Sadly, it can
leave your spouse feeling neglected, rejected, and hurt.
A great couples counselor will
leave both spouses feeling happier and closer after just about every session, and they will have the sense that they've learned something lasting.
Not exact matches
So either the marriage experiences stress and breaks up, or it experiences stress and stays together, achieving some kind of truce that involves one
spouse or the other capitulating in some areas, but which
leaves both parties
feeling lonely and unhappy.
This hearty chicken dinner is sure to
leave you
feeling full and satisfied and is an easy enough recipe that you and your
spouse - to - be can revisit making it when your first anniversary comes around.
Plus all the sneaking is ok at first, but gets old quickly and if the other person is also married and unwilling or unable to
leave their
spouse, you kinda begin to
feel used.
Whether it's with your kids, your
spouse or your boss, power struggles
leave you
feeling powerless.
They may have been married and started a family of their own, so when they are dealt a devastating blow that
leaves them single again, whether it is the death of their
spouse or a divorce, they may
feel like they will never find love again.
Feel free to share it on Facebook, print it off and
leave it by your
spouse's pillow, or simply steal some ideas for your own master list.
This can be in the form of correspondence between you and your
spouse that would suggest they should not be
left alone with your child, reports or testimony from counselors or parenting evaluators, a restraining order you may have against your
spouse or even declarations from character witnesses that
feel supervised visitation is called for.
The passing of a family member or
spouse can
leave you
feeling lost.
Imagine how you would
feel to find out your
spouse died, then learn they
left behind $ 500,000 or more in coverage to pay for final expenses and help care for the kids.
For example, while many people
feel that those who have a
spouse and / or child depending on them financially are the only ones who need this type of coverage, the reality is that anyone could
leave their loved ones with financial hardship in case of the unexpected.
However, since the work these
spouses do to keep households running isn't defined by a number, but rather a
feeling, it's often
left out of the life insurance conversation.
Divorcing your
spouse is a major life event that can
leave you
feeling a range of challenging emotions; from sad,
For example, perhaps you and your
spouse drifted apart,
leaving the betrayer
feeling unloved and unwanted.
In my experience a
spouse often nags because the other
spouse is not communicating effectively, often tending to withdraw and shutdown — which often
leaves the other
spouse feeling like they constantly have to pursue issues with them.
If only one
spouse wanted the divorce, the other person frequently
feels anger towards the partner who
left.
If your
spouse leaves you without your consent, you may
feel deserted, but to obtain a divorce based on his desertion, you must be able to prove your
spouse's behavior was «willful, continued and obstinate.»
The nagging
spouse is really asking to
feel more wanted, desired, special, or loved, and the retreating
spouse is really trying to protect the relationship from harm or destruction, fearing that the barrage of criticisms might eventually lead their partner to
leave them.
Do you want to work on reconnecting with your
spouse or partner but
feel that your attempts to fix the relationship somehow get turned into arguments,
leaving you
feeling more lonely, sad and separate from your partner?
Before you make plans to
leave or blow up in a future argument, have an honest discussion with your
spouse about the way you
feel.
Not
feeling connected to your partner can quickly ruin a marriage because it
leaves couples
feeling as though they're living with a stranger or more like roommates than
spouses.
Traditional marriage counseling tends to be ineffective because the counselor either expects both parties to work on the relationship — rendering the leaning out
spouse, the uncooperative one — or encourages the hopeful
spouse to just let go of the marriage —
leaving that individual
feeling undercut and angry.
Express your
feelings to your partner, make your wishes known, and then
leave it up to your
spouse to make a decision.
These
feelings of chronic anxiety and insecurity are fueled by thoughts that our
spouse is going to
leave us or doesn't love us enough.
Do you
feel disconnected from your
spouse or relationship partner and yourself,
leaving you
feeling lost and alone?
As well as
leaving important issues in your marriage unresolved, the silent treatment may make your
spouse feel worthless, unloved, hurt, confused, frustrated, angry, and unimportant.
Leaving your partner before you have come to any resolution or even finished the conversation can make your
spouse feel very abandoned.
Since both you and your
spouse still own (or lease) the home together, the
spouse who
left may still
feel like that's his / her home, too.
We can not remember a time we
left the courtroom after a judge's ruling in a family law matter and
felt like one
spouse or the other got a clear «win» for the children.
Mediation can
leave you
feeling like you have all the power, but it is important to keep in mind a judge will still need to review your Separation Agreement once you and your
spouse sign it.