What
lactivists like myself are fighting is the idea that breastmilk can be easily substituted with formula.
This is about attempting to fill the pathetic lack of self - esteem of Elicia and
lactivists like her.
Maybe it's because
lactivists like Martha are well aware that for many women breastfeeding isn't awesome at all.
Not exact matches
It's a troublesome feeling because we're all supposed to be good little
lactivists who never speak unless we're spoken to, and yet by doing so we allow misinformation to be spread
like wildfire when we had a chance to correct it... then when we do it only results in more defensiveness, often regardless of how you phrase it.
I'd
like to say I laid the foundation for my little brother to become a
lactivist when his own wife began to breastfeed years later, but the truth is, I was just embarrassed for him to see me nursing.
On the many
lactivist blogs and Twitter feeds I followed while researching this book, the words of Eleanor Roosevelt would be thrown around
like paper airplanes in a fourth - grade classroom - inappropriately and haphazardly, and often hitting unintended targets.
I tried everything that all the Facebook
lactivist mommies and La Leche League forums recommended: nipple shields, mouth exercises, dribbling formula on my nipple
like I was in a preschool version of the candle wax scene from 9 1/2 Weeks.
Kathy Abbott IBCLC as «The Curious
Lactivist»
likes to reflect on the ways that breastfeeding is presented in the news media.
Many
lactivists themselves love to play up the erotic nature of breastfeeding, describing the baby in almost a post-coital bliss after a feed and bragging that «nothing can match the bonding», and making their husbands sound
like unwanted suitors.
Yet
lactivists feel no compunction about behaving
like know - it - alls and doing the exact same thing.
Even though I
like breastfeeding my children, I haven't read or heard a
lactivist address how a woman is supposed to cope with breastfeeding if she doesn't have any support at home.
«
Lactivists» (god, I hate that word) should really consider whether their activism actually promotes a positive public image of breastfeeding or whether it actually makes breastfeeding look
like something only fringe, exhibitionist weirdos do.
Imagining that you are knowledgeable about breastfeeding because you have read the propaganda of the
lactivist industry is
like imagining that you are knowledgeable about extraterrestrial life because you read about aliens in the «newspapers» at the check out line in the supermarket.
I feel
like many «
lactivists» are often so intent on convincing women that they can succeed at breastfeeding that they don't realize how much pressure that kind of support can create.
I have found that the Naural birthers, AP, and
lactivists that I have met over the years actually have personality and / or life style deficiencies that cause them to need to feel
like better parents, due to their own underlying feelings of parental inadequacy, either real or imagined.
You are behaving
like the
lactivists who assert risks from properly made and dispensed formula in healthy, full term infants in developed countries.
In it, she chides
lactivists for their intolerance of tolerance,
lactivists who say things
like ``... [I] t is scientifically proven that breast is better.