It opened my eyes to the fact that the only person who gets to decide which feeding method is best is the mother, she knows her family and her situation better than anyone else, certainly better than the anonymous
lactivists on the internet who mean to shame her for her choices.
I will admit I didn't actually go as far as starving and totally dehydrating him, as some of
the lactivists on MDC suggested, but I didn't immediately supplement either.
Not exact matches
Carina, a self - described
lactivist, also responded to a woman's question
on Yahoo
on this very topic.
On the many
lactivist blogs and Twitter feeds I followed while researching this book, the words of Eleanor Roosevelt would be thrown around like paper airplanes in a fourth - grade classroom - inappropriately and haphazardly, and often hitting unintended targets.
But amidst the plethora of substantial, legitimate information, there is also a cacophony of foreboding, judgmental voices: «
lactivist» blogs that compare formula feeding to child abuse; public message boards with calls to action - «I automatically feel sorry for the baby sitting in the cart in the formula aisle as their parent loads up
on cans of the stuff.
I tried everything that all the Facebook
lactivist mommies and La Leche League forums recommended: nipple shields, mouth exercises, dribbling formula
on my nipple like I was in a preschool version of the candle wax scene from 9 1/2 Weeks.
Kathy Abbott IBCLC as «The Curious
Lactivist» likes to reflect
on the ways that breastfeeding is presented in the news media.
Not sure I understand... I wasn't making a reference to Christ, I was equating zealous
lactivists to obnoxious people of any faith who stand
on the street corner and shout that all non believers are going to hell if they don't start believing as they do.
Here's a newsflash for
lactivists: women formula feed because they want to do so and unless and until you address the real reasons, and stop pretending that this is a giant conspiracy
on the part of «Big Forma,» all your campaigns are doomed to failure.
That's not surprising, since there was never any scientific evidence that it would work in first world countries, just the heartfelt desire
on the part of
lactivists to shame and denigrate other women.
Maybe they can do that
on Planet Boob where most of the
lactivists hide out, but here in the real world, most nursing women have OTHER CHILDREN.
We plan
on breast feeding, but with twins there are no guarantees, and we're no
lactivists...
I'm very glad that baby saw us instead of a judgmental
lactivist who would give ineffective suggestions and let the baby continue
on a downward spiral towards dehydration and hypoglycemic seizures.
My guilt about not being able to breastfeed was based
on misinformation that is routinely trotted out by
lactivists.
It has some short term benefits
on a population level basis — which means it makes sense for government agencies who want to save some healthcare dollars to be interested in breastfeeding levels, but is a poor explanation for
lactivist zealotry.
Easier to work for your father's law firm, study to get a CPM, and put
on more hipster get - ups to get cute pictures of yourself doing
lactivist sit ins.
We all know the archetypes: the slacker mom, super mom, co-sleeper,
lactivist — the list goes
on.
I feel like many «
lactivists» are often so intent
on convincing women that they can succeed at breastfeeding that they don't realize how much pressure that kind of support can create.
No hate
on the
lactivists, guys.
Then they went
on to ask us all to stop using the word
lactivist and instead asked us to replace zealotry with compassion and understanding to meet every mommy where she is.
SUNNY GAULT: Today
on The Boob Group we are asking ourselves a question, are you a
lactivist?
I don't know how the term
lactivist actually started, I don't know if anyone has any thoughts
on how it started.
(Hathor) Find out about the action some mothers and advocates are taking
on this Saturday (The
Lactivist)
Davis sent a scorching e-mail around Capitol Hill, reported
on by the Times in December 2010, claiming the study of the additives «was being pushed by «
lactivists» who wanted to force women to continue breastfeeding.»
A popular sentiment in «
lactivist» circles is «nobody can make you feel guilt, if you feel guilt it's
on your own and you must have a reason to.»
I love the name
lactivist, as this blog focues
on parenting and breastfeeding.
I would love for one of those hateful «militant
lactivists» to have spent a few days
on my schedule and then tell me that I just wasn't trying hard enough.