A nice way to put things.And there are so many things you've mentioned that are quite obvious but are not easy to spot - like
letting yourself open and
vulnerable in a relationship.A relationship and marriage are very different from any other form of connection between two human beings and handling it needs special care no doubt.Very healthy advice from you was to not run to the court every time there is a problem but rather try to work it out - something that most
young people just don't seem to understand.