The downside of course is that the more avoidant one partner is,
the less emotional closeness the other partner feels, and so the merry - go - round of criticism and avoidance continues.
Not exact matches
Partners who are more avoidant — preferring to steer clear of
emotional closeness and intimacy — are more likely to use strategies like withdrawal (the least ideal strategy), manipulation, and mediated communication, and
less likely to use open confrontation.
It improves 1) our
emotional state; 2) our resilience and our acceptance of ourselves; 3) how we interpret situations or events, so that we see them as more manageable; 4) our motivation to overcome adversity and strive toward our goals; 5) the adaptiveness of our responses to specific situations, such as our coping strategies and our ability to learn from experience; 6) our relationships themselves in terms of
closeness, trust, and feeling loved; 7) our physiological functioning, such as improved immune response; and 8) behaviors that comprise a healthier lifestyle, like better eating habits and self - care and
less substance abuse.
Reluctance to disclose inner thoughts and feelings, remaining guarded, and having desire for personal control are all signs of avoidant attachment.1, 2 Research shows that in adolescence and young adulthood, avoidant individuals do not connect as deeply (they have
less intimacy and
emotional closeness) with friends and romantic partners as secure individuals do, and this lack of connection largely results from
less self - disclosure.
Decreased
closeness in the parent — child relationship may thus accompany the cascade evolving from
less emotional support from partner, making the lack of support and satisfaction even more detrimental in the late child - rearing years.
American studies indicate that the frequency is
less important for child school success and psychological well - being than the interaction content, i.e. qualitative dimensions like social relations and
emotional closeness between parent and child (see Amato and Gilbreth 1999 for a meta - analysis of a large number of studies).
Yet, among the variety of intergenerational relationships, those that lack
emotional closeness are expected to be
less stable over time than those that are emotionally close (H2).