Not exact matches
rogerb12b,
instead of
listening to your
parents, you decided
to listen to liars tell you stories about the big bang or evolution that you are the survival of the fittest.
We co-sleep, I have never sleep - trained or put my baby on a schedule, I nurse on demand
instead of using pacifiers, and I have
listened to my heart when it comes
to parenting my VERY spirited, energetic, strong - willed little girl.
Had I read a book telling me what
to do, I might have missed his cues, but
instead I followed attachment
parenting and
listened to my heart.
I think a much more productive approach would be
to find out why the
parent has chosen
to impart a certain method, and
instead of judging,
listen.
You hear a ton of advice as a new
parent, and the only regrets I have are ones where I
listened to advice
instead of that strong feeling in my gut.»
Instead, he recommends that
parents say something like, «I can tell you don't want
to talk about the game right now, but if you want
to talk about it later today, or tomorrow, or later this week, I will be happy
to listen.»
Americans
listen to stupid doctors for
parenting advice
instead of their own intuition as
parents... our country is SO effed up in the
parenting / nurturing / bonding category... but somehow we still wonder why Americans as a whole are so angry?
For instance, he said, a premature infant who spent critical developmental weeks
listening to white noise in the hospital may «prioritize» that kind of noise later in life, preferentially tuning into background sounds
instead of paying attention
to the voice of a
parent or teacher.
Because more and more Indian singles are using online dating services
instead of
listening to their
parents» for «arranged marriages», you won't be surprised
to see so many Indian men and women using online dating websites.
Instead, the music composed by Tyler Bates has become the first score
to earn the famous Parental Advisory warning
parents that their children might hear some naughty language while
listening to the album in question.
Though the dreams of her stern
parents have their little girl studying at Oxford next year (and Jenny has the credentials and talent
to see it through) her greatest joys come from
listening to her Juliette Greco albums, as oppose
to playing her cello, and speaking French
instead of her dry school - book Latin.
«
Instead of
listening to and trusting
parents and teachers
to know and do what's right for students, the commissioner has offered meaningless rhetoric and token change.
But
instead of
listening to me, or the voices of the other
parents who came out that day, Mayor Bill de Blasio blew right past.
They had
to listen instead of trying
to convince
parents and leaders what was important.
«We thank the senators — Republicans and Democrats — who said no
to Betsy DeVos, and,
instead,
listened to the voices of students,
parents, and educators.
I should have
listened to my
parents and gotten a degree that was marketable but
instead my liberal arts degree has left me with nothing but debt and a job as a barista in a local coffee shop unable
to repay my student loan.
* recognize your current, habitual patterns of communication * challenge and change your stories about the other
parent * deepen your understanding and management of your emotional responses * manage your ego
instead of blaming the other
parent * understand how you use and abuse power and authority in a relationship *
listen as an act of being present * become curious when you believe you already know the answer * ask questions
to confirm your understanding of what is being communicated before you respond.
«Toxic
parents are known for not
listening to their kids, but
instead, talking over them or at them...
parents (should) make a concerted effort
to remain silent and
listen,
listen, and
listen some more... (the child) will talk more and confide more.»
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