.