The naïve moralism in this area can be maintained only by ignoring the facts that inebriety is as much a symptom as a cause of the disturbed interpersonal
life of the alcoholic, that alcoholism is a complex disease involving physical, cultural, and socio - psychological as well as moral factors, and that homelessness is in itself a complex phenomenon, not the simple product of excessive drinking.
We have seen ample evidence of conditions in the emotional climate of the early
lives of the alcoholics which give rise to inner conflicts.
Not exact matches
«Some recipients would do fine with vouchers that they could use for any social services,» Olasky explains, «but it would be irresponsible to place unconstrained vouchers in the hands
of addicts,
alcoholics, and others not committed to changing their
lives.»
Nevertheless, when one reads, for instance,
of how the Eli Lilly company used homeless
alcoholics for testing experimental drugs, it is hard not to believe that such guinea pigs are being exploited, even if they may welcome their improved
living conditions during the course
of the research.
The gift
of God to the recovering
alcoholic is «a desire to stop drinking» and people who care enough to be honest about
life in the pursuit
of sobriety.
He learns to cope within a blended family, attempts to understand and contend with an abusive and
alcoholic stepfather, and later dates and experiments with drugs and alcohol; experiences that are not uncommon within the
lives of youth today.
My soon to be 2 years
of being a «dry drunk», an
alcoholic is yes, due my belief in a higher power, perhaps GOD or God or even another human being who has
lived thier
life alikened my path in
life.
The «cunningness»
of an ongoing
alcoholic is their denying themselves and others that they
live an unmanagable extistence
of drinking that is leading them nowhere with no end in sight on having anything worthy
of showing for.
Perhaps he oversimplifies the idea
of human will: the «Big Book»
of AA indicts the
alcoholic as «an extreme example
of self - will run riot,» the first requirement for recovery being that he becomes «convinced that any
life run on self - will can hardly be a success.»
Because
of its permissive attitude toward theological ideas, it accepts the
alcoholic at the point he has reached in his religious
life and allows his religious formulations to grow as his experiences change.
Another group
of alcoholics encountered in pastoral counseling are those whose abnormal drinking is painfully obvious to the «significant others» in their
lives, but not to themselves.
The aim
of Emmanuel therapy was the reconstruction
of the inner
life so that the
alcoholic could remain abstinent — Worcester had no illusions about
alcoholics becoming social drinkers.
Subsumed under this goal are four operational objectives which may be seen as overlapping stages
of treatment: Helping the
alcoholic (a) to accept the fact that his drinking is a problem with which he needs help; (b) to obtain, medical treatment; (c) to interrupt the addictive cycle and keep it interrupted by learning to avoid the first drink; (d) to achieve a re-synthesis
of his
life without alcohol.
Christians commonly believe it's not healthy to continue to think
of yourself as
alcoholic or an addict for the rest
of your
life.
Fortunate is the pastor who
lives in one
of the 220 areas in the United States and Canada in which
alcoholic clinics are available for referral.
The long - range goal
of counseling with
alcoholics, then, is permanent abstinence leading to the development
of potentialities for constructive
living.
Such a plan should include whatever combination
of therapies is required to help a particular
alcoholic achieve stable sobriety and productive
living.
By successfully interrupting the «runaway symptom»
of drinking to overcome the effects
of previous drinking, A.A. enables the
alcoholic's personality resources to become available to him for handling his problems in
living.
The evidence we have concerning the early
life and adjustment
of alcoholics points, in many cases, to a serious limitation
of their capacity for self - determination.
because you know
alcoholics and are a Christian / scientist you believe that
life is a test
of something you can not prove to begin with but something is being submitted... you mean someone is still grading my homework!!?? Crap.
As a scientist and Christian, who knows
alcoholics, I choose to believe that conscious
life is a sort
of test
of its ability to submit itself to something which can never in this Universe be proved exists with empirical evidence.
For much
of his
life, he was a serious
alcoholic and suffered from Obsessive - Compulsive Disorder.
I setup a
life in which I could manage my alcoholism and surrounded myself with a «community»
of other
alcoholics as a support group.
Second, my major ministry, the San Francisco Network Ministries, is among people long ago abandoned by the church — the frail elderly poor, the homeless, addicts and
alcoholics, illiterates, people with AID»S / ARC who are
living in poverty, prostitutes and other victims
of our culture's «sex industry,» and people with various mental and physical disabilities struggling to
live on meager benefit payments.
I am an
alcoholic with 32 years
of sobriety, Lets look at what this woman does for a
living, She writes books and I see this as nothing more than a effort to promote her product.
I am an
alcoholic, by the grace
of God now
living in my 25th year
of sobriety.
