For the next few days,
listen to your child without any plan or desire to respond.
Not exact matches
The wife who can sympathize and soothe when her husband comes home from work shattered and angry, and the husband who can
listen without being threatened or critical when his wife has had a bad day with the
children, are satisfying their own need
to be needed as well as the other's need
to be temporarily dependent.
Correcting behavior
without condemning feeling,
listening to and accepting fears and worries
without taking charge in an overprotective way, allowing free rein
to the developing need for freedom while at the same time holding fast
to the limits appropriate
to his age — these are the continuing bases of parent -
child intimacy.
The baby was taken from the parents by
child protection
without even
listening to the parents or investigating.
Your
child has up
to a 1.7 % chance of having this outcome, and that's partially based on whether you have good nutrition, have high levels of vitamin k, have a c - section, take antibiotics during your labor... Do your research, ladies, instead of
listening to this doctor call people who raise their kids
without medicine «crazy».
Be sure that your
child knows that he can go
to you with a problem and that you will
listen to whatever problems he may be having
without fear of losing your love or affection.
When your
children get into a fight, keep your sense of humor,
listen to both kids
without taking sides, empathize, and help them work out a win / win solution.
Her methods are all about
listening to your
child and with that teaching him
to be independent
without abandoning him
to learn
to do so.
How
to Talk So Kids Will
Listen &
Listen So Kids Will Talk by Adele Faber This bestselling classic includes fresh insights and suggestions as well as the author's time - tested methods
to solve common problems and build foundations for lasting relationships, including innovative ways
to: · Cope with your
child's negative feelings, such as frustration, anger, and disappointment · Express your strong feelings
without being hurtful · Engage your
child's willing cooperation · Set firm limits and maintain goodwill · Use alternatives
to punishment that promote self - discipline · Understand the difference between helpful and unhelpful praise · Resolve family conflicts peacefully Enthusiastically praised by parents and professionals around the world, the down -
to - earth, respectful approach of Faber and Mazlish makes relationships with
children of all ages less stressful and more rewarding.
Eat together at least once a week Sitting around the table
without the distraction of the TV is a crucial time
to listen to what is going on in your
child's life.
Give your
children the freedom
to express themselves and
listen without judgment,
listen actively,
listen to learn and
to understand.
Quiet activities like being read a story or
listening to music help the
child learn
to fall asleep
without problems.
Even better is the fact that your
child can
listen to her favorite book over and over again
without you having
to read it a million times!
Listening (
without distractions)
to what your
child has
to say is at least as important as what you have
to say.
There is a lot you can do
to nurture your
child without touching them, for example, by
listening to them, taking an interest in their lives, helping them solve problems, playing together, and sharing time together.
Listen to your
child's words
without judging and criticizing.
Listen to what your
child has
to say
without passing judgment.
Listening to «soothing» ocean sounds, watching a projection of that smug freaking sheep jump tirelessly over the fence, and desperately trying
to army crawl out of your
child's room
without being discovered?
Listening and respecting how they are feeling shows you respect their boundaries.Your communication with your
child is supposed
to be harmonious and respectful
without verbal abuse and attacks.
Remember both parents love the
children equally, so it is only fair that you
listen without judgement
to any of their parenting suggestions and concerns.
So, the authoritative parent doesn't just say no,
without a reason, and does
listen to the
child's point of view.
So we have
to make sure each
child goes outside of his / her comfort zone and speaks and
listens to every
child in the classroom on a regular basis (I cringe
to think of my days as a new high school teacher when I am sure «student K» went the whole year
without uttering a sentence
to «student G» and vice versa.)
We shape
children's integrity by treating them with respect and dignity, and
listening to their feelings and concerns
without judgment.
They can
listen to children in a relaxed way
without an agenda, reflect back their understandings, and share their knowledge of the world.
School: Yes / No / I don't know... (my guess here is that the school administrator would likely want
to say «Yes», but would more likely say «No» and give a reason that the
child really needs
to understand the context of the word, and
without supervision, the words might not be properly understood (and could be deemed harmful
to others
listening.)
Acceptance of at least some violence as the norm in intimate relationships; fear of what the abusers will do
to them or their
children, family members, homes, or pets; loyalty
to the abusers; conviction that the abusers want
to and are trying
to stop the violence; determination
to solve the problem
without outside intervention; economic dependence on the abusers» incomes; unsuccessful prior attempts
to enlist help; distrust of helping agencies; shame; and certainty that those
listening do not want
to hear the story — it is a powerful list.
Listen to the concerns of
children, parents and carers
without judgement and help them think through their problems.
Involve your
child in conversations: Talking with your
child and involving them in conversations can help them
to learn the rules of communication such as waiting for a turn, expressing ideas and
listening without interrupting.
Having a caring adult
to turn
to when they are troubled, someone who will
listen, understand
without judging, and help them solve problems, is a critical protective factor for
children's mental health.
To learn the skills for effective conflict resolution children need to be able to acknowledge their own point of view and listen to others» views without fearing that they will be blamed or judge
To learn the skills for effective conflict resolution
children need
to be able to acknowledge their own point of view and listen to others» views without fearing that they will be blamed or judge
to be able
to acknowledge their own point of view and listen to others» views without fearing that they will be blamed or judge
to acknowledge their own point of view and
listen to others» views without fearing that they will be blamed or judge
to others» views
without fearing that they will be blamed or judged.
Listen carefully
to what is said
without interrupting — it is easy for
children to lose track of what they want
to say if they are interrupted.
Listen carefully
to what is being said in words and through your
child's body language
without interrupting.
Support your
children by helping them express emotions, and commit
to truly
listening to these feelings
without getting defensive.
Virginia from Anaheim explains, «This course helped me with my
children to understand and
listen without getting angry.
Adele Faber and Elaine Mazlish, authors of How
to Talk So Kids Will
Listen &
Listen So Kids Will Talk suggest just describing your
child's positive behaviour,
without any added evaluation.
As Alice Miller (author of Drama of the Gifted
Child) says, people need an «enlightened witness»
to the childhood pain in order
to heal — someone who can
listen without judgment and help uncover the impact that the experience had on who you were then and who you are now.
«Current practices in reunification therapy may involve simply
listening to the
child's litany of complaints against the targeted parent, having the targeted parent apologize
to the
child for supposed parental failures (often exaggerated, distorted, or even fabricated by the
child), and encouraging the further disempowerment of the targeted parent who must seek
to appease the
child, continually, and
without success in altering the
child's rejection.
Temperament Tools By: Helen Neville & Diane Clark Johnson Raising Your Spirited
Child By: Mary Sheedy Kurcinka Easy
to Love, Hard
to Discipline By: Dr. Becky Bailey Emotional Mayhem By: Dr. Becky Bailey How
to Talk so Your
Children will
Listen and How
to Listen so Your
Child will Talk By: Adele Faber & Elaine Mazlish Siblings
Without Rivalry By: Adele Faber & Elaine Mazlish Redirecting
Children's Behavior By: Kathryn Kvols Explosive
Child By: Dr.Ross Greene 10 conversations You Need
to Have with Your
Children By: Shmuley Boteach Parenting
Children With ADHD By: Vincent J. Monastra, Phd
Remember both parents love the
children equally, so it is only fair that you
listen without judgement
to any of their parenting suggestions and concerns.
My precious sweet mother taught me
without a word — how
to pray for your
children (on your knees, in the wee morning hours, over the open Word of God)(I don't think she never knew that I would get up too just
to watch and
listen, peeking from down the hallway).