He wasn't a great nurser either so wasn't like, you know, we'd gotten off to this fabulous start but it was just, I think this second
one learns how to kind of go with the flow a
little bit more because it was not all about that child and for me, I didn't necessarily set up a routine but what I did do is, actually a
little bit opposite of yours, mine was, I had to satisfy the toddler first, because I figured that, the infant kind of walk
around, kind of
keep him pacified a
little bit, but my toddler was like me, me, me, me, me, like I need this now, so we had a box of toys, that he could play with, like they were only set up for when I were nursing, so they were like his special toys, a special snacks that I knew that would be
safe and I wouldn't be giving the Heimlich Maneuver you know, while I was trying to breastfeed.