Sometimes I wonder if perhaps the rooms
of Alcoholics Anonymous have, at some point in its 76 year history, contained individuals who possessed the ability to do great things — cure cancer, revolutionize politics, or contribute other great things to society — but whose minds became so polluted with AA propaganda that they shut off their own brilliance and chose to spend the rest
of their
lives «making their sobriety their number one priority» and believing humility to be more valuable than fulfilling their potential and allowing their greatness to shine.
My departure from a potentiality
of a
life - Long career
of imbibing
alcoholic based fermentations
of liquidities came to an end prior to my becoming part
of A.A..
Robert C. Leslie identifies these salient points at which small groups played a vital role in church history: Christ and his disciples, the Apostolic church, Montanism, monasticism, the Waldenses, the Franciscans, the Friends
of God, the Brethren
of the Common
Life, German pietism, the Anabaptists, the Society
of Friends, the Wesleyan revival, the Great Awakening, the Iona Community, the Emmanuel Movement, and the Oxford Group Movement (from which came
Alcoholics Anonymous).
Please rescue me and my children we want a better
life full
of drug addiction, selfishness,
alcoholic fathers, crime, and to learn the true art
of religious bigotry.
Oh, I had all
of the excuses for why I could keep enjoying my wine in the evenings — I work hard, I give so much, I'm not an
alcoholic, I'm never hung - over, it doesn't affect my
life, it's social, it's fun, it's in the Bible for pity's sake!
In a gripping passage
of Infinite Jest, one character observes that for recovering
alcoholics, pathetically unironic and gauche expressions like «one day at a time» can make the difference between
life and death.
Our description
of the
alcoholic, the chapter to the agnostic, and our personal adventures before and after make clear three pertinent ideas: (a) That we were
alcoholic and could not manage our own
lives.
I believe we have God's energy manifesting in us every day
of our
lives (Marianne W. Gilliam, How
Alcoholics Anonymous Failed Me: My Personal Journey to Sobriety Through Self - Empowerment [New York: William Morrow, 19981, p. 45; bold face added).
As to
alcoholics, he says: «The broad interpretation that best fits the evidence is that heavy drinkers are people for whom drinking has become a central activity in their way
of life... for the long - term heavy drinker,
life has come to center on drinking —
life [that] is pervaded by a preoccupation with drinking, shaped and driven by the quest for drink, drinking situations, and drinking friends» (p. 100).
They are not suggesting that
alcoholics turn their
lives over to the care
of these inanimate objects.
As far as accepting others, as a recovering drug addict &
alcoholic living under bridges a couple
of decades ago, Jesus met me where I was.
Ego weakness is present in many chronic
alcoholics and drug addicts, persons with multiple psychosomatic problems, delinquents and criminals, and people whose
lives seem to consist
of one (or several) crisis after another.
When his higher Power changes f.rom «the group» to God, it is often an indication
of psychological growth in the sense that he now feels accepted by
life itself (instead
of just the ingroup
of fellow
alcoholics).
The type
of alcoholic who makes his
living by panhandling has an inner contempt for those he exploits.
A major block in the spiritual
life of the drinking
alcoholic, which often continues as a barrier during his sober
life, is a magical understanding and use
of religion.
A third way in which the minister's counseling skills can be useful to the recovering
alcoholic's re-synthesis
of his
life is in helping to further his spiritual growth.
When a recovering
alcoholic comes to him for help with his religious problems or with the «spiritual angle» in AA, he has an opportunity to contribute to the creativity
of that person's new way
of life.
The clergyman - counselor can contribute significantly to helping the
alcoholic move toward the goal
of reconstructing his
life without alcohol.
If they are illegal then there is the constant fear
of living as an «outlaw» afraid to report abuses, even rape or other crimes, to the authorities, but then the same fears arise for drug users or
alcoholics; the authorities are not perceived as being sympathetic to someone who needs to «shoot - up» or drink regularly, whose only source
of income is to sell drugs or their bodies.
The clergyman should remember that whatever he does will register as religious in the sense that he represents the spiritual dimension
of life and the religious community to the
alcoholic.
The new way
of life of the recovering
alcoholic is a path along which he moves rather than a static goal which he achieves.
The fact that so few use alcohol now and, more important, that most
of them have established adequate personal
lives would seem to give good reason to expect that few, if any, would become
alcoholics.
The person may begin to question whether he is really an
alcoholic, since he feels so well and is obviously in competent control
of his
life.
The thing that Longfellow said about our enemies is equally applicable to the
alcoholic: «If we could read the secret history
of our enemies, we should find in each man's
life sorrow and suffering enough to disarm all hostility.»