As an aside, my guess is that this particular person, if she's not just a personification of the attitude I've seen so frequently coming
from people who hope to become parents through adoption, has
fallen for the «perfect baby» stories that came out of adoption so long ago and have been continually pushed by unethical adoption agencies just looking to stay in business by
preying on the desires of people who can afford to
keep them in the lifestyle to which they've become accustomed